This is the year we elevate ourselves, as individuals,
organizations, and community members. This is the year
we break free from our comfort zones, stretch out and
grab onto to new ideals, new practices and new people.
It is this year we embrace ourselves, flaws and all.
At IMARA, we know the importance of self-worth and
we want to share that magic with our Cornell community.
Loving yourself is the first step to loving others; and with
our extreme work climates, and with Cornell seemingly a
million miles from home, we want to remind our readers
how important it is to remember just how beautiful,
strong, intelligent, courageous and fantastic they truly are.

So no matter your creed, race, ethnicity or origin,
we are all strong and worthy. We are IMARA.

Spotlight

Ujijji

14 Student Spotlight
17 Artist Spotlight
20 Eye Candy

Community
12 Friend or Foe

22 Diversity at Cornell

November 2011 | 3

Self-Image | Self-Love & Self-Worth At Cornell

Self-Love & Self-Worth At College

Our worth, as black women, doesn’t amount to any
perishable thing. It’s a price no less than indefinable.
Many of us come to college expecting to find the ONE,
that one man to complete us and give us all we’re
worth; and that is where we are wrong. You must realize that you and he, unaided by each other, must be an
already completed equation. He should be an addition
to your individuality, so, that if he should decide to
subtract himself, your solution is still an exponential
value waiting for her next unknown. The goal is to
complement, not complete. When you see yourself as
a prized possession and love yourself for all you’re
worth, expectations from others sync with that positive
image. You have the power to set the standards because
your beauty and worth lie within you. We are women filled with compassion. But have you ever asked
yourself if it is possible to truly love and cherish another until you’ve fully loved and cherished yourself?

By: Jamila Grampus

You are the soil in which your passionate love and
worth are rooted. If you plant insecurities, you’ll
sprout vulnerability and pain. But if you plant selflove and self-worth, you’ll blossom into a phenomenal woman. Let’s avoid making the mistake of placing our worth in the hands of others. Be the author
of your own heart and paint the visual of a unique
masterpiece, and once you’re ready to make a sequel then feel free to collaborate with another. Until
then… love yourself. Give yourself a honey bubble
bath covered with floating roses. Treat yourself to a
manicure and pedicure. Have a spa day with the ladies.
Cherish yourself and don’t wait for someone else to
come along and determine your worth. Love yourself
wholeheartedly and let your presence exude beauty
and self-worth so that all who cross your path know
that they’ve been faced with a phenomenal woman...:

Fall Beauty Secrets | | Health & Beauty
a beautiful, deep copper color that can be worn to class or to the
next party. My eye shadow lasted for well over a year, so if you
love this shade, the splurge might be worth it. Also try “Brushed
Copper” by Revlon, $4; “Pure Silver,” by L’Oreal Paris Studio Secrets, $5. You can also find palettes that will include a family of

Fall Beauty Secrets
By: Amara Pinnock

Hello Beautiful Ladies!
So I will be briefly telling you all about some beauty
trends for this fall. As a disclaimer, I am never one to say that
I, nor anybody else, need makeup. But, when used correctly,
makeup is a great way to show your individuality and to enhance
your God-given, beautiful features. So let the primping begin!
To start, one beauty item that was seen across runways
for fall is the lovely shade of plum. Plum is a very flattering color
for the various shades of brown we women possess and can add
that extra pizazz to your look. One way to wear plum is as eye
shadow. Be sure to apply a light sweep of shadow in addition
to some black mascara and liquid eyeliner. Available at Victoria’s
Secret, $12; or “Amethyst” by E.L.F., $3 available at Target.

colors which will work well together or singly to get more bang
for your buck. Try “Copper Chic” by Maybelline, $7. As a personal
favorite of mine, they work well together or alone, and give you
a wide range of looks to try.
Lastly, a trend that we have seen for quite a while now
is the bold, red lip. The red lip is not for the faint of heart, and I
myself am a teeny bit afraid of it. However, the red lip was seen
all over runways for this fall and can definitely be pulled off by
anyone…you just need the confidence! And for some, wearing
red lipstick gives them that. What’s different about this season’s
red lip is that Fall 2011’s red lip is a high-shine lip, as opposed to
the matte reds we’ve seen in the past. The key to this lip’s look is
to top off the look with a matching red gloss or a clear high-shine
gloss. As this look is very bold, it is best reserved for a date, a
night out with the girls, or when you want to give off a powerful
and confident vibe, such as when you have that semester-long
research project to present. When picking a red, it’s best to stay
within two shades of the natural color of your lips. Also, there
are a ton of red options to choose from, from fire-engine to red to
the deepest wine. Experiment with what you like, and when you
find the one you love, rock it.
Any clear gloss on top of these colors will work well.
As with the plum, when wearing a bold lip, keep the rest of your
makeup subdued to avoid overkill. A swipe of mascara and
eyeliner are a great match, and a bit of neutral shadow, such as a
copper or gold as discussed earlier, would work beautifully too.

Or for a twist, try plum for your lips in a lipstick or a
pigmented lip gloss. Because plum can be a strong color, choose
one place to wear it—either on the eyelids or the lips, not both.
Keep the rest of your makeup subdued for the prettiest look.
Where to buy: Try “Plum Jewel” by Maybelline, $7;“Oh My Goth,” Some options to try: “Russian Red” by MAC, $14.50;“Revlon Red,”
by Kat Von D, $18 available at Sephora. For gloss, try “Pearl Plum”
by Revlon, $7 available at Target;“Linda,” by Buxom, $18, available
at Sephora.

Another beauty trend seen on celebrities and on runways is the metallic eye. Shades of copper, bronze, gold, and
silver are extremely flattering for brown skin tones. Always
anchor the look with black mascara to bring out the look. Also,
be careful of colors that are too pearly or too pastel looking, as
they will look ashy against your skin. Instead, look for pigmented metallics for the best look. Metallics are great in that they can
work for day or night, depending on the intensity of it. One of
my favorite metallic shades is called “Romp,” by MAC which is

by Revlon, $7; “Black Label Cherry,” by NYX , $3.

Something to keep in mind about makeup in general is
that it works best on a clean, moisturized and prepped canvas. As
the temperature drops, switch to a thicker moisturizer that will
protect and keep your skin moisturized throughout the day (the
same goes for your hair!). For makeup, I find that using primers
helps my makeup look the best as well as help it to last all day.

