]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/pleasure-woman-sex-advice-men-lesbian/feed/0Getting Sexual Via Texthttp://www.winggirlmethod.com/getting-sexual-via-text/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/getting-sexual-via-text/#commentsTue, 24 Feb 2015 18:07:11 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=18727Today I want to talk a little bit about getting sexual via text, or “Sexting” as the kids are calling it these days. In his new book “Text 2 Sex,” Race de Priest breaks down all his greatest techniques to … keep reading

Today I want to talk a little bit about getting sexual via text, or “Sexting” as the kids are calling it these days.

In his new book “Text 2 Sex,” Race de Priest breaks down all his greatest techniques to seduce women and get them over to your place, all by sending texts.

Turning the Conversation Sexual

If you don’t know this now, it is my duty to tell you that it is your job as the man to escalate the conversation to a sexual place. One of the biggest problems that I’ve seen guys have is making that simple transition from innocent conversation to sexual conversation. There is one great technique that Race taught me called “directive misinterpretation.”

Every text that a woman sends provides you with an opportunity to take something she says and turn it around to make it sexual. Some of my favorite techniques include:

Sexual Innuendos

“That’s What She Said” Texts

Tease her for having a dirty mind

Accuse of her trying to seduce you

Sexual Innuendos

Sexual innuendos are statements that talk about, or describe something non-sexual in a way that alludes to something sexual. Sexual innuendos are the foundation to creating and building sexual tension extremely quickly via text. Because it is so easy to incorporate them into your text, these should be the backbone of your sexual texts starting immediately.

If you’ve ever seen “The Office,” you’re familiar with the ‘That’s What She Said’ game, in which the main character says “that’s what she says” after something that can be taken sexually. Whenever she’s texting you about something that is “harder,” “bigger,” “smaller,” etc. than expected, drop a “That’s what she said” text into the mix.

The reason that sexual innuendos are so great is because they allow you subtly introduce sexuality in such a way that seems fun and innocent. It’s very sad that in our culture, talking about sex is very taboo, and this allows for a safe way for people to get sexual via text.

However, it should be noted that beautiful women are very used to getting sexual texts from many men, and using her sexuality as a way to influence and get what she wants. Your mindset should be very loose and relaxed while getting sexual with girls via text. Remember – this is no big deal, because you are used to this.

Keeping it light and playful and fun will ensure that you alwayshave fun getting sexual via text. Use these ideas correctly, and you’ll be transitioning from sexting to sex in no time…

]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/getting-sexual-via-text/feed/0Tell-All Q&A Session With Yours Trulyhttp://www.winggirlmethod.com/tell-all-qa/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/tell-all-qa/#commentsMon, 28 Apr 2014 21:31:03 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=17929Before the weekend, I did a live Q&A with AskMen, the world’s largest online male publication… And along with Keven Underago, filmmaker, businessman, and successful boyfriend to the BEAUTIFUL Marie Menounos, we covered EVERYTHING from the dating world, to the … keep reading

]]>Before the weekend, I did a live Q&A with AskMen, the world’s largest online male publication…

And along with Keven Underago, filmmaker, businessman, and successful boyfriend to the BEAUTIFUL Marie Menounos, we covered EVERYTHING from the dating world, to the sex world…and all the complicated funny business in between

This is the longest time I spent answering men’s most pressing questions…and I’m glad I did…because these guys did NOT hold back!

What was really great about doing this was that you got to hear a guy’s point of view on how he landed gorgeous, beautiful women…just by hanging out more with his FRIENDS.

Anyway I’m not gonna hold you up any longer…so without further adieu here’s a replay of this awesome tell-all event:

Ok I know that was pretty long…and if you didn’t get through the whole thing NO WORRIES!

This could serve as an AWESOME reference guide whenever you need to go back and get any of your questions answered…because that’s exactly what it’s meant to do:

Shed light on just about every burning question, situation, and scenario you could come across with women.

And if you want more step-by-step guidance on becoming the ultimate man that EVERY woman wants…

]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/tell-all-qa/feed/2Porn vs. Real Sexhttp://www.winggirlmethod.com/porn-vs-real-sex/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/porn-vs-real-sex/#commentsWed, 16 Apr 2014 22:32:43 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=17869So I’ve kind of had a rough day that I want to vent about. I’ve had to go see 3 Dr.’s today. Don’t worry, it’s nothing that serious but in all honesty it’s been a scary, tough day for me. … keep reading

What Did You Think Of This Video?

