an intriguing character……

You see the thing about Bobby is…..He’s very easy to understand but hard to predict; generous to a fault; caring and addictive in a funny sort of way. Simply put, he is mildly contagious……Easy to love, easy to hate. If he likes you, its because of you and the qualities you possess. If he loves you, its because you understand him. Only then will you get the best of him b’cos he’ll go out of his way for you(no doubt). Though most times, people mistake his likeness for love[cant blame them…nice guys are hard to find, and there’s only one that can be compared to him….him!]…so they try to please Bobby instead of trying to understand him..and when he returns the gesture, they mistake it for love and then they try to take it a step further by trying to own him.Now there’s nothing wrong with the desire if wanting to own something(or someone) special……its only human!! but it so happens that when they desire to own Bobby without a proper understanding of the kind of dude he really is, the end result is usually catastrophic cus it always leads to emotion:extreme hate!! why?? cos we hate wat we dont understand.Talking about hate, Bobby can’t say he hates anybody, but he simply does not associate himself with people that roll in the negative. People that only say bad things about others, or only rejoice in people’s weaknesses….[its funny how they turn around and blow a fuse when people talk about them….and they are often linked to people that pretend a lot..makes no sense, cos in the end all that matters is time cos the longer an individual relates with others, the sooner the true habits pop out]….So if you happen to get a wrong vibe from Bobby, there’s a 100% chance that you fall into such category. Now when Bobby is happy with you he doesnt sense your flaws, even when you keep poking at his. If he’s not happy with you he will simply avoid you..no big deal[not that it matters anyway cos we all have flaws…yes, including the f***ing self righteous Bobby].You really don’t want to see him when he’s pissed off, let alone be the one to put him in that state..don’t get it twisted, he’s very easy to amuse and could be the most difficult to annoy but you will definitely suceed if you push him hard enough[just like some have done in the past]..but its usually not funny and it comes with a guarantee: you will regret it!(they always do)………Easy to love…easy to hate..He respects people a lot and when he does see people that share the same virtue, he respects them even more and that, is partly why he’s so f***ing hard to understand; but he does make one thing clear though: he knows exactly what he wants! It’ll be wrong to think you know him well enough. If only you can understand, it’ll all come to you.So, feel free and holla at your boy today….perhaps i might be wrong!!!

@ Gerald: You know how it actually started? I was telling someone about him after we broke up and instead of saying ex-boyfriend, I said bastard by mistake. You know what though, it was very fitting of him, because he had always been a bastard, I just didn’t realize it until later.@Onome: Thanks for defending me.