And lastly, it’s important to remember that the woman
makes the makeup, not the other way around.
November 2011 | 5

Self-Image | | Natural Hair

Embracing the Kink
and the Curl

By: Jacqueline Perkins

I have had many goals and plans for myself—having a relaxer put in my hair as soon as I turned 16 was one of
them. At least, that was my mother’s condition; I wanted one
from time that I was seven. I can’t remember why I wanted a
relaxer put into my hair in the first place. I guess I didn’t know
there was anything I could actually do with my hair in its natural state.
However, I can remember the exact moment that
I stopped counting down to my 16th birthday and became
completely uninterested in relaxers. Before I came to Cornell
University, I went to a predominantly Caucasian school from
6th-12th grade. I don’t believe most of the students had ever
even seen, let alone talked, to a person of African descent.
Most of the young Caucasian girls would touch my puff and
ask me about my hair, how it grew when it was braided, and
how they could style their hair to look like my hair. I laughed
the hardest with my friends to the last question. I thought you
can’t do this with your hair; it’s unique to my heritage.
In our community, we examine what relaxing our
hair, despite its drawbacks, says about how we view ourselves
and our beauty, inside and out. For some, it is simply a differ-

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ent hair style to change up our looks from week to week. But
for others, it is a way to look more beautiful than our heritage
has already made us. So I say to all the Sisters, relax away if
you want, because you only live once. But understand that
you do have options, because our hair is full of just as much
potential and imagination as our future and the heritage that
has come before us.
Our heritage, perseverance, and spirit—not our hair,
have enabled Black women to come through the double fire
of racism and sexism. So, don’t underestimate the stuff on top
of your head and, most importantly, the stuff in your head.

It’s a problem that’s been affecting the Black community since some of our ancestors arrived in the U.S.
in 1619. From the status of the House Negro vs. the Field Hand, to the “Paper Bag” test and passing for white,
there are many issues concerning skin color within Black culture. After centuries of struggling with this division between the light-skinned and dark-skinned, have we made any progress in accepting all different shades of
African Americans? Obviously not, if in 2011 you can still hear things like, “You’re pretty… for a dark-skinned
girl.”
This, as many of us know, is not an isolated incident of some close-minded jerk, and it’s not only a matter of aesthetics or sex appeal. This issue is a lot deeper, stemming from a euro-centrism that’s been ingrained in
us and our ancestors since slavery. This was shown in the famous “Doll Test” cited in the 1954 Brown v. Board
of Education case, where Black children were asked to identify which doll was the prettiest, smartest and nicest
and overwhelmingly chose the White doll over the Black doll in each case. These shameful results were no surprise to researchers; they only demonstrated the damaging effects of racial segregation on Black children’s selfesteem. So fifty years after the peak of the Civil Rights Movement, after the end of the Jim Crow Era, naturally
we would’ve made some progress in improving the self-image of African Americans, right?

Sadly, there hasn’t been as much progress as we’d like to think. Recent replications of the original Doll
Test more or less show the same results: Black children choosing the White image when asked who is smarter,
nicer or prettier, and choosing the darkest Black image when asked who is dumb, bad and ugly. Even in the
absence of racial segregation, this distorted view is reinforced by the media. It’s easy to see why many, both
in and out of the Black community, wouldn’t make positive associations between dark skin and beauty when
virtually all the leading roles and love interests on TV, in movies, and even in music videos are White or, the
few times we do see a Black face, light-skinned.
It’s this unspoken cultural bias that pushes some dark-skinned girls to buy bleach creams, perm their
hair and wear light-colored contacts; a bias that tells some guys—white, black or anything else—that there is
something ugly about dark skin; a bias that causes some light-skinned girls to appreciate their complexion for
all the wrong reasons. Fortunately many have found the strength to love their natural hues, whether that be
light or dark or anywhere in between. Instead of listening to the signals that we think the rest of the world is
sending us about our looks, we need to challenge and redefine cultural standards of beauty, starting with our
own standards and self-esteem. Once we truly see ourselves as beautiful, smart, and good, no one will be able
to tell us otherwise.
November 2011 | 7

Health & Beauty | | Mental Health Stigmas

Mental Health Stigmas
By: Reetchel Presume

Everyday we walk across bridges lined with tall,
black, menacing fences and take in the sight of the
Ithaca gorges. Occasionally we are awed by nature’s
beauty. Unfortunately, more often than not, the sight is
only a reminder of Cornell’s dismal reputation.
I am certain that no one needs to be informed of
Cornell’s “high-pressure” atmosphere. We are students. We live through the stress of tests, extracurricular responsibilities, personal issues, social issues and
so much more that can jump out at us unexpectedly.
With the suicides of past semesters so fresh in our
memories, the mental health of Cornell students is a
topic of large concern. The truth is, suicide among college students is national health crises, not only specific
to our campus. It is a big issue and a tough one to
address.
To ameliorate strains on our mental health we can
start by promoting a great deal of tolerance and openness in our community. Lets stop the silence and talk
about it.

Ask for help

Depression is real. Depression is not “the
blues” and it is dangerous to underestimate its impact.
In the African-American community there has been a
historically prevalent stigma in seeking treatment. In
fact, only one of three African-Americans who need
mental health treatment receives it. Many AfricanAmericans try to rely solely on home remedies, family
and religious support. The general tendency is to
minimize the significance of symptoms and attempt
to deal with stress alone. The stigma of mental illness
upholds the belief that depression is a sign of weakness, that our problems are personal and we should not
invite others into our business. Stigma, literally, can
be the death of us. Seeking help is a sign of strength,
not weakness.
There is a great need to confront stigma head-on
for the sake of our and future generations; so that they
can be accepted for who they are, seek help and accept
themselves.
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Inferiority Complex | Self-Image

Inferiority Complex

By: Briana King

Have you ever felt like there was someone better than
you? Maybe they were prettier, dressed better, or were more
social or smarter than you. Did you wish to be like this person
or group, even if it was just a little bit? If you can answer yes
to either of these questions, you have encountered the illusive
“inferiority complex.”
The inferiority complex states that an individual
believes that there is a superior group or person and, for whatever reason, he or she is not a member of this group. A person
may feel that they are not good enough or pretty enough the
way they are. The concept of the inferiority complex is created
through your thinking in regards to yourself and your position
in the world. But, if your mind can create it, why can’t it stop
the detrimental cycle?
To deal with an inferiority complex, you must first
realize that any flaw you are dwelling on is not nearly as bad
as you think it is. Having a certain flaw does not change your
personality or character. You are as strong as you believe yourself to be.
And because I care, I will share a secret with you:
EVERYONE has flaws. Everyone can find something that
they don’t really like about themselves. It really could be
anything, but don’t dwell on it. The key to your success lies
in your ability to accept yourself the way you are—no matter
what. Everyone has issues and difficulties to face, but in my
opinion, the best determinant of success is how you deal with
your negatives in life and turn them into positives.
I would like to challenge each and every one of you
to find something—it can be something small or major—that
you like about yourself, as well as something that makes you
unique. Find something and focus on it because it is a part of
what makes you wonderful. And don’t ever settle for anything
less than excellence.
Trust me, inferiority is not excellence.

Gannett Health Services offers counseling and psychological services.
Please call 607-255-5155 to help you or a friend.

Awkward Moments| | Self-Image

All We Can Do is
By: Zena Kolliesuah

Laugh!

