Married To Jezebel Spirit

I am desperate for help, please somebody help me!!!I am married to a woman who operates under the influence of the jezebel spirit. I need help on how to deal with this. We have been married for fifteen months.

cluny, i appreciate the point that you are making. however, ADD and ADHD are real conditions, but it was misused and ballooned into misdiagnosis and wrongly medicating a generation of children. so, something can exist but taken way out of context.

ginger, i understand the concepts of incarnate, Eucharist, and well...Bible...again they are conceptual and can be supported by Scripture.

//Lets not complicate things by giving names of people to the spirit itself//

There is so much lost from life and the scriptures because most adults want to "not complicate". if word pictures, metaphor, simile, and other comparisons are tedious for you, I am truly sorry. However, my kids appreciate when I help them understand with these devices. I appreciate our Father also gave them to us.

they are only superstition or complicated if you take them in the wrong spirit.

Aka, I believe what the word of God says.The physical eucharist (passover) ended at Christ's death and resurrection.Simply say "God in the flesh" if you will because the Bible says that, not incarnate. And Jesus is not in heaven in flesh anymore, nuff said.Yes all those things you listed have spirits. But....All sin comes from the lust of the flesh and eyes and pride of life. Lets not complicate things by giving names of people to the spirit itself when the root of it are those 3 things. You can't get rid of something if you don't know where it comes from. All of the manifestations of the flesh (sin,Gal.5) come from the lust of the eyes, the lust of the flesh and the pride of life.

aka, I apologize if you feel like I insulted you. That was not my intentions.You stated that Jezebel was said to be a spirit in Revelations when she is not. According to Revelations she was a woman. Now, usually, when this is put before us, it is talking about a church not a spirit brother.So I would say Jezebel represents an heretic church that has gone against what God clearly tells us to do and does what God clearly tells us not to do.There is no such thing as a Jezebel spirit or Ahab spirit.That is the flesh and the fruits of it.

Unfortunately the term "Spirit of Jezebel" is often used against women that are ministers of various churches. It is really a form of gender discrimination and scripture is often used incorrectly to support their misguided viewpoint.

While the denomination I currently attend does not ordain women, I feel that once they become more enlightened by what they see in other denominations, they will eventually ordain woman as pastors, deacons & elders.

The Spirit of Jezebel as stated in Revelations has nothing to do with wives, girlfirends etc. It has to do with the following scriptures concerning the woman who rides the beast...APOSTATE Christianity...and all those who are APOSTATE have a Jezebel spirit, are warned they will be thrown into the Great Tribulation.

22Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds.

23And I will kill her children with death, and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works. ---kathr4453 on 7/27/10

The lusts of the fleshThe lust of the eyesand the pride of lifeMen can have this too!

So, there really there's no such thing as a Jezebel spirit. Its what men like to label women who they can't "seem" to control. Revelations does not call her a spirit. She is actually a woman named Jezebel. Rev. 2:20.

If men followed what Jesus taught they would not have to control women. They would submit to each other in LOVE! God put in woman a natural desire for her husband.Are you trying to rule her or are you trying to LOVE her?Ask yourself that question.

andy3996, I know you have not been posting since 98 (at least as andy3996), but my use of // indicated a quote from a previous post. Unlike many here, i just don't call that person out in most circumstances.

If you settle down a little you will see the poster before me said, "...Read your bible people and quit listening to false prophets and teachers teaching doctrines of demons. There is no such thing as a Jezebel spirit. Jezebel is dead. The woman in the book of Revelation is not called Jezebel."

I pointed out that indeed Jesus himself refers to the Jezebel spirit in Revelations and it is alive indeed.

but I have against you... (revelations)Aka, you say silly Jesus? silly You that you even can give this kind of comment. the woman Jezebel is an imagery.jezebel in the bible was a worshipster of Astarte and Baal. a double divinity that has come in many forms in different religions. but basiucally it was alway the idea of balance between good and evil. the ying yang theory as it where. feminine and masculine and etc. -too little space to go deeper) however what is important is that the jezebelspirit oposes the true manifestations of the holy spirit by teaching immorality sexual perversionsfalse prophecies and manipulation and false religion. now back to you brother with the problem! are you sure this is a description of your wife

Rev 2:20 But I have this against you, that you tolerate that woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess and is teaching and seducing my servants to practice sexual immorality and to eat food sacrificed to idols.

