He wants me to abort

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and I found out yesterday I'm 6 weeks pregnant. He wants me to abort because he says its best for both of us. I am 21 he is 22. I told him I do not believe in abortion but we can consider adoption. He's against adoption as much as I am against abortion. He thinks it's the end of the world. However when it comes to the dreams we had about school and careers I know we can support each other to accomplish them.

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and I found out yesterday I'm 6 weeks pregnant. He wants me to abort because he says its best for both of us. I am 21 he is 22. I told him I do not believe in abortion but we can consider adoption. He's against adoption as much as I am against abortion. He thinks it's the end of the world. However when it comes to the dreams we had about school and careers I know we can support each other to accomplish them.

My sister wants me to have an abortion. Even though the father doesn't want anything to do with the baby, he never said he want me to. I do believe he does though. You have to think of what's best for you and what's best is your child. I know things will be so hard, but once someone comes before you; you fight that much harder to make sure you give the best. Good luck on everything.

My sister wants me to have an abortion. Even though the father doesn't want anything to do with the baby, he never said he want me to. I do believe he does though. You have to think of what's best for you and what's best is your child. I know things will be so hard, but once someone comes before you; you fight that much harder to make sure you give the best. Good luck on everything.

I had a abortion and I regret it till this day... It wasn't as hard for me until after it was done and I have never forgotten it. Plus abortion is painful! Whether you take the pill (which I did) or get the surgery. So please don't let anyone else make that decision for you, it's so easy for a guy to tell you to get something done and they don't ever suffer anything. Believe me if you decide to keep the baby you will make it work. I now have one beautiful daughter and another on the way and I couldn't be happier. I will always wonder about the one I aborted though... And I hear alot of women regret abortion but I have never heard any women regret keeping their baby :) just something to think about.

I had a abortion and I regret it till this day... It wasn't as hard for me until after it was done and I have never forgotten it. Plus abortion is painful! Whether you take the pill (which I did) or get the surgery. So please don't let anyone else make that decision for you, it's so easy for a guy to tell you to get something done and they don't ever suffer anything. Believe me if you decide to keep the baby you will make it work. I now have one beautiful daughter and another on the way and I couldn't be happier. I will always wonder about the one I aborted though... And I hear alot of women regret abortion but I have never heard any women regret keeping their baby :) just something to think about.

Don't have an abortion because your boyfriend told you to! I did that and I regret it to this day. I'm not even with that a-hole anymore. But he basically made the decision for me and told me it can't be any other way if I want him around. It broke my heart. Now I believe I was given another chance with the man of my dreams, I just hope you will listen to your heart and not be bossed around like I was

Don't have an abortion because your boyfriend told you to! I did that and I regret it to this day. I'm not even with that a-hole anymore. But he basically made the decision for me and told me it can't be any other way if I want him around. It broke my heart. Now I believe I was given another chance with the man of my dreams, I just hope you will listen to your heart and not be bossed around like I was

Listen to your heart. It's your choice but just so you know there are lots of moms in your shoes ready to support you. My Mom got prego with me at 17 and I was almost an abortion. I am so greatful everyday for my life and her courage. Im single and pregnant right now and it some days it sucks but I want to give my baby the chance I was given. I am a hard working happy girl and I think everything happens for a reason. Abortion is forever but adoption is beautiful. I have 2 siblings put up for adoption and I think it is the most amazing thing out there.

Listen to your heart. It's your choice but just so you know there are lots of moms in your shoes ready to support you. My Mom got prego with me at 17 and I was almost an abortion. I am so greatful everyday for my life and her courage. Im single and pregnant right now and it some days it sucks but I want to give my baby the chance I was given. I am a hard working happy girl and I think everything happens for a reason. Abortion is forever but adoption is beautiful. I have 2 siblings put up for adoption and I think it is the most amazing thing out there.

That was a great thing to say: so many woman regret abortions but none regret having the child. Perfect. I'm not against abortion and I also considered it. Not having an abortion was the best thing I could have done. I'm 34 weeks pregnant, single, and SO excited to meet my little guy. :-)

That was a great thing to say: so many woman regret abortions but none regret having the child. Perfect. I'm not against abortion and I also considered it. Not having an abortion was the best thing I could have done. I'm 34 weeks pregnant, single, and SO excited to meet my little guy. :-)

To be honest I was 18 when I first got pregnant. My boyfriend at the time told me it was the best thing to do. He even got his brother and his girlfriend to tell me it was best. So being young and scared I went along with it. It was the Biggest Mistake of my life that I could never take it back. I had so much guilt and felt so ashamed and that stuck with me for years. And I never forgave my boyfriend we broke up a few months later because I couldn't look at him. Kids are not easy I won't lie about that but as a parent you find ways to make it work. Kids really are a blessing and the best thing in the world. Your boyfriend sounds like a tool. He isn't the one that has to go trough with the abortion and deal with the effects afterword. If you want the baby then that's your choice not his. I currently found out I'm 6.5 weeks pregnant and the guy wants me to have an abortion and I told him absolutely not. There is nothing wrong with being a single mom.