]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/porn-vs-real-sex/feed/6When Is It Okay To Talk Dirty To A Woman?http://www.winggirlmethod.com/when-is-it-okay-to-talk-dirty-to-a-woman-2/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/when-is-it-okay-to-talk-dirty-to-a-woman-2/#commentsFri, 07 Mar 2014 23:33:12 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=17763When is it okay to talk dirty to a woman? This is an area that has been fascinating me for the past week after getting an email from one of my clients, who I will refer to as D. Email: … keep reading

This is an area that has been fascinating me for the past week after getting an email from one of my clients, who I will refer to as D.

Email:

Marni,

Thanks for all your advice. I am having too much fun now. I wish I truly understood this side of me in my teens and twenties. Just knowing exactly what I want and what truly motivates me to pursue.

I am taking your advice on giving my dates a second chance. I didn’t know that you all (women) in general could be so wild. Now, I’m finding out even the shy/boring acting ones are too. I told this one girl I was on a second date with in so many words that her perfume smelled like an edible flower that I wanted to devour and from that point 80% of our conversation was sexual (mutually).

what is up with that?;)

D

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D has been experimenting with flirting, banter and escalating to sexual conversations with women. And I must say, he is doing very well. What he is learning is that the less he constricts himself on what he CAN say, the more attracted, excited and open women become.
Why? Because lack of rules mixed with, being attracted and feeling safe, cause a subtle rush of excitement.

I gave D my response but wanted to dive a little deeper with other women in my network. So I sent an email out to about 200 women to ask them their thoughts on when it is okay to talk dirty to a woman, do women like to talk dirty and what did they think of D’s actions?

I got some mixed responses, which I have posted below. My commentary will be at the end:

J – (26). Truth. Once I have a few cocktails I am up for anything, especially if I am into the guy. Drunk translates to feeling relaxed and comfortable. Know what I mean?

A – (40) I’m sorry, this may not be very generous of me, but is this guy 15? He sounds totally ill-equipped to be dating grown women.

Ellen (59) – My response might be relative to how much i have had to drink. un-drunk, 2nd date, i find it creepy; unless that is what you want from the relationship, just sex. In a relationship, when you feel safe, you can have dirty/sexy talk, why not?

S – (28) That’s a pretty good line. I think it gets a response because flowers conjure up feeling of beauty, delicate-ness, a delicious-ness that every woman wants to feel & have it related to her. Therefore it is not too threatening and very sensual. I would definitely respond to it – #1 – if I was wearing a floral scented perfume (which I usually don’t, so could be viewed as a total come on line) #2 – if I was feeling some chemistry from our 1st date, I’d be open to sexually tinged conversation on the 2nd…

C – (32) – Hmmmm…. For me, I found the email to be sweet. It sounds to me like this man is exploring his natural impulses of sensuality. Rather than staying all buttoned-up tight as lots of our societal conditioning can want us to be! Personally… I’m a big fan of tapping into the more primal energies that I believe are always present… But not always accessed in our everyday modern lives. I think I would have enjoyed his question as well… IF… And this is a big IF… It came from a pure place of sensual pleasure. If it came from a creepy place, then of course it would be a different story. But I think I would have appreciated his creativity, and his risk to break outside of the dating mold. I like, what I call, a little grrrrrrrrr-rr-rr-r-rr in a conversation!

E – (30) He needs to be careful because there is a fine line between saying something to get a rise and sexual harassment. It may be rewarding if the girl is the same way.

JM – (29) If you are into him, it’s hot – not if he is a nerd. That would totally creep me out.

Marni’s Commentary:

Here are my thoughts on the topic. I truly believe that deep down inside most women crave to be released sexually BUT they want to be released in a safe and secure environment.

Let me explain. Women are more locked sexually than men because of the backlash women constantly receive for being overtly sexual. Names like whore and slut come to mind. I think for a lot of women moving past the fear of being labeled is difficult to do. I know that when I was younger I never wanted to be placed in either of those categories. Therefore I held back sexually until I was sure that the man would not take advantage of me and respected me. Sadly for me it locked me up sexually.

Fortunately I have a partner now who has been able to “unlock” me and help me really experience sex.