Everyone remembers their first college class where they
got lost and showed up 20 minutes late, with all eyes on
them, making them even more aware that they were a
freshman. Or that long awaited date with the boy of your
dreams, only to realize that you had spinach stuck in
your teeth. While these moments can be traumatizing and
also embarrassing, these instances help to keep us laughing through the tough times of college. Many of you
weighed in with your own funny stories including:

Lunchtime Rush

“Well I can start by saying my freshman year of college
I crashed into someone I had a crush on with my tray.
Luckily nothing spilled and I quickly apologized. Just
when I thought I made it through without any further embarrassment, I walk a few steps and something happens
that causes me to drop pasta on my pants. Not just my
pants... my crotch-area. So I got red-pasta sauce on my
crotch. I didn’t check to see if my crush saw me (because
I was too mortified of course), I just kinda ran out the
cafeteria.”

A Night to Remember

My freshman year, I was a little over zealous when it
came to having fun, and I went a little too
hard at a... lets call it a “house gathering”. I was
walking across Ho Plaza with a friend when I noticed
it was really quite slick (from ice and what-not) and
asked my amazingly supportive friend to make sure
I didn’t fall/make a fool of myself. Just as the words
left my mouth, I slipped forward, straight on my
face. Without thinking I got back up in silence and
walked the rest of the way to North without another
word. Waking up the next morning and looking in the
mirror was pure shock/horror. My face was swollen, my head hurt, and I wanted to cry. Grudgingly I
called Gannett... walking to the appointment was the
most memorable part. Walking across the Arts Quad
I noticed a few drops of red, then a few more, until
I finally get to Ho Plaza where it seemed my blood
had pooled. A huge red stain for everyone to wonder
about! Embarrassing, but mostly an ugly reminder of
the broken nose and concussion I had evidently given
myself the night before...

Double Take

So the other day, I was walking to class and it was super
windy. The wind was blowing so hard and it was messing with my hair (which is NOT okay because I don’t
like when my hair looks crazy). So I proceeded to walk
towards what I think is an empty car, and look in the
window so I can fix myself up. So there I was, fixing my
hair in front of this car window, and I’m like “Hey, why
not just fix everything on me?” So I continued to brush
my hair, fix my makeup, adjust my dress, just EVERYTHING in front of this car window. Suddenly, the car
window dropped down and the owner of the car is sitting
there, looking me DEAD in my face, laughing hysterically. My mouth dropped; I had NO idea anyone was
in that car! And they had been watching me fix myself
for some time! I managed to let out a quick “Oops, I’m
sorry, bye!” before I dipped real quick. It was TOO embarrassing!

If you can relate to some of these stories, check out the new web series by Issa Rae

The Mis-Adventures of Awkward Black Girl
www.awkwardblackgirl.com

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Features | 161 Things

161

Things Every
Woman of Color
Should Do at Cornell

PART III
by Chandeerah Davis

When I embarked on this list of “161 Things,” I never
imagined the endless possibilities for it! Even when
IMARA finally gets to good old #161, this list should not
be considered the exhaustive list of options! The truth
is, as I find new and exciting things to share with all of
our readers, I inevitably come up with ideas even I haven’t tried yet. In Part I,
I emphasized the importance of creating and engaging. In Part II, I stressed seeking out those unique
opportunities to connect. In this, Part III of the “161 Things Every Woman of Color Should Do At Cornell,”
I’m saying PIONEER and INNOVATE!!! There are still things women of color here would love to participate
in and contribute to that just don’t exist! You and your friends could be the ones to TRAILBLAZE those paths
to the most unforgettable experiences. Be the mastermind and you could affect not only your own Cornell
memories, but those of thousands of Cornellian women to come! Case in point: IMARA Magazine!
With all that said....here goes!!!

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Never been to Cafe con Leche? Coordinated by the Latino Living Center, these community
discussions cover various pertinent issues and this year they gave students an opportunity to
propose one of their very own!!!! They’ll be going on all throughout Spring semester so look
out for them! Next time, the topic covered could be your idea!

42 | Initiate a biweekly MOVIE NIGHT with your girls!! Each time someone different can choose the
movie you view...it’ll be a chance to relax and a chance to share each other’s diverse cinematic tastes!
43 | Create and found a NEW student organization!!! People are doing it all over campus and yet there
are still needs on and off campus that could uniquely benefit from students whose passions drive their
involvement!!!
44 | Have a “shower each other” night once a month!! Get together with your besties and exchange little
gifts. They can be things you made, a small card with notes of appreciation, a book you know your friend
will love, or even just a photo of her covered in compliments!!!
Head over to the Women’s Resource Center! Students can join the Center as volunteers at
any point in the year! Find out what resources are available on campus to support all of your
endeavors!
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161 Things | Features

46 | Decorate your roommate’s mirror with Post-Its that say nice things about her! When
she looks in it she’ll be reminded of how special the reflection she sees there really is!
I only have a few words to say for this one: the FIRST ever the Cornell Women of
Color Conference, held in November, is going to be amazing!!!!

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48 | Start a vlog!! Video blogging is an innovative way to get SEEN and heard! Pick topics of your
choice and ones that are relevant to your audience and speak out!
49 | Take a class like AEM 3340: Women, Leadership, and Entrepreneurship!
50 | The ALANA E-Board is introducing its first ever Culture to Culture Contest with the challenge:
“You make them collide, we give you the PRIZE!” It’s a chance for orgs across the Cornell
community to create an AMAZING cross-cultural program that’s never been done before!!!
51 | Attend a BWSN Sister Circle or, better yet, contact them and offer ideas for new ones!!!
52 | CHECK OUT 626 Thurston Ave where the brand new Intercultural Center is poised to do great
things!! Co-located in the facility will be the Asian/Asian American Center; the African Latino Asian
Native American Students Programming Board; the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Resource
Center; and the Alumni-Student Mentoring Program. Groundbreaking initiatives are destined to be
bursting from its seams!

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Stop by the Cornell Store and pick up “Part and Apart: The Black Experience at Cornell, 18651945” – Historian Carol Kammen’s book considers Black student life in the context of decades
of social and political change, from the post-Civil War era through World War II. Or check out

the website here: http://rmc.library.cornell.edu/earlyblackwomen/introduction/ !
54 | Whether you are an underclass- or upperclass- “woman,” make a commitment to introduce yourself to
at least one woman of color you’ve never met each week!
55 | Be sure to register early for Les Femmes De Substance’s Annual Retreat! This is a one of a kind
chance for Black women to connect and learn from one another. What better place is there to learn all
about leadership and trailblazing?!!
56 | Have your own radio show for all of Cornell to hear!! Contact Slope Radio at http://www.slopemedia.
org/slope-radio/ for more information! You could be the next hostess with the mostest!
57 | Take a class like AMST 4391: Writing Women’s Lives.
58 | Stop by the Tuesday Lunch Engagements at the Office of Academic Diversity Initiatives for awesome
presentations about everything from “Strategies for Academic Success” to “Decoding Prelims”!
59 | Check out the Africana Studies and Research Center John Henrick Clarke Library for unique texts,
articles, and videos about the historical experiences of women of color!

AND lastly...since this issue is all about the ways we view ourselves and each other, try to
invest at least a few moments each semester in doing something groundbreaking in your
school, dorm, with your friends, or even in your own personal life! As Mahatma Gandhi
once said, “Be the change you want to see in the WORLD”! The truth is, You CAN be the
change you want to see at Cornell!!!