Somebody should have told Jesus that she was already dead. Silly Jesus.

Christians have taken too many things out of context. Read your bible people and quit listening to false prophets and teachers teaching doctrines of demons. There is no such thing as a Jezebel spirit. Jezebel is dead. The woman in the book of Revelation is not called Jezebel.

fighit the spirit after you have done prayer of intercession for her wait of her sin will come upon you as she comes to understand it is sin she will leave the way and both of you will be free. for this you must be born again christian. filled with holy ghost strong in faith ready to suffer for her as christ did for chruch

The Spirit of Jezebel as stated in Revelations has nothing to do with wives, girlfirends etc. It has to do with the following scriptures concerning the woman who rides the beast...APOSTATE Christianity...and all those who are APOSTATE have a Jezebel spirit, are warned they will be thrown into the Great Tribulation.

22Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds.

23And I will kill her children with death, and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works.

Bless you Moira, for your insight, I tire of men blaming everything a woman does or thinks on her own as being a "jezebel spirit", not that I don't think demons are real but I think we often give them too much credit.

It may be just your wife's fear you are picking up on. Many women have an inherited and unconscious fear of men that surfaces when they marry. It certainly can manifest as manipulation but only as a form of self-defence, and also in criticism, especially in front of other people as they are frightened of the results of confrontation and open discussion when alone with their husband. But these women have low self-esteems, and lack of self-worth, which is the opposite of a Jezebel, so nothing to worry about. Anyway the 'perfect love of Jesus casts out fear' and we are called to 'overcome evil with good' and also to 'love our enemies, pray for them and do not curse them'. This is an old post, though, so I wonder how it worked out for you.

be strengthened with word, fast that you be strong. Ask God to show you you whatever role you have played in linking up with this spirit you repent and be forgivened. Read Ezra chapter 10 ask God for his revelation. ttop submittinng to that spirit by keeping false peace.Break ovenant with it and ask God for his instructions when you said I do to thiswoman more than likely you said I do to that spirit because you became one and you gave it the right to have its way in your life. Ask the Holy Spirit to rise up in you set a standard against the enemy call angels to defend you as well as those whom God has called to be your armour bearers. Heaven does have a system God has put in place that his people have the victory.Be blessed in Jesus name.

I sugget you seek the devine guidance of the Holy Spirit, through very carefully articulated prayer and ask the Holy Spirit to increase your faith. Remember, dont stop praying and dont stop believing that christ has conquered all the Devil's strongholds.

Have you found out what to do about this? I don't know how long ago you wrote this but I just saw it while searching out about Jezebel Spirits. My mother and sister operate in this and I don't know what to do! I'm afraid of my sister as she has threatened me and I don't know what she is thinking of trying to do to me. I hope you are still on here and can let me know of anything you have learned since writing this.

We know nothing about Zac's wife or how she demonstates the so-called "spirit", but everybody is ready to make a judgement about what she is like and what Zac should do.

Advice varies from "mercilessly demand that she submit to you"to"Divorse this woman with the Jezebel spirit imediatly."(sic) even to"If the individual is unrepentant and unwilling to undergo deliverance, he or she must be removed from the church"

If Zac wants to save his marriage, I hope follows the only credible advice given by a few and GET COUNSELING, BOTH of you! (but not from John Paul Jackson)

Donna66, I was thinking just like you when I answered. The person in 2007, says he is desperate and seems to know the spirit by name. I think that he read the story of Jezebel and what she did so he assumes it is the same spirit that is influencing his wife. I was wondering how he knows she is operating under that influence. I hear the spirit of hate, bad driving, fat, and so many more. he never says what it is she is doing. Maybe it was a joke just to see what people would say. Did you read Whisper's comments? Wow they were giving some redical advice in 07. Mario wife and mom had it. Wow. The best answer was from Christian.

