Indie guitarist admits 'inappropriate behavior' toward women

RIDGEWOOD -- Calling himself an "insensitive creep," Matt Mondanile, the former guitarist for Ridgewood-formed indie band Real Estate, has admitted he acted inappropriately toward women.

Matthew Mondanile(file photo)

In a statement issued through his lawyers, and published in full by Variety, Mondanile apologized to those affected by his actions and commended them for speaking out.

"I am endlessly sorry for my inappropriate behavior. I took advantage of my position as a musician, though I never intended to hurt anyone emotionally or otherwise. I've been an insensitive creep and again I apologize to everyone and anyone who was affected by this. I respect and commend the women who have come forward. Their breaking silence has compelled me to seek a more intense course of self-reflection, and personal development. I make no excuses for my behavior, I only want everyone to be ok. Words cannot convey how truly sorry I am."

His attorneys, who were unnamed, claimed much of what has been said on the topic is false and defamatory but "Matt realizes that in his eagerness for physical contact and gratification, he has been far from sensitive in his pursuit of women."

The members of Real Estate released a statement Oct. 13 to Pitchfork saying that Mondanile was fired when allegations of "unacceptable treatment of women" were brought to their attention.

In an article published by SPIN magazine on Oct. 16, seven women detailed their alleged experiences with Mondanile between 2005 and 2013. The women say they were touched, kissed or groped without consent.