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If you missed the first 40, check out our previous issue online at http://issuu.com/imaramagazine/docs/
imara_magazine__dec_2010. and May 2011 Enjoy!
November 2011 | 11

Community | Friend or Foe

Friend or Foe?

By: Devon Bryant

Ladies, ever been walking and feeling good,
when all of a sudden you feel a pair of eyes on you?
Not in a good way, but in a bad way with one of those
‘who-does-she-think-she-is’, looks? Those looks that,
when you turn around, you notice some girl cut her eyes
at you like she knows you? Have you ever been on the
other side of it, and been the one giving the dirty look?
Unfortunately, I think at this point, most women have
been on both sides of the spectrum at least once. These
types of negative interactions are too commonplace
among women today, especially amongst women of
color. Why is it that we are so quick to tear each other
down, instead of jumping at the chance to help build one
another up?
No one ever likes to admit this, but perhaps this is
due to a little hint of jealousy. It’s human nature to feel
threatened by something new and unfamiliar. It seems
as though this ‘natural instinct’ frequently brings out
the worst in women, especially when dealing with each
other. The tension that we as women have, at times,
causes us to become our own worst enemies and most
of us have most likely witnessed many instances in
which women put themselves against each other. We
give and receive sideways glances, up-and-down looks,
and participate in gossiping. A lot of the trouble seems
to arise when it comes to issues regarding men. We fight
over the same guy, and often times, these guys are not
even worth it. Instead of falling back and giving our fellow sisters some space to be happy, some women tend to go after those we know should be left alone. Consequently, it ends
up being a vicious cycle, especially when other women pick sides and multiple women begin silent feuds against one another.
Of course, this is not to say that all women despise and resent each other. It is entirely possible for women to get
together and produce a positive, supportive environment of strength and support. The thing we have to learn, however, is that
it is okay to reach out beyond our current group of close-knit friends and accept that new girl who we assume will be nothing
but trouble. Once we stop thinking that other women are out to get us, we will be able to expand on the sisterhood that we
should have had all along. Particularly, in our own Cornell community, we are fortunate to have various safe spaces to build
up this connection, including the Black Women’s Support Network (BWSN) and Les Femmes de Substance, just to name
a couple. In a time and place where there still aren’t many women of color, we need to utilize these opportunities to connect
with other women who can help us reach success as we, in turn, help them. Instead of creating a lifelong enemy out of one
another, it’s time to make a conscious effort to embrace a new, loyal friend.
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Wants to be his Geisha for the night
Her Asian persuasion craves his late
night sensation
seducing the soulless with her soft
voice
spoken but not heard
voices behind the brown skin sistah
screaming for someone to listen

lips only kissed never spoken
Women for Sale.
unfree on the shelf
waiting to wrap legs around waists
they waste away
spoiled, rotted by abandonment
batter battered by
body image pressures
she better trim down that fat
meat on her bones only to be eaten
by the shark teeth
of a system telling her to hate herself

Public Servant: I have felt most fulfilled while doing service with the various
organizations that I have been part of. In every organization I have tried to add
some kind of service component. Community service has had a huge impact
on my time at Cornell. Service always gives me perspective and reminds me
of my obligation to give back to those who have provided me with all that
I have. I would also add that you should never short change yourself. Every
single person has a gift to give to the world. Share these gifts! College is a
time for exploring and honing your talents. Do not let doubts or intimidation
stand in your way.
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A&S, Government ‘13

Words of Wisdom: Don’t be afraid to try so
dence to put yourself out there and when y
never take no for an answer. Cornell is a hug
ever you are most passionate about here. If y
pursue and stumble upon a few roadblocks,
path that will lead you to the same destinatio
that can help you get to where you want to b
no for answer” was overrated and nothing co
and maintain your motivation and drive, no
achievements.

Student Spotlight | Spotlight!

ghts

Take A Look At What
Cornell Women Are Doing
To Make A Difference!
Janet Nwaukoni

CALS, Biology & Society, Global Health’ 12
Sun, Business Department

omething new. Have the confiyou do, never give up. Remember:
ge campus and you can find whatyou see something you want to
just know there is always another
on and someone along the way
be. I always thought “never take
ould be done, but if you persevere
one can get in the way of your

Orgs: Project Lansing, Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc., Multicultural Greek
Lettered Council, Baraka Kwa Wimbo Female Gospel Ensemble, Mortar Board
Passion: Mentoring has a special place in my heart, as I have been mentored
by phenomenal women and to be given the opportunity to mentor others is
truly a privilege. Project Lansing thrives with amazing mentors dedicated to
changing the lives of young girls who made a wrong decision in life. We teach
these girls about self-image, self-worth, and show them how to BE mentors
when they return home. I would also definitely say reach for the stars and step
outside of your comfort zones! You all are amazing, beautiful women, gifted in
different areas. Don’t be afraid to let your light shine, as long as you are working to uplift others. Remember, surround yourself with like-minded friends who
can aid in your self-development and from there, all you can do is grow.
November 2011 | 15

Self Image | Self Image via the Media

SELF IMAGE VIA THE MEDIA
By: Alysa James

It’s a gray morning in Ithaca and I find myself waking up too early for my 11:40 class. I roll out
of bed and open my computer to check my favorite
morning websites; I read Essence, Jezebel, Glamour,
People and finally, Mediatakeout. Mediatakeout is my
guilty pleasure. I read it because it’s funny and more
importantly, because Macs don’t get viruses. However, sometimes their articles (if you want to call them
that) shock and bewilder me, especially on mornings
where I would pay someone to tell me I look beautiful. Every so often they will have unflattering pictures of celebrities. The celebrities are usually women
who have cellulite or a bad hair day - something that,
to the rest of the world seems totally normal. However, I digress, after seeing Beyoncé without makeup, I
realize that my judgment of these people is harsh and
uncalled for. How can I, a girl who admittedly struggles to tell herself she’s beautiful, find fault in any
person who on a daily basis deals with attacks to their
self-esteem? Which begs the question, if someone
can tear a celebrity apart, can this happen to the little
folks of the world who cannot afford a make-up artist, personal trainer, and a personal stylist? How can
we as media consumers perpetuate healthy self-image
while hypocritically tearing down celebrities? It took
me years to see the irony of this and since then, I
have made a conscious effort to suppress every urge
I have to rip apart a celebrity. Someone may very
well be doing the same thing to my profile picture on
Facebook.
My years of struggle with self-image have led me to
this conclusion: Self-confidence does not come from
looking through a fashion magazine. Hell, if we followed anything the media said we would be all
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scary, bitter, loud, stereotyped versions of our wonderful selves. I mean, have you ever looked through a
fashion magazine and thought to yourself, “my thighs
would not be able to fit into those pants,” or “maybe
if I lose weight I can look like her.” First off, realize
that those pictures are airbrushed and that NO ONE
actually looks like that. Secondly, a healthy selfimage will not be found on any glossy page or on any
blog. It comes from realizing what and who you are.
The media will always perpetuate that there is something wrong with you to sell products or to get you to
buy a magazine. We as a people are bombarded with
clever ways to fake self esteem - how much makeup we should wear, weight we should lose. Really,
a healthy self image cannot be faked and you exude
it when you feel it. So I ask all people who may be
reading this article, that the next time you open a
magazine, turn on your television or computer to
take a personnel assessment of your self-confidence.
If you feel good about yourself continue with what
you’re doing and if you don’t, take a second to think
about all the wonderful things you bring to the table.
Do not let the media tell you anything other than you
are perfect the way you are!

