Hi! We're Don and Nicole from Washington state. We are approved and pursuing Open Adoption through Independent Adoption Center. If you or anyone you know is looking into adoption as an option, please share our journey. Want to know more about adoption; you can contact us anytime.

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Friday, May 13, 2016

All the crazy is over and our 4th home study
update is done. Every year we get that
email from our adoption coordinator that our fingerprints are due and it’s the
signal that our home study update is due shortly after. The fingerprinting is part of the FBI
clearances due every year. It’s always a
difficult milestone to reach but this year they added additional papers to be
filled out that I didn’t know about so it took a few trips to the police
station and a phone call plus a print, form fill out, scan and email in order
to get our fingerprints processed.

On top of the complications with getting all the correct
paperwork for that was the notice that our doctor was closing. Insert panic! We were able to get the
scheduled appointments but I am so upset she is moving and closing the
office. We’ve been going to her for 13
years and in our small community she is like family, she knows us. We both saw
her today for our updates and I wished her well but I will miss her. We hugged and said good-bye but I always
imagined her taking care of our new family once we adopt. She was perfect as she adopted her 2 kids and
knows how much it means to be personal and not judgmental. I hope we find a new doctor who will be the
same. It’s part of my interview process
now.

Our home visit also brought us some sad news that our social
worker of the last 4 years is retiring at the end of the year. I honestly felt a heavy brick hit me when she
told us. I, again, pictured her seeing
us with our family for post-placement visits.
I love her she is such a great woman doing an amazing job who also
adopted 4 kids so she completely understands the emotional roller-coaster of the
wait, the paperwork, and the parenting of adopted kids she’s often shared.

Fast forward a week of scammers trying to get us in their
web and missed international phone calls and emails (which we couldn’t help
anyway since we are going for domestic adoption) and she forwarded an email
with some situations from an agency she’s worked with many times before. So after reading tons of legal paperwork, I
signed us up. Yes, we are now with 2
agencies on top of our complete on-line presence. I am hopeful that we will connect this year
with a birth family. So if you know anyone thinking of adoption please forward
our website, blog or agency page.

Monday, May 2, 2016

The time for our mini vacation to Florida started at 5am on Saturday and all was going well and it looked like we'd be leaving a few minutes early but then our flight out of Seattle was delayed an hour. We arrived
in Orlando at 5pm and luckily the rental car was really easy to pick up so it took us
no time to get out of the airport and on our way to the hotel. Before heading to the hotel Don wanted to find the area that used to be the naval training base where he was stationed and we found it - some buildings are still there but it's been turned in houses and lots of parks so then we headed to the hotel to check in. It turns out the hotel was just a couple miles the other
side of Disney and recently opened in February so at night you could see some of
the fireworks which was cool. The other amazing thing was no thunderstorms the entire time we were there which has never happened before.

On Sunday, day one, we went to Universal Studios and Island
adventure. Island adventure was a
blast. Loved the Jurassic world water
ride and then we moved on to Hogsmeade where we rode the rides, we had lunch at
the Three Broomsticks complete with a butter beer (sweet butterscotch cream
soda), and then moved into Dr. Seuss land.
We didn't take the train to the other park though the wait time was an hour. After making our way through the Island Adventures areas we decided to
walk over to Universal Studios which takes about 15 minutes. I really wanted to ride the minion ride and
even though it was a long wait time it was worth it. It was such a fun ride. We also went to
King's Cross and took pictures with the night bus. I wish Don had taken some video of the
interaction because the shrunken head was hilarious. It was getting close to closing time so we
watched the parade from a park area within the park and then walked back to the
city walk, bought a couple shirts and left for dinner.

Island of Adventure Harry Potter World

Butter Beer - a sweet Butterscotch Cream soda

It indeed leaves a mustache

Great themed area for the kids

Monday was Epcot, which is having the flower show right now. I really didn't know what to expect at Epcot
outside the Themed food areas. We really enjoyed it and the best ride was by far the Test Track. It was a
nice leisurely day and we followed it up with a trip to Medieval Times for
dinner.

The couple on the left of us was actually from Seattle which was cool and then a couple with their kids came in a bit late and were from Upstate New York. I had a blast talking, laughing, and cheering with her and her 9 year daughter. We had a blast!

Morning arrival

Couldn't resist Lady and the Tramp pics

Bought some teas I've never seen in stores here

Piglet and Eeyore Topiary

The match was over and our Knight lost but we had a blast!

Tuesday we left Orlando and drove to Tampa to Busch Gardens,
another park I wasn't sure what to expect outside lots of roller coasters. I knew when I bought the tickets ahead of
time they had Giraffes, Zebras, Antelope that you could pay extra to go out and
feed but what we didn't know was it's actually a conservation zoo for animals
from Africa and Southeast Asia. Loved
it! Favorite ride of the day was Cheetah Run.
We finished out the day with the river rapids ride and of course we
ended up under the waterfall so we were thoroughly drenched! We walked around
trying to dry out before getting back in the car to find an Italian restaurant
we'd looked up while planning in the park where to eat dinner in Tampa. Amazing dinner! We seriously loved the
ambiance, food, server, and owner who does all the cooking. They really made us feel like family so if you're in Tampa and want great food try La Terrazza. It is
in the historic district and so worth the drive. We drove back to Orlando
feeling completely satisfied and tired from the day.

Loved this recycled art of a cat and dog

He followed me everywhere I moved - I think he loved the bright blue case on my phone

Only one set of tigers were out but hard to photograph

Feeding the birds fresh apple chunks

We took the train around the park and the Zebras started running after us

We had planned on driving to Daytona on Wednesday to kill
some time before our flight but with the work week traffic it was going to be
an almost 2 hour drive there and back so we scrapped that and I found an
alternative in Orlando. We visited the
Botanical Gardens instead and that was amazing.
I've never seen so many huge oak trees or that many roses in one place.
It was a huge garden and was a great way to fill the last day in Florida. I also like that the food grown is donated to charity, they have a vegetable and herb garden along with a ton of citrus trees. We then went to the airport and bonus our
flight was going to land about an hour early.
Huge Bonus because it usually takes 6 to 7 hours to fly home from the
east coast and it only took 5 meaning we got home early enough on our late flight to unpack and
relax a bit before bed.

One of the oaks with a large vine coexisting together

The arid area was filled with varying cactus blooms

One of the largest rose gardens I've seen

I liked the colorful foliage

Thursday was an early day since our social worker was coming
out to start the home study renewal, which is due by June and includes her
coming out to the house. She told us
she's retiring in December and that kinda bummed me out. She has been so great the last 3 1/2 years with doing our Home Study and checking in on us to see how we're doing that I hope we adopt before she retires so she can see the baby and us as
parents in the post placement visits.

About Us

We're an animal loving couple with 2 dogs and 2 cats hoping to adopt a newborn domestically in an open adoption through Independent Adoption Center. We are excitedly waiting for the opportunity to be parents so please share our journey if you know anyone who might be considering adoption.