Now that I am more comfortable with my sexuality I would love if someone I LIKED talked to me the way D talked to his date. It’s fun, it’s exciting and it’s out of the norm. I will say that even though I am not a big drinker, a little alcohol would help me drop my inhibitions and fears and I would gladly play along.

Just note that the creepy comment comes up several times in the responses above. There is a fine line between being sexually exciting and creepy. Be careful not to cross that line. Baby steps, feel out the women you are with. She will tell you how far you can go and how comfortable she is with talking dirty.

TAKE AWAY: Women are open to being sexual, if anything they WANT to be sexual as long as they feel comfortable.

Want to hear more honest and real opinions straight from the mouths of women on sex, attraction, being approached, connecting, dating, relationships and tons more? Then Click Here.

What are your thoughts on this topic?

I would love to hear your experiences, opinions or any questions you have.

]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/when-is-it-okay-to-talk-dirty-to-a-woman-2/feed/1Marni Recommends: Top Resources For 2014http://www.winggirlmethod.com/marni-recommends-top-resources-for-2014/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/marni-recommends-top-resources-for-2014/#commentsWed, 25 Dec 2013 17:54:13 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=17432I want you to be as ready for 2014 as possible which is why I have put together a list of my top resources YOU NEED to get, to start 2014 off right! You probably see a lot of information … keep reading

]]>I want you to be as ready for 2014 as possible which is why I have put together a list of my top resources YOU NEED to get, to start 2014 off right!

You probably see a lot of information and advice from other experts/gurus etc… out there in terms of getting girls…

And sometimes it can be tough to figure out who’s good, who’s bad and who actually knows what they are talking about!

A lot of guys ask me what I think about other programs and experts. Which ones work. Which ones are complete BS and which ones would I personally recommend.

So… I thought I’d make my own list for you to help cover all your bases

So here are suggestions for top resources for 2014.

Please know that I don’t just endorse these resources cause I like the people. I have actually read, watched and listened to everything that I recommend. Which is why I know they are good, quality materials that you will benefit from.

I’ve listed them out by specific categories to help you

For Attracting, Dating and Inner Game:

1. Body Language, Tonality, and Mindset (The Tao of Badass) – As the title suggests, this product is GREAT in terms of helping you double your success with women without having to approach them! The Tao talks about little tweaks you can make in the comfort of your own home…to get women approaching YOU the second you step out.

2. Text That Girl (Race De Priest) – You’ve probably seen me talking about this product a couple times because I think it’s THAT GREAT (I’m not gonna lie I use his tips myself now whenever I’m texting people in general). Race does an awesome job to give you templates and texts to get girls replying to you every time…and wanting to see you out of all the other guys in her phone.

3. High Status Humor (Zach Browman) – Marilyn Monroe once said that, “If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do ANYTHING.” And I can say that this is 100% true. When you make a girl laugh, you create an overwhelming amount of positive energy in her body…which she IMMEDIATELY connects to YOU. And High Status Humor is gonna help you become the guy that girls laugh WITH…instead of AT from now on.

4. Pheromone Advantage: I don’t know if you know what pheromones are…but they’re these chemicals that we secrete that instantly trigger a sexual interest in the opposite sex. I’m no scientist and I swear this was BS before I saw it in action myself…but this guy named Dr. Amend actually created this highly concentrated pheromone formula that will make you stop women DEAD IN THEIR TRACKS whenever you’re wearing it. I saw for myself what this does and you will LITERALLY have women chasing you and doing anything they can to have you once you use Pheromone Advantage. So use this at your own risk!

5. Porn Star Sex Life: Haha AGAIN as this title suggests you’re gonna have JUST THAT by the time you’re done with this program. In these somehow PG-13 videos (this is NOT porn), famous porn stars teach you EXACTLY where and how to touch a
woman to send her reeling with excitement and begging for more. If you wanna be the guy that EVERY WOMAN comes back to…and the ONLY GUY she’ll want from now on, this is definitely the program for you.

6. Girlfriend Activation System (Jonathan Hudson): Don’t you love how self-explanatory these titles are? Ha well if you’ve had your fill of dates and girls and you’re ready to settle down with a woman of YOUR choosing, this program will help you do just that.

Girlfriend Activation system will help you find the RIGHT girl without having to settle or wait a millennia to find Miss Right.