Artist: Goapele | Spotlight!

Goapele
By: Chardae Varlack

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very now and then, you go through an endless
number of songs on your iPod in search for that one
artist to listen to that will lift your spirits. Finally, you
come across one. Her name is Goapele (pronounced
“Gwa-puh-lay”). Coincidentally in Setswana, her name
means, “to move forward”, which is the same attitude
that is portrayed in her music.

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oapele officially released her first album in 2002,
entitled, “Even Closer” through her independent
record label, Skyblaze. Although it has been a few years
since Goapele has released an album, it is the music of
her previous albums which truly generates the feelings
of self-confidence, beauty, and determination. Goapele
is known for being a humanitarian, as seen by her
contributions to various organizations such as the Bay
Area Black Women’s Health Project, Be Present Inc.,
and Empowered Youth Educating Society. The listeners
of her music are able to incorporate the positive energy
that she radiates into their own lives.

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ot many artists incorporate the positive attitude
that Goapele tends to encompass in her music.
Even as a soul and R&B artist, she captures the attention of listeners of all genres of music due to the
encouraging messages that exude from her lyrics and
sound. Not only do the sensuous instrumentals draw
you in, but her vocals do the same.

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s a Cornell student, have you ever needed a boost
of confidence on a dreary day? Have you been
stressed about prelim grades and upcoming finals?
In one of her most popular songs, “Closer”, Goapele

highlights the idea that each step of the way you take
on your pathway in life is a step closer to fulfilling
your dreams. This is a wonderful song to listen to
when you need the encouragement to keep pushing
through, even during your darkest times. Fill up that
cup of coffee, blast this song, and take that trek to the
nearest library to continue “moving closer to your
dreams.”

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hat about those days you just feel inadequate or
scared of what the future holds? Both “Change
It All” and “Find A Way” are empowering songs that
will encourage people to want to make a difference.
Many times, we all struggle and lose sight of what
our true focus is. Yet by listening to these songs, you
can regroup and regain the strength you need to make
it through that all-nighter, climb that hill, and ace
that test. It is important to rid ourselves, as women
at Cornell, of the negative attitude we may cultivate
and change our viewpoint to a more positive one. By
listening to the music of Goapele, not only will you
be inspired, but you will be driven to help inspire others as well.

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hrough the good times and the bad, it is important
to remember that our academic pursuits come
first. So on that bad day, remember that Goapele’s
inspiring lyrics are only a YouTube search away. If
you enjoy what you listen to, be sure to look out for
her upcoming album, “Break of Dawn”, which will be
released at the end of October 2011.

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Self-Image | Rap Session Reflection

Just Know the Name: Don’t Know the Pain
I remember when I saw Precious. I watched it
in fragments, needing time to digest the terribly sad
segments that were the narration of someone else’s life.

By: Ujijji Davis

Being a black woman in America is not easy. I
still get asked if I’m in the right place at certain venues; my name is still butchered at every roll call; I am
I remember when I saw For Colored Girls. I had still assumed to be the help at stores and restaurants.
read the play and played the Girl in Red while in high
But it’s that image of us—the low and downtrodden
school, but I sat in the theatre frustrated and angry.
image—that we can change.
So how do we do that? We continue to do
I didn’t bother to watch The Help. I wasn’t ready
great things. Black women have made great contributo watch another movie about black women and subtions to this society, and the world at large. We start
servience, or about friendly white ladies in a time of
with ourselves: making differences, painting new porracial stigma and segregation.
traits and marking new tracks. We dismiss the image
of a creature that is barely surviving into a new image
In these recent films, it seems as though the
where we are the fittest. Our history is what makes
media’s choice of portraits for black women don’t reus strong, and our long-term struggle is what drives
ally speak to us anymore. It seems like the story of the
us. But it’s our achievement and endurance that will
black woman is more than struggle: it’s mere survival.
define us for an image that we truly deserve.
There is no more room for overcoming or achievement; its been replaced with staying alive.
To be fair, there are girls like Precious, and
there are colored girls who have considered suicide.
We’ve met them, maybe, or we’ve heard about them.
And there’s the polar opposite side of the spectrum,
like the Huxtables and the Obamas. That sparks the
question: who’s story has the right to be told? And
those in middle ground: where do we fit in, and when
does our story get told?
Tyler Perry probably won’t make a movie out
of my life: it’s not a tragedy, I’m not selling my body
for drugs, and I don’t have a grandmother that’s 6’5’’.
Still, my story is valid because I am living the black
female experience every day. However, I’m seeking
before i ever knew the rainbow cud be enuf
opportunities to highlight an untold story of a black
‘Mama said life would be this hard
Growing up days as a black girl scarred
woman in America: my story.
In every way still we’ve come so far
Here at Cornell, we are role models for the
They just know the name
next generation. We’re setting standards by merely
They
don’t know the pain
being here, and we raise bars by excelling here. We are
So please hold ya heads up high
empowered by our own drive, our own aspirations, and
Don’t be ashamed of yourself
our own lives. Our achievements are our stories, and
Know I will carry it forth till the day I die
those are the kinds that resonate with the people that
They just know the name
follow.
They don’t know the pain
We are more than the framework in the meBlack girl…’
dia. We are not all cleaning ladies, or single mothers;
we are not all illiterate, or a social worker’s case. We
~Black Girl Pain, Talib Kweli & Jean Grae,
should not be defined by our struggles, but by our tri“The Beautiful Struggle”
umphs.
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Self-Image And Spirituality | Self-Image

Self-Image: What He
Wants You to See
By: Ashley Black
We are often concerned with whether or not our (or a
friend’s) self-image is healthy, but what defines this
personal snapshot as being in tip-top shape? Media,
psychological studies, and self-help books have all
gotten their word in, but I’m here to tell you what His
Word says.
You are Loved. First and foremost, God loves you.
No matter how much you screw up, complain, or
what have you, His love continues to cover us. Look
at the Israelites as an example. They melted down
gold and made a calf to worship (Exodus 32), but
God still led them into the land of “milk and honey.”
From a Christian point of view, the ultimate proof
of God’s love is the sacrifice of Jesus: “For God so
loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son,
that whosoever believeth on him shall not perish, but
have everlasting life” (John 3:16). If he can love you
that much, despite all that you’ve done, you should
be able to love yourself and see yourself as being
worthy of love from others.

