Your sex life doesn’t sit in a vacuum. In a long-term relationship, good sex is dependent on many things. If there is any part of you that thinks sex should “just happen” - organically, naturally, fluidly, spontaneously, at will - well, you will be sadly disappointed. I wish it [...]

Are you living in a sexless marriage? Perhaps you’re one of those couples that from the outside everything looks picture-perfect, but you carry a secret that no one knows about. You and your partner don’t touch each other, you don’t get intimate with each other, and you don’t have [...]

Spring has brought an onslaught of busyness into my life. I have had opportunities to reach folks, like yourselves, through media interviews on low sexual desire. I am also diving deep into my creative process, designing rich, innovative new programs for you. In The Media In early Spring, two journalists [...]

I have first hand experience with sexual dysfunction. I floundered in the medical community for 10 years before receiving proper treatment. When I finally went to a sex therapist that actually understood my symptoms, she sent me to the right doctors and my healing began. Prior to this, I experienced [...]

Q. I have a friend who does not live in the area who has never been able to orgasm with a partner -- she can only achieve an orgasm thru masturbation (by "grinding" on a pillow) -- but wants to be able to orgasm with her partner. Since my [...]

Did you know that you have a free resource at your disposal? A recent reader of my website used my Q&A form to ask me an anonymous question about sex, a question that is highly personal and private (see link below). Why post to my Q&A page? You might be afraid to ask [...]

10 Reasons To Use This Free and Valuable ResourceCarolynn Aristone2018-04-26T20:23:53+00:00

Q. How can I overcome my premature ejaculating? I love sex but find I may avoid it or I don't look forward to it the way I should because I'm afraid of not performing "up to par" A. I’m not a fan of the term “premature ejaculation”. I list it on [...]

Carla told me that she felt pain in her abdomen when her boyfriend would “deep thrust” during penetration. The cause: a retroverted uterus Stephanie said she wants to feel desire for her wife but sexual penetration has always “hurt deep inside”. The cause: endometriosis Valerie described her sexual experiences as, [...]

No one welcomes erectile dysfunction, also known as ED. Up to 30 million men in the United States experience ED in their lifetime. ED is the inability to achieve or maintain an erection throughout the completion of sexual activity for a period of 6 months. The emergence of this dysfunction often [...]

5 Important Facts You Must Know About Erectile DysfunctionCarolynn Aristone2018-04-30T21:23:08+00:00

Q. My husband has ED. He had it before we got married and he never told me. I found out after. Now I have been dealing with it for almost 5 years. This is my second marriage. My first marriage I hardly had enough sex, let alone fun with it. [...]