7. Text Your Ex Back (Digital Romance): This may sound odd and completely farfetched…but did you know there are subtle words and phrases you can use to illicit passion and romance BACK into a past relationship? If you’re a guy who knows damn well he HAD Miss Right and you need to get her back, this is the product that’s gonna help you resurrect the spark you once had to get your girl running back into your arms.

]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/marni-recommends-top-resources-for-2014/feed/1Why Women Cheat (And How To Avoid It Happening To YOU)http://www.winggirlmethod.com/why-women-cheat/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/why-women-cheat/#commentsThu, 13 Jun 2013 20:57:24 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=16557It’s no secret that women cheat just as much (if not more!) than men do… But the reasons for doing so are COMPLETELY different. When men cheat, it’ usually void of emotions, intentions, and motives…mostly it’s because they came across … keep reading

But nobody ever blames the housewife for messing around with the pool boy…in fact that always makes for salacious (if not WILDLY entertaining) gossip.

Just think of the great love affairs of all time: Robert and Francesca in The Bridges of Madison County; Jack and Rose in Titanic; CARRIE AND BIG!

Society teaches us that MEN, if you cheat…you’re in for QUITE a financial raping in divorce court…cuz you deserve it!

But, LADIES, if YOU cheat…you’re in for a WILDLY romantic and THRILLINGLY erotic adventure that he’ll never have to know about cuz he’s always off busy working anyway

Now I’m not gonna write women off as desperately bored to the point of needing to open their legs to
wider pastures…but rather I’m saying the thrill of it all coupled with the validation of another man sexually desiring us make for the perfect storm.

Because that’s what straying with another man does for us, it makes us feel sexy again, wanted, beautiful and special among all the OTHER women out there.

I’ll admit I’ve cheated in a relationship…

And I also have to admit that I always had a whirlwind of confusion, turmoil, doubt, SUSPENSE,
EXCITEMENT, and ridiculously amazing sex every time…

Mostly because of the drama I was creating and also because I wasn’t getting it in my CURRENT
relationship.

And that was something I was not willing to address with my current partner at the time…the not feeling wanted or sexy anymore.

See women cheat as a means to get something exciting for themselves TO avoid the REAL issues
going on in their current relationships: lack of communication, passion, feeling of insecurity.

Because at the end of the day the drama is really replacing our need for attention, warmth, passion,
excitement, to feel desired, wanted, sought after ALL OF IT.

When we don’t have all those things, we start to feel like your mother, your sister, your friend, your
ROOMMATE.

What makes relationships between a man and wife or boyfriend and girlfriend SO SPECIAL is the intimacy, both emotional and physical…

Once it’s gone it’s no different than how we are with family and friends…

And that’s a very sad, very lonely thing for a woman to feel.

But if you know how to keep things hot, exciting, and constantly have her on the edge of her seat (and bed in the throes of passion), you won’t have to worry about a woman cheating on you…

Because YOU will be the hero, the Don Juan, and the knight in shining armor to her story.

We really just wanna know that you WILL be our hero and our savior even after we stop wearing makeup in front of you, or start wearing granny panties to bed, or even just wanna lounge around in sweats with our hair in a bun!

Now I’ll never say that keeping passion alive in a relationship is something you can easily google and
take care of TONIGHT.

It takes a strong man to see the signs, to know how to handle it, and to actually DO something about it.

You see, becoming a man women want doesn’t mean just attracting her and making her want you for one night…it means keeping her and keeping the both of you happy and in love for many many nights to come.

Now that doesn’t necessarily mean you need years of couples therapy in order to achieve the passion, excitement, love and COMMITMENT that you want in your relationship.

But you will need the right direction and guidance.

So today, I challenge you to not only become the man that your woman initially wanted, but to become the ONLY man she’ll ever want.

]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/why-women-cheat/feed/7ANNOUNCEMENT: Ask Women Podcast Starts Next Weekhttp://www.winggirlmethod.com/annoucement-ask-women-podcast-starts-this-week/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/annoucement-ask-women-podcast-starts-this-week/#commentsFri, 10 May 2013 15:03:17 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=15938I have some really big news!!! Big news that I may have mentioned to you before but now it’s actually happening. I am finally doing a Podcast and I am so excited about it. Me and 3 other amazing, intelligent … keep reading

Big news that I may have mentioned to you before but now it’s actually happening.

I am finally doing a Podcast and I am so excited about it.

Me and 3 other amazing, intelligent SUPER HOT women, are going to be doing a weekly FREE podcast called Ask Women.