You are more than a Conqueror. God has predestined
us to be powerful – “For God hath not given us the spirit
of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind”
(2 Timothy 1:7). If we love God, we can triumph over
anything that gets in our way as long as we remain in
His will. He speaks through Isaiah and says, “No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper; and every
tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment thou shalt
condemn...” (Isaiah 54:17). To sum this up, “Nay in all
these things we are more than conquerors through him
that loved us.” (Romans 8:28). Basically, you should
know that we are #winning. Just not in the same way as
Charlie Sheen.
You are Worth It. Embedded in your self-image should
be the FACT that you are not perfect, but you are still
worth it! We all make mistakes, for “all have sinned,
and come short of the glory of God…” (Romans 3:23).
However, remember you are consistently growing,
changing and renewing. As God says, “Behold, the
former things are come to pass, and new things do I
declare… ” (Isaiah 42: 9). Regardless of what has happened, is happening, or will happen, God’s thoughts are
“thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you an expected end.”
When you find yourself pondering your self-image,
don’t forget to add God’s lens to the camera.

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Spotlight! | Eye Candy

By: Chineze Ebo

don’t see many stars in the sky; if any at all. At the time
I was dating a young lady who complained from time to
time that she had never seen a star-filled sky, so after dinner I surprised her by taking her to a mountainside where
she could see them. We had a good time.
hat’s your view on relationships?
HEALTHY relationships are great when everyone
is open and honest. It’s beautiful when two individuals
find a connection rooted in trust and love and are committed to building upon that connection. It’s not easy to
find or pursue, but as long as communication is open and
honest, I believe it can be achieved.
hat’s your perfect date?
That’s a hard question only because, as a man you
want the woman you’re taking out to enjoy herself. Maybe spend the day in the city and grab lunch. If she likes to
dance, maybe later on take her to the club, but ideally, I
like to finish the night comfortably at the house watching
a DVD. When you can just truly cool out with someone I
believe you’ve found someone special. Sweat pants and
basketball shorts dates are the best!!! Final answer.
hat kind of music do you like?
I mainly listen to Hip-Hop and R&B. I love the
Motown classics. I have certain jazz and classical pieces I
enjoy when I’m in need of something different.
hat are your plans after graduation?
It’s my plan to teach while pursuing my law degree.
ho serves as a role model for you?
Hands down, my grandfather! He was a sharecropper from a segregated rural region of Virginia. My
grandfather wasn’t as fortunate as most and was forced
to leave elementary school to help tend the fields. When
he finally had a family of his own he eventually moved
to New Jersey in hopes of offering his family a better
quality of life. He worked several jobs tirelessly to provide for his family. Never did his family go without. His
devotion to his wife and children inspires me to no end.
He embodies the definition of a husband and father. His
example as a provider makes clear to me the importance
of man’s presence within the family structure and motivates me to insure that I am in a position to provide for
my family one day.

hat physical characteristic do you appreciate the
most in a female?
I assume I’m supposed to say a woman’s eyes or smile
are what I most appreciate in a woman, but honestly what
stands out to me are the lines in a woman’s body. I’m
not speaking on how “thick” a woman is, but the defined
lines that outline a woman’s shape are what I find most
attractive.
hat personality trait do you admire in a female?
I like a woman with an attitude or what most
would consider edgy or unapproachable, yet still preserving an air of class and intelligence. A “strong” personality
is definitely something that sparks my interest.
hat is your ideal woman?
I don’t believe there is an ideal or perfect woman.
That’s an unfair standard. However, I like a woman who
complements me. Someone who brings balance and
PEACE to my day-to-day is someone I would invite into
my life. That’s priceless.
hat’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done for
a female?
I’m not exactly sure if this is romantic, but back home we

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Self-Image | Uplifting Music

Listen Up: Uplifting Music for
the Cornell Female
By: Alana Seixas
We are living in an time where it is acceptable for a
Top 40 hit to say something like “ I’m trying to find the
words to describe this girl without being disrespectful.”
Do these singers really have such limited vocabulary?
Why should we waste our time listening to music that
defaces and demeans us? We should make a point to surround ourselves with music that describes women in a
positive and respectful way. It is essential for us to listen
to music by female artists-- music that aims to build
our character and our confidence, and teaches us about
healthy relationships.
“I am woman, hear me roar/ In numbers too big to
ignore/ And I know too much to go back and pretend…”
This is how Helen Reddy begins the famous song “I Am
Woman”, the anthem of Women’s Liberation Movement
in the 1970s. In Reddy’s search for a song that embraces
female self-image, she was disappointed to find none. So,
she took it upon herself to write a song that embraced her
femininity. We are fortunate enough to have a variety of
positive female artists to sample, from Beyoncé to TLC
to India.Arie.

Poetry | Features

A Conversation By: Katrina Ablorh
You have not a CLUE.
I think you’re acting brand new.
You went there,
without a care.
Left me behind,
man that was unkind...
You are
FAKE.
Are you serious?
You must be delirious.
From ninth grade to college,
I have kept it one hundred with you.
From ninth grade to college,
the only thing that has changed about me was
the fact that I have
matured.
You should be happy for me.
But instead, you’re bitter and salty that I have
Blossomed.
Sounds like
jealousy.
Who do you think you are?
Your whole swag changed.
You’re feeling yourself a bit TOO much.

Being a Cornell female is difficult. But we must remember that we are the next generation of female leaders.
Below are a compiled playlist of my personal favorite
female anthems.
I Am Not My Hair- India.Arie
Unpretty- TLC
Moment 4 Life-Nicki Minaj
Wait ‘Til You See My Smile- Alicia Keys
Pretty Girl Rock- Keri Hilson
Pearl- Katy Perry
Private Party- India.Arie
A Woman’s Worth- Alicia Keys
Independent Woman- Destiny’s Child
King of Anything- Sara Bareilles
Took the Night-Chelley
Powerless- Nelly Furtado
Who Runs the World(Girls)- Beyoncé

Because I am more sure of myself,
you’re hating?
Because I am comfortable in my skin
I am accused of feeling myself?
This is absurd.
So what?
I’m confident.
Bite me.
Comm’on son.
If anything,
I have evolved into
a better me.
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Community | Diversity at Cornell

Black Students United?

