Recently visited by a previously regular customer, we asked her why she had stopped, and why she had returned.

We opened up to her story.

She was very honest talking about how she had become very resistant to her own happiness since she had entered into an amazing job and relationship.She described how she had started to find she was resisting eating well and giving her flowers.

She went onto say that she forced herself and found herself resist herself even more. She was not bringing out the best from herself with all that aggressive force….But she did not know what to do. She found herself getting quite bitchy and just feeling quite unhappy despite all these amazing developments in her life.

She said there was a part of herself that she was now calling her ‘cool-bitch’ as she felt it was time to get to know her. This was the side of her that could follow through with the most intense focused power,without a hint of a smile and not care about the consequences to others. She went onto say that she realized that it was time to embrace and respect her.

She said something interesting began to happen. That the ‘cool bitch’ came out when she was facing a completely un-associated challenge in life which she thought she could not accomplish or achieve .

She realized that she needed to learn about the issue that she felt she could not accomplish and actually talk about it, journal it, She realized that she could be a headmistress and rock the boss experience as well as be a total nerd. This was why she was buying flowers again. She was re exploring that special relationship again.

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She had decided to let go of the fear of the part of her that felt it was protecting her with the ‘cool-bitch’ persona because it felt that it had no other way of getting what it wanted. She realized that she still had a few more personal goals to achieve and that they could only happen if she had all her energy focused in harmony within herself. Getting to know that part of her that had been using sheer brute force to get things done and getting that part of her be friendly with other parts of herself was her focus now.

“My soft evolution embracing my strong revolution” she said as she winked at us!

“There is so much more to this. I will tell you more about my journey very soon”

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Welcome to The London Flower Lover. We are florists who create floral collections to tell your real life story. With colour and texture, we take floristry into an entirely new direction based on the challenges and joys of your life.
Offering what we call 'heart based floristry' we use style, fashion, and life situations and merge them with heart based lifestyle support. This inspiring blend creates so much more for those who love flowers. Using flowers in the traditional way of course, but always using flowers to open up a floralicious conversation about relationships of all kinds. We are a sort of work in progress of compassionately confirming how we are already on the inside, the love we want to see out in the world. That is mission of The London Flower Lover.
So saying yes to recognising that is at the heart of this blog and using flowers to honour that inner world is how we use the beauty of giving and receiving flowers.
This blog is your blog. It's as much about cultivating your heart, as it is about enjoying the physical beauty of flowers.
It offers story, poems and video to reflect the life you actually live whilst showing beautifully inspiring collections of flower designs. Hand-tied bouquets, arrangements and more. All this with sought after tips from well established experts on how to keep a happy heart. This is what makes The London Flower Lover unique and magical. Yes, and that's how we make the difference that we do.
When life looks, feels, or sounds challenging, we offer a sanctuary that you may dip into. A well of refreshment and strength that you may draw from. Sharing what others have found to be successful ways of being happy in the face of challenges, whilst letting flowers do the talking when we have no other way to interpret what is going on.
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We invite you to stay curious in this floral universe as you explore the love in the heart. This is a floralicious world.