Each week me and these 3 lovely ladies will be giving you realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man.

To ensure you get all the updates on the podcast, you can follow @askwomenpodcast on twitter and I’ll also update you through email so that you don’t miss it.

I will have full instructions for you next week on:

1. Where and when to listen to the podcast

2. How to download the podcast

I’ll also be introducing you to the other 3 women that will be part of Ask Women.But for now, here are some preview pics of them:

I am so excited for you to get to know these girls and for them to educate you on the ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across.

Be the first to get details on the Ask Women Podcast by following @askwomenpodcast on twitter Click the link to follow us now and PLEASE share this with others!!!

]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/annoucement-ask-women-podcast-starts-this-week/feed/11The secret to desire in a long-term relationshiphttp://www.winggirlmethod.com/the-secret-to-desire-in-a-long-term-relationship/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/the-secret-to-desire-in-a-long-term-relationship/#commentsFri, 15 Feb 2013 17:48:06 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=14422Really interesting video on the how to keep desire alive in a long-term relationship. In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues in the video below, good … keep reading

]]>Really interesting video on the how to keep desire alive in a long-term relationship.

In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues in the video below, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire? With wit and eloquence, Perel lets us in on the mystery of erotic intelligence.

]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/the-secret-to-desire-in-a-long-term-relationship/feed/2Do You Think You’re A Good Loverhttp://www.winggirlmethod.com/do-you-think-youre-a-good-lover/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/do-you-think-youre-a-good-lover/#commentsSun, 10 Feb 2013 14:47:39 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=14409Do you think you’re a good lover?? Honestly, you don’t have to answer that right now but think about it. A good lover, from a woman’s POV, is one that is present and connected to her in the bedroom whether … keep reading

A good lover, from a woman’s POV, is one that is present and connected to her in the bedroom whether it’s for one night of fun and excitement or a lifetime. A good lover is also someone that understands her body inside and out and knows how to calm her mind so that she can really “open up”.

I get A LOT of men writing into me who are concerned because they are not sure if they are good lovers. Sometimes it’s because they don’t have a lot of experience with sex and some of them are even virgins. But there are also many that just aren’t sure.

Be honest with me right now. At some point or another YOU have questioned whether or not you are good in bed.

I know I have.

I will tell you the same thing I tell each of these guys. Just because a guy has experience in the bedroom (or the back seat of a car) DOES NOT mean that he is a good lover.

In fact, many men who started having sex at an early age never acquired skills on how to be good in the bedroom because they didn’t think they had to. When I was younger I didn’t even know what an orgasm felt like.I was just excited that I was having sex which is why it was easier to please me.

BUT NOW, I want more.

I know what an orgasm feels like and I can definitely tell the difference between good sex and bad sex. So what can you do right now to ensure that you are a good lover, even if you are not as experienced as you’d like to be?

You can educate yourself!

Ok. So here’s the deal.

Sexual inexperience is NOT a turn off for women UNLESS you let it lower your confidence and ruin the connection you may have with her during sex. Excitement, interest and intrigue are all part of the sexual adventure that make things fun.

What I would suggest is that you study.

Get confidence from what you know so that you yourself know that you can sexually pleasure a woman once you have the opportunity.

But lack of knowledge plus lack of experience will create a low sense of confidence around sex.

Here are a couple of resources that I want you to check out:

I myself have seen (and applied) and strongly recommend the programs below if you want to improve your sex life:

1. Free CD on The Secrets of A Masterful Lover from David Shade.

Excellent materials from a man whose wife left him because he was a bad lover. Pretty sure that’s not the entire reason she left but it’s his reason.

He then spent 15-20 years researching to develop Masterful Lover.

He walks you through the whole process of getting into the correct mindset to be a Masterful lover and rock a woman’s world.

Great material and if you use the following link you will get a free MP3 from him.

**This one is for a mature audience who wants to focus on the Mindset of a great lover.

2. Porn Star Sex Life – 3 Pornstars and Penthouse Pets reveal the myths porn teaches you and how to be a rockstar in bed and AMAZING with foreplay.

Don’t let the name scare you away. It is lessons from a former porn star but it one of the most informative videos I have seen on how to pleasure a woman. It doesn’t feel seedy, it feels informative and educational.