Most of us are acquainted with a recent article
entitled Ivy League Fooled: How America’s Top Colleges Avoid Real Diversity. Personally, I did not appreciate how this article was formulated. First, the title of
the article is actually misleading to the article’s purpose.
Why mention “real diversity”, and then only speak on
the behalf of “black” people? Furthermore, most black
people check off “black” on the general ethnic identification checklist. When speaking of “black” people, why
make it African immigrants versus native African-Americans; how about non-Hispanic Afro-Caribbeans living
in America? Where do they fit into this article? I also
did not appreciate the article’s interchange or assumed
synonymy of the terms black immigrant and African
immigrant; a black immigrant to the United States can
come from anywhere in the world.
For those who have not read this article, it essentially makes three assertions: One, that black immigrants
are accepted into American universities more than native
black-Americans because black immigrants are wealthier—that is, universities promotion of “diversity” purposely ignores affirmative action; Two, that promoting
general diversity does not fix economic class inequality;
and three, that the disproportionate representation of
black immigrants versus native black-Americans may
actually not be because of wealth, or qualifications, but
because of a will to succeed.
First, I’ll explore the assertion that universities’
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By: Meave Otieno

promotion of diversity ignores affirmative action. Quoted directly from the article, “While
affirmative action started as a system to right the
wrongs of slavery and institutional anti-black
racism, helping wealthy immigrants who weren’t
here for those struggles doesn’t serve any of the
program’s original intentions.” While this assertion may hold true, it would have to assume that
wealthy black immigrants (especially those who
are citizens of the U.S.) do not have a historical
experience of anti-black racism, which I doubt.
Furthermore, these wealthy black immigrants
would have to claim the nonexistence of racial
discrimination in America —once again, something I doubt. However, within this argument of
wealth, I do in fact suspect foul play in the part of
admissions administrators. For instance, as drawn
from Walter Benn Michaels’ book, The Trouble
with Diversity, selective universities are not
beyond using “diversity” as an excuse to accept a
wealthier “black” immigrant, as opposed to a less
wealthy native black-American with the same
qualifications, to fill their “black” quota.
Further research, however, particularly
from a study in Sociology of Education mentioned in the Ivy Leauge article, found that native
blacks are just as likely as black immigrants
to attend non-selective American universities.
Furthermore, native blacks are much more likely
than black immigrants to attend historically black
colleges and universities. Thus, the disproportion
of native black students versus black immigrants
is mostly observed in highly selective universities, these including the Ivy League universities.
The second assertion the article makes is
that promoting general diversity in the university
admissions process does not fix economic class
inequality. Michaels also argues that defining
diversity in terms of different ethnicities is useless given the “narrow social stratum from which

Diversity At Cornell | Community
college students come” (quoted from Andrew
Delbanco’s review of Michaels’ book). What Michaels argues is almost in lieu with the ignorance
of affirmative action mentioned above. Michaels
states that promoting general diversity obscures
the problems of class division. Within this promotion of diversity, those of the lower class, i.e.
poorer people, barely have a chance into selective universities because the heavy promotion of
diversity is against them.

Female
Minority
Represented?
Michael stretches his argument as far as
to state that racism and sexism do not exist in
America to the extent that they need to be considered in areas of equal opportunity—i.e. class
should be the deciding factor. Although Michaels
presents a strong and quite applicable argument
in the consideration of class, I disagree with his
views on the non-importance of racial and gender
identification, though for this article, I’ll concentrate on racial identification.
It is true that over the years different ethnicities have inter-reproduced and thus many people are of mixed ethnic backgrounds. However,
if President Obama is considered the first black
President of the United States, then obviously
there is still a strong sense of racial identification. It should be noted that class identification in
America is more mercurial; today poor can mean
tomorrow wealthy, and vice-versa as opposed to
racial identification. In relation to racial identification, i.e. black identification, the Ivy League
article seemingly incites or better yet promotes a
division within black people in America. That is
to say, we already divide ourselves (light skinned
vs. dark skinned etc); this article essentially
fosters the already existing division of African

immigrant vs. native African-American.
The article’s final assertion is that the disproportionate representation of African immigrants versus
native African-Americans may actually not be because
of wealth, or qualifications, but because of a will to
succeed. The author of this assertion states, as quoted
from the article “Descendants of slaves came here on a
ship as chattel, not on a plane or inner tube with hopes
of an American dream. Honestly, I believe it’s difficult
to strive for better when you already live in what people
name the American dream, but what you have lived is
a nightmare.” I cannot even begin to disagree with this
statement. I agree with it wholeheartedly, although I also
wonder, what about those immigrants who give up quite
a comfortable life in their respective nations and do not
find the American dream, and are thus stuck struggling
in the American lower socioeconomic class?
Now that I’ve somehow broken down what
the article delineated, as well as my thoughts on those
delineations, how does all this apply to Cornell? As
students within a selective university, there is obviously
a disproportionate representation of black immigrants in
comparison to native black-Americans. However, I do
not think this disproportion creates a divided community.
Yes, we have many specific Afro-organizations such
as Nigerian Students Association, Ghanaians@Cornell,
Haitians Students Association, Caribbean Students Association, Coalition of pan-African Scholars, and Black
Students United to name a few, but, for the most part,
we all identify as black students and usually attend each
others’ events.
However, I’ve often heard black students speak
of the phenomenon where other students would either
tell them, or speak of the idea that some (or even most)
black students are only accepted because of the university’s “diversity quota” or because of “affirmative action”
and not necessarily because the students made stellar
achievements in high school that would get them into
such a selective institution. And so it seems that as this
idea of the disproportion of black immigrants vs. black
Americans perpetuates, a division in the black community (or some animosity) may soon emerge with regards
to this problem of “why” someone was accepted into
the university, and possibly disrupt black unity on this
campus and others alike.
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Features | | Food For Thought: Guilty Until Proven Innocent

Guilty Until Proven Innocent

By: Kyeiwaa Amofa-Boachie

It is no secret that a large percentage of the black population is incarcerated by the federal
justice system in some form of facility. According to the Race, Ethnicity, & Healthcare Fact Sheet
produced by the Henry J. Kaiser Family Foundation of 2006, 1.5% of the White male population
and 3.6% of the Hispanic male population was locked up by the year 2005. The percentage of black
males locked up by 2005 was a staggering 10.1%, excluding men on parole. The black population
in America is composed of roughly 14%, yet in America’s prisons, black males compose roughly
40% of the population. However, do not let the high statistics of the percentages of blacks in prison
fool you into thinking that there is something wrong with all of the black men in America.
“If you can’t do the time, don’t do the crime,” is one adage that many keep in mind when
it comes to the idea of punishing an individual for their actions. Yet, there are cases when more than
just “time” is the punishment, and there are cases where individuals did not actually do the crime.
These people are innocent, but remain trapped under the judicial system. The growing use of the death penalty as punishment is what
helped initiate the growth of organizations such as the Innocence Project, which was founded in 1992 as a non-profit organization dedicated to freeing wrongfully convicted people by “DNA testing and reforming the criminal justice system to prevent future injustice.”*
And, they emphasize that “the prospect of innocents languishing in prison or, worse, being put to death for crimes that they did not
commit, should be intolerable to every American, regardless of race, politics, sex, origin, or creed.”*
There are numerous situations to provide as examples in such an instance, because there are many ways for an individual to
be wrongly accused and sentenced. The most common factors contributing to
false convictions are centered around eyewitness misidentification, government
misconduct, false confessions, bad ‘lawyering’, unreliable or improper forensic
science, or the informants contacted. Alone, eyewitness misidentification plays
a role in the improper conviction of more than 75% of people who have been
freed through DNA testing.
In addition, there are times when governments use harsh questioning
tactics for people who do not cooperate with them. There is the troubling case
of Eddie Lloyd, who was falsely convicted in 1984 for the murder of a 16 year
old girl in Detroit after giving a written and tape-recorded confession. Turns out,
Lloyd was mentally ill and DNA testing available in 2002 proved he was innocent. The only reason this individual had the chance to be
exonerated was because the death penalty in Michigan had been outlawed at the time of his sentencing, which gave him the opportunity to use DNA testing to prove his innocence. Lloyd served nearly 20 years of his life for a crime he did not commit, and could have
been executed for it as well.
The recent case of Troy Davis was one in which many organizations were concerned about. In regards to Amnesty International, the main concern revolving around Troy Davis’ case was the immense doubt and the overall inhumane act of the death penalty.
In regards to the Innocence Project, there was bad ‘lawyering,’ eyewitness misidentification, and improper or unreliable forensic
evidence, just to name a few. This organization, like many others, called for Georgia to release Mr. Davis. That never happened, and on
September 22, 2011 Mr. Davis was executed.
As long as people pick and choose between situations that call for the death penalty versus situations that do not call for it,
the death penalty will remain effective in America, and the government is given a different type of power; the power to kill. And, as
we have experienced, the government is neither always right nor perfect. The government makes mistakes, and in terms of the justice
system, the mistakes come in the form of innocent lives being either locked up or killed. The government should not be in the practice
of killing the people they rule over, and we should not be in the practice of letting the statistics define the type of people we are.
The point of all this is to hopefully remind some of you that there are cases in which blacks and other minorities did nothing
at all to be incarcerated, and were simply at the wrong place at the wrong time with the wrong group of people. It happens more often
than many people think, especially in the cases of people of color. Yes, you may have been blessed enough to attend Cornell University.
But, at the end of the day, if you happen to be at the wrong place at the wrong time with the wrong set of people, you could be the next
innocent life trapped in what America calls its Judicial System.
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Diva Speaks | Features