To be honest I was 18 when I first got pregnant. My boyfriend at the time told me it was the best thing to do. He even got his brother and his girlfriend to tell me it was best. So being young and scared I went along with it. It was the Biggest Mistake of my life that I could never take it back. I had so much guilt and felt so ashamed and that stuck with me for years. And I never forgave my boyfriend we broke up a few months later because I couldn't look at him. Kids are not easy I won't lie about that but as a parent you find ways to make it work. Kids really are a blessing and the best thing in the world. Your boyfriend sounds like a tool. He isn't the one that has to go trough with the abortion and deal with the effects afterword. If you want the baby then that's your choice not his. I currently found out I'm 6.5 weeks pregnant and the guy wants me to have an abortion and I told him absolutely not. There is nothing wrong with being a single mom.

dont have an abortion to keep a relationship. that guy wants you you to love him more than life itself. and he will leave u bcz u will be a pushover. my boyfriends wanted me to have one. i booked an appointment but so so glad i did not go thru with it. am now 30 weeks pregnant. of course we broke up but i hated him the day he suggested it. now feeling my lil boy kick am so thanlful

dont have an abortion to keep a relationship. that guy wants you you to love him more than life itself. and he will leave u bcz u will be a pushover. my boyfriends wanted me to have one. i booked an appointment but so so glad i did not go thru with it. am now 30 weeks pregnant. of course we broke up but i hated him the day he suggested it. now feeling my lil boy kick am so thanlful

So wait...he's for abortion but against adoption? I can't think of a less rude way to word this, but how does that work? Anyway, you hang in there and do what you feel is best for you. NOBODY can make that decision for you.

So wait...he's for abortion but against adoption? I can't think of a less rude way to word this, but how does that work? Anyway, you hang in there and do what you feel is best for you. NOBODY can make that decision for you.

You need to do what's best for you and pretend he isn't involved. Not wishing anything negative on your relationship but as I'm sure a lot of women will tell you they thought her stay as well. He can always leave and you should be prepared for that either way! I do agree with someone above I've never heard anyone say they regret their child but I've heard plenty of women regret aborting.. Good luck

You need to do what's best for you and pretend he isn't involved. Not wishing anything negative on your relationship but as I'm sure a lot of women will tell you they thought her stay as well. He can always leave and you should be prepared for that either way! I do agree with someone above I've never heard anyone say they regret their child but I've heard plenty of women regret aborting.. Good luck

I was in the EXACT same position, but I am 23 and the dad is 24. He's in school, and I was scheduled to ship out to The Navy in February. 3 weeks ago I found out I was pregnant, and I agree with your views, and my boyfriend's ideas are identical to your boyfriends. But it's YOUR body and ultimately YOU are the primary caregiver... Either he will come around and be excited for the baby (which I'm sure is very likely) or not, but make the choice you will be able to be okay with for the rest of your life, whether adoption, abortion or parenthood

I was in the EXACT same position, but I am 23 and the dad is 24. He's in school, and I was scheduled to ship out to The Navy in February. 3 weeks ago I found out I was pregnant, and I agree with your views, and my boyfriend's ideas are identical to your boyfriends. But it's YOUR body and ultimately YOU are the primary caregiver... Either he will come around and be excited for the baby (which I'm sure is very likely) or not, but make the choice you will be able to be okay with for the rest of your life, whether adoption, abortion or parenthood

I was told last year to have an abortion. (I was 20, he was 23.) you know what I have instead? a happy healthy amazing 11 month old little boy who is the reason I wake up everyday. his dad chose to never meet him because of the ultimatum I chose, and that's perfectly okay. it is so hard doing it alone but I'd rather do it by myself than do it with someone who doesn't want to. xoxo the choice is totally up to you. we can only give our stories :)

I was told last year to have an abortion. (I was 20, he was 23.) you know what I have instead? a happy healthy amazing 11 month old little boy who is the reason I wake up everyday. his dad chose to never meet him because of the ultimatum I chose, and that's perfectly okay. it is so hard doing it alone but I'd rather do it by myself than do it with someone who doesn't want to. xoxo the choice is totally up to you. we can only give our stories :)

I agree with these ladies, he is just a man, and they come and go, this baby is PART of you, and while abortion is your choice, it doesn't sound like a route you are wanting to take. If he loves you, he'll understand, if not, move on!! I'm sure you would be a fabulous mother! Good luck dear!

I agree with these ladies, he is just a man, and they come and go, this baby is PART of you, and while abortion is your choice, it doesn't sound like a route you are wanting to take. If he loves you, he'll understand, if not, move on!! I'm sure you would be a fabulous mother! Good luck dear!

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