There are tons of other great resources out there, but those are my top recommendations. Which is a great start for now!! Trust me when I tell you that a man who understands how to REALLY pleasure a woman is a man who never has an empty bed.

So go get one of these programs and start educating yourself. I guarantee it will give you good bedroom Karma

]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/do-you-think-youre-a-good-lover/feed/11Tips For Making An “Oral” Experience Better For Womenhttp://www.winggirlmethod.com/tips-for-making-an-oral-experience-better-for-women/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/tips-for-making-an-oral-experience-better-for-women/#commentsFri, 04 Jan 2013 16:42:46 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=14223If you want girls to want to go down on you, gotta make their experience as enjoyable as possible. Here are my top tips for how to make the “oral” experience better for women. WHAT DID YOU THINK? Leave a … keep reading

]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/tips-for-making-an-oral-experience-better-for-women/feed/20How To Turn A Woman On: Be Sexual Leaderhttp://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-turn-a-woman-on-be-sexual-leader/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-turn-a-woman-on-be-sexual-leader/#commentsThu, 10 May 2012 23:45:50 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=12263All I can say is OMG you gotta watch this video if you want to see an example of what women crave, desire and want sexually. It's so funny how things pop up for you at the right time. I … keep reading

]]>All I can say is OMG you gotta watch this video if you want to see an example of what women crave, desire and want sexually.

It's so funny how things pop up for you at the right time. I have been getting tons of email about body language and sexual confidence. When BOOM, while watching an episode of my new favorite show GIRLS on HBO, a great visual example of it flashed in front of me. You gotta watch this as soon as possible because I am pretty sure HBO is going to get me to take this down ASAP.

*Please post your comments and questions below and make sure to LIKE this video

As I said in the video, I literally grunted, screamed out “That's Hot” and then walked out of the room. I don't know if all women would have had the same reaction, but I am very certain most women want that excitement in their sex lives. They want to be with an assertive, sexual leader.

Every woman I talk to tells me about how they wish their man knew when to be assertive. In fact one of my girlfriends just said to me last night “This new guy that I'm seeing just knows what I want in the bedroom. I would ask my ex-husband to slap my ass all the time but he would never do it. This guy just knows and I like it. It excites me.”

It feels so amazing to be wanted by a confident man. Desire by high status (a.k.a a confident man who can lead) is the hottest thing!

So next time you are in a sexual situation with a woman and you can feel her wanting you, follow the example in the video. Stay grounded and go after what you want. If its not reciprocated, smile and walk away. Sexy!

]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-turn-a-woman-on-be-sexual-leader/feed/44How To Communicate With Your Partnerhttp://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-communicate-with-your-partner/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-communicate-with-your-partner/#commentsWed, 01 Feb 2012 23:29:57 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=11796My newest Bing/MSN video’s are live. They are all geared towards couples. Check this one out on how to communicate with your significant other. Even if you are not in a relationship, this is still great advice: Video: 2-Minute Couples … keep reading

]]>My newest Bing/MSN video’s are live. They are all geared towards couples. Check this one out on how to communicate with your significant other. Even if you are not in a relationship, this is still great advice:Video: 2-Minute Couples Coach: Communicating

]]>http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-communicate-with-your-partner/feed/010 Ways To Get Her In The Moodhttp://www.winggirlmethod.com/10-ways-to-get-her-in-the-mood/
http://www.winggirlmethod.com/10-ways-to-get-her-in-the-mood/#commentsWed, 11 Jan 2012 09:31:17 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=11595I am pretty sure I told you this already, but I write a column for Canada’s top male publication, UMM. My articles are in every issue Here’s a piece I wrote called 10 Ways To Get Her In The Mood. … keep reading

]]>I am pretty sure I told you this already, but I write a column for Canada’s top male publication, UMM. My articles are in every issue

Here’s a piece I wrote called 10 Ways To Get Her In The Mood.

I am about to rock your world by revealing the #1 myth about women and sex. Ready for it?

Women want sex just as much as men do, if not more than men. Women are sexual, sensual beasts waiting to be released by the RIGHT man in just the RIGHT way.

Here are 10 Ways ToGet Her In The Mood whether you are dating, simply seducing or in a long-term relationship.

#1. Get Her Out of Her Head.

The #1 thing that blocks or stops women from enjoying a sexual/sensual experience is that thing on top of her shoulders. Her head. For women, sex is far more mental than physical. The more you help make a women feel accepted, attractive and safe during any sexual act, the more free she will be. When you provide a safe space it allows a woman’s mind to free itself of insecurities and actually enjoy being in the moment. If you ease her mind, you’ll loosen her body!