Dear Diva Speaks,

diva SPEAKS

I have a pretty complex question. If this issue is all about self-image, and how we see ourselves then my
question should fit right in. Ok, so here it goes. I am heavy. As a 19 year old young woman surrounded by
girls who look more like the pictures I see in most magazines it has never been easy to be the “chubby” girl
and although I have always been taught by my amazing parents to love every curve on my body, since I got
to college I’ve found that it’s tougher than ever. How do I deal with the fact that it seems like all of the guys
here only want girls who look as much like the girls they see in music videos as possible. I’m at a point
where I’m starting to over analyze every little thing about myself every day. I don’t usually feel like I’m not
attractive but when I go through so many months on end without even one guy here showing any interest in
me...well...a girl starts to wonder....
Signed,

Woman-In -The Mirror

Dear Woman in The Mirror,
I have a pretty simple answer for you. And, this answer will
apply for the rest of your life; whether you are at an institution
of higher learning, out in the real world workforce, or taking a
stroll through your local shopping mall. The minute we start defining how we feel about ourselves by the feedback we get from
the outside world before we take stock of HOW WE FEEL, we
are headed down a slippery slope into a dangerous place. I won’t
be unrealistic and say that others opinions of us can ever affect
how we see ourselves. That is almost inevitable. What I will say
though is it can not and should not be either the thing we consider
first or the thing we weigh most heavily. Weight loss, physical
appearance adjustments, fashion or style changes...even a new
hairdo, or the inspiration to attempt any of the latter, should come
first from how we TRULY feel about ourselves when we “Look
in the Mirror.”

Girl, the world may have nothing but negative things to say about the blue platform sneakers you absolutely love, right up until they show up on some french runway!! People’s opinions are fickle and styles and
trends change every time you blink. We have to ask ourselves if we are contemplating a change because deep
down we don’t like what we see and not because we think the change might affect how much the outside
world likes what they see when they look at us. This is especially so when it comes to attracting potential
romantic partners. Young men are at college exploring themselves, their own self-images and how much of
that is influenced by their friend groups and mainstream society. But, as cliché as this may sound; the guy
for you won’t be deciding if you’re beautiful based on any of those things. Besides, the best part about all of
this is you have plenty of time to bump into this great guy! In the meantime do what makes you feel good. If
it’s stiletto’s to class, a brand new hair color, the cutest outfits you love in all of your favorite fall and winter
colors, or committing to go to the gym just one day a week with some friends you really adore, DO IT!
In the end, those are the things that should determine how you feel about the beautiful woman “In the
Mirror” looking back at you!

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imara
woman

i *mar* a: ee-mar-rah

noun, Swahili word for Strength
the quality or state of being strong

courage
finesse

honor

Our deepest fear is not that we are
inadequate. Our deepest fear is that
we are powerful beyond measure.
~Marianne Williamson

strength wisdom
CONFIDENCE inspiration
gentle
Remember, no one can make you
feel inferior without your consent.
~Eleanor Roosevelt

beauty

determination
power
charm charisma regality
grace

Women speak two languages - one of
which is verbal. ~William Shakespeare

It was evening time, and my best friend summoned me to the back porch. She was unencumbered. A free-spirited, brown-skinned, healthybodied, naturally beautiful, young, black woman
from the future who loved me. There was resonance between us. A thick, wide throng of deeply
and richly colored people of all races were dancing in a circle around our house.

I joined the power of the dance for a moment, then became more interested in taking
a look past the huge trees up the broad, steep
incline beside the house. The trees were
positioned at the base of the hill. The big
full-leafed branches hang low, so I had to
bend to peer under and up the path. The path
was wide and the dirt rich and brown, sorta
dusty, like one should walk in it barefoot. I
slowed to take this in because this is Africa
and I long to know her.

They were dancing with abandon
in a single rhythm and having sooo
much fun! My best friend from the
future was one of those deeply and
richly colored people of all races,
so she rejoined the throng as it
claimed her readily and wisked her
away. “Let me into this,” I thought
to myself, then jumped in near my
friend, but she had already disappeared. Left without ambivalence.
Rocking deep into her destiny.

I find she longs to know me too.
Is intrigued by the newness of me.
Deeply interested in learning from
me what that newness is, and offering a protected space for me to
freely be myself.

She is enamored with me, eager to know my
thoughts and feelings, trusts and needs me to show
her how to support my unfolding. I’m starting to
feel real.

Myra Sabir is an Associate Dean in the College of Arts and
Sciences. She is a compassionate, strong, understanding
woman of color that always has an open door and a will to
listen. If you would like to speak to her, feel free to make an
appointment. Because IMARA women are always there for
each other.

It’s different in here where we’re all real.
Truly beautiful people - each a unique embodiment of the mystery. We have the ups
and downs, but the ups and downs don’t
have us. This awesome world is 3-D and I
like it.

Naked spirit rising.
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Special Thanks to: Dr. Renee Alexander, SAFC,
ALANA, ISPB, Bartels Family Fund
The IMARA woman is...
Cosmopolitan by nature
She is modern by choice
She is a queen by birthright
She holds the puissance of
Cleopatra
The confidence of Nefertiti
The allure of Aphrodite
She embodies the Agape Theon
She is the progeny of Isis
She is fervent and resolute
She is stronger than the strongest
diamond
And just as precious
She is flirty, fun and fleeting
She is a scholar, an athlete and a
leader
She excels, she succeeds, she
overachieves
She is the personification of IMARA
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