** After reading this article – go watch my video on how to calm a woman’s mind so that she will do whatever you want!Click Here

#2. Calm Her Nerves.

My nickname in high school was The Kissing Bandit, which was a fancy way of calling me a prude.

When I was 18, I went backpacking in Australia and safely kissed my way up the east coast. That is, until I met a guy who broke me out of my shell. I met him at a club, we went back to our hostel and started making out. Prude Marni kicked in. I clenched and got uncomfortable. He noticed my quick change in behavior and said to me “I want you to be comfortable. If I do anything that makes you nervous or uncomfortable, just slap my hand and I will stop immediately.” I can tell you there was no hand slapping that night and I quickly got rid of my childhood nickname.

#3 Tell Her EXACTLY What You Want.

It drives me wild when a man tells me exactly what he wants to do to me. It’s exciting and sexy. Be a man, say exactly what you want, and you’ll get to beat around the bush, but in a very different way

#4 Pay Her A REAL Compliment, Not An Exaggerated One.

Give a woman a REAL compliment about her inner core rather than her exterior. Evolutionary psychologists show that women are programmed to be skeptical of what men say. It’s their way of protecting themselves from manipulative men who don’t want to commit to relationships. The more a compliment is tailored to that specific woman, the more intimate and effective it is says Tammy Nelson Ph.D.

#5 Treat Her Like A Lady.

Whether it’s for a one-night stand or for a partner of 6 years, no woman wants to feel like she’s a slut, a whore or a stupid female that’s been used. Make sure to treat every woman with respect. Be honest, don’t manipulate and treat her like a lady.

#6 Whip Out Your…

Intelligence. Now this may just be me but I get a “hard on” for men who are uber intelligent. Not the arrogant ones who want to attempt to school me on how much they know. The ones that just seem to know about stuff and talk about it with confidence and authority.

#7 Tease Her In Public.

I’m not talking about pulling her hair and telling her she smells. I’m talking about being covertly inappropriate while out in public. For example, while sitting across the table from friends, talking about politics, slide your fingers up her thigh and just around her underwear line. Do this for about 15 seconds and then remove your hand. Do a couple of these in a night and she’ll attack you as soon as you walk in the door.

#8 Bring Out Your Inner Caveman.

Nothing puts me in the mood faster than when I can feel my man craving me. “Women love to feel the desire of a man they’re into. Give your girl an unexpected, passionate kiss. Grab her hair – gently – and run your hands through it as your lips lock. And when dinners over, pick her up over your shoulder, carry her into the bedroom, and toss her onto the bed. A little spank won’t hurt along the way.” – Christian Hudson, The Social Man

#9 Start Flirting At 9am.

Anticipation is one of the most amazing aphrodisiacs. Send her 3-4 texts throughout the day telling her what you are going to do to her in the evening. Tell her how hot she is, that she turns you on and then tell her you like it when she does X. X is the thing that is unique to just her so that she knows your lines aren’t canned.

One Note: Don’t get offended if she does not respond right away or even at all. Many women are not comfortable with this type of forwardness because they don’t know how to respond. Just keep going. This shows her you are comfortable being sexual and she can be too!

#10 Touch Her Slowly!!!!!!

I just got shivers writing this one. Nothing turns me on more than when a man slowly touches me all over my body. Starting with a light massage of my feet. Then working up the leg to the inner portion of my thighs. Moving on to caressing the sides of my belly and chest and ending by brushing my back and neck with his lips. Amazing!

In fact, there’s an actual step-by-step way to touch a woman so that you can amplify her arousal with every single touch…

And if you get off course…it could INSTANTLY turn her off.

I wanna make sure you know EXACTLY how to push ALL her hot buttons…so that you not only get her “in the mood”…but you also get her ripping off your clothes, dragging you to bed, and screaming over the best sex of her LIFE

Sound good?

Good because I’ve enlisted the help of renowned Sexpert Darrah De Jour to help take your bedroom game to the next level…

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http://www.winggirlmethod.com/what-do-women-find-sexy/#commentsFri, 23 Dec 2011 18:29:22 +0000http://www.winggirlmethod.com/?p=11486Did you know that for women, the term “sexy” does not have a generic definition? Well, I did. Which is why UMM Magazine, a Canadian publication that I write for regularly, asked me to interview women and ask them “What … keep reading

]]>Did you know that for women, the term “sexy” does not have a generic definition? Well, I did. Which is why UMM Magazine, a Canadian publication that I write for regularly, asked me to interview women and ask them “What Do Women Find Sexy?”.

I am about to shatter a lot of male fantasies right now by revealing that the top “things” women find sexy are not at all related to sex. So set aside your hopes of women being turned on by hair pulling and you in your boxer briefs.

In fact, for many women, turn-ons come from simple everyday rituals, mannerisms and idiosyncrasies.

That’s because a woman’s libido is triggered by her emotions and the way something makes her feel rather than what it makes her think!

I put out a survey to my circle of female friends, confidants and Wing Girls (over 200 women). I asked each of them, What Do You Find Sexy? Below are the top 11 responses:

1) Intelligence Without Arrogance. Intelligence is sexy only when the guy’s not attempting to belittle you or be arrogant in the process. It’s extremely sexy when a man knows how to maintain his intelligence without riding a high horse in the process.

2) Voice – “When I hear a man with a deep voice that comes from his diaphragm it makes my tingle in area’s that may not be appropriate to talk about” – Daisy. A deep voice is the ultimate sign of masculinity.

3) Honesty, Loyalty & Integrity – Overall these 3 characteristics speak to a man’s character. “The measure of a man's real character is what he would do if he knew he never would be found out.” ~Thomas Babington Macaulay. Being an honest, loyal man with integrity will not only turn women on, it will keep them coming back over and over and over again.

4) Good Credit – Probably the most seemingly superficial response from my gaggle of gals, but one of the most important. Poor credit can be a huge red flag because it triggers fear that a man is not reliable, lazy and is not responsible. To save yourself from having your poor rating hold you back from attracting women, it’s important to show that you are proactively working on erasing the bad credit and committed to whipping that slate clean.

5) Great Smile – Even though recent studies have found that pictures of men smiling can decrease feelings of attraction from women, my survey proved otherwise. A nice, warm smile from a man can melt a woman’s heart and instantly turn her on. “What’s important about the smile is not the actual smile itself, but the underlying intention behind the smile. I love it when a man smirks at me in a way that says, I’m thinking something you but I’ll never tell” – Jen

6) A True Gentleman – “In all my dating years, I have only had 2 men open doors for men. 1 of those men was my first and only one night stand. The other, is now my husband” – Monica.

MEN! Do not let chivalry die. Open doors, pull out chairs, be polite to everyone. But do it because you want to, not because you think it will get you something. That’s the true definition of a gentleman.

7) Taking Out The Garbage Without Being Asked – “Want to know how to get my panties off in 30 seconds flat. Take out the trash without me having to ask you.” – Justine.

Caring gestures make women feel really good. Guys don't realize how important they are for women when it comes to getting turned on in the bedroom. To connect physically, they really need that emotional and mental connection.

8) A Sense of Self – “So many men are like Velcro. They just latch onto you. Especially when they are older or divorced, which is NOT sexy at all. ” – Mica.

Have a purpose, have an opinion, have a life, and you’ll always be the sexiest man in the room.

Before you start signing up for comedy classes, I want to be clear about what. I want a guy that makes me laugh, actually means. What a woman is really saying is, I want a guy that is light, fun and doesn’t take himself too seriously. Enjoys life always equals sexy.

10) Good Communication – They say communication is the essential foundation to all relationships but sexy? “If I am talking to a man about something and he gets emotional and defensive I am instantly turned off. Seriously. I find it especially sexy if a man can hear me and remain grounded” – Ericha

11) Confidence – When asked, women often respond the number one thing they want in a man is confidence! Confidence is nature’s signal that “I am not weak.” And no woman wants to be with a weak man. “A bald man is just as sexy as a man with thick wavy hair if he loves his head.” – Jennie

Confidence tells a woman I’m proud of who I am, I respect myself and you will always be safe with me.

So you see men, the real turns on for women do not include crazy, unachievable sexual fantasies. In fact, what women actually find the most sexy is when you are simply being the best you.

There are 1000′s of little things like this that matter to women, that most men have NO IDEA matter! Hear more from nearly 50 women on what they want, what turns them on and WHY they do the things they do to men. Click Here to find out more now!