Zak, how in the world do you know that your wife is operating under the spirit of Jezebel? Are you saying there is a spirit specifically called Jezebel? I hope you don't follow the suggestions to throw her out the window, especially if you live in a two story or three story home. And we don't have wild dogs, they are domesticated. I believe you have a bigger problem. Someone that won't listen to you and wants control to do what she wants. You need counseling real bad. Get your pastor to come and help you. Or a few brothers and sisters to your home to pray with you and your wife.

You need to read how the Jezebel spirit was defeated by Jehu. He had eunuchs throw the original Jezebel out the window to her death...You need to exercise spirtual warfare. Fast, pray and invite the Holy Spirit to dwell in your home. The Jezebel spirit cannot dwell where the Spirit of the Lord is.

Exercise deliverance in your home. Pray in the Spirit in your house and exposing this spirit. Your wife will realize that she has been under the influence of the Jezebel spirit after the scales come off her eyes.

Don't give in to the spirits of fear and depression during this time. Realize that you are not dealing with flesh and blood, but powers and principalities. Love your wife, hate the spirit, and both of you will see freedom.

there is hope for you! I highly recommend that you order Jonas Clark's CD on the jezebel spirit and contact his ministry. He is one of the world's leading ministers with incredible and discernment regarding this spirit. , . You need to ask yourself if you have opened the door for your wife to take the lead in the home.....Do you make final decisions or does she ? if so. then repent and ask God's forgiveness and start warring in the spirit. First bind the strong man, Bind Jezebel and then start plundering her house by Binding the spirit of jezebel in her. Then plead the Blood of Jesus and anoint her pillow with oil ...she might get worse!! BUT DONT WORRY!!! It will work !! Trust the Lord he will guide you

Michael - You are WRONG. Who does this person have as the third party in the marriage covenant (God or Satan)? If you are married to a person with the Jezebel Spirit, then your covenant is to Satan, NOT God. This person should leave the marriage, so that the covenant of Satan will be broken.

You can't leave the COVENANT. Yes, it's hard but you must love her as Jesus loves you. He promised to never leave or forsake you and He is interceding for you. Now you must do the same for her and deliverance will surely come.She will not be submissive to any man until her flesh is subdued to the Spirit. Maintain your walk in the Spirit too.

Divorse this woman with the Jezebel spirit imediatly. Then get as far away from her as possible. The Bible says we are to come out from among them and be separate. If you are not willing to do this, then take her to an exorcist to get those demons out. If you stay with her in her current state, you are opening yourself up for curses and trouble.

Dealing with a Jezebel spirit is a deeply spiritual project. 1. Raise your spiritual life. 2. Stay in the Word. 3. Declare a fast once a week hust to worship and to accumulate the anointing.4. Do not give her control over your life. 5. Refuse manipulation, be it crying, threats, rejection or sadness. The Jezebel spirit wants attention and sympathy and pity parties. The anointing in your life will break the yoke of bondage. She will be delivered or she will find a reason to leave you. Be strong and of good courage and do not compromise.

You guys are unbelievable! If I hear one more word about this "Jezebel spirit" residing in a woman, I'm gonna pull my hair out! Maybe if men treated women with respect and love they deserve, there'd be fewer "Jezebels" as you love to call them! And yes, some women can be real pills too--including me at times, but we don't have the Jezebel spirit residing in us for Pete's ssake--she's dead and gone!

I think I am in the same fight. We both talk about that spirit. I think the Lord showed my that humility is a weapon against this. We have gone back and forth, it has been a giant power struggle. I have thought I was loosing my mind. It has a way of blaming you for what it is doing. If you point out something controlling next thing you know it is trying to say you are being controlling.

No doubt at all: The Jezebel spirit manifests as paranoid schizophrenia. Love your wife, honour her, respect her, but draw a firm line. If she crosses the line you need to mercilessly demand that she submit to you. You need to be the MAN in the house & #8212, not the pathetic castrated eunuch. Reward her obedience to you, but punish with wisdom, and lots of suplication and prayer!

Jezebel needs Ahab(s) in order to function. And the only reasonable response would be for the congregation, with you, to rebuke it, 2Kings 9:32-37. Probably, that would take the resolve of a King Jehu mixed with the integrity of an Elijah. Of course, the Apostle John had it figured out pretty well in Revelations 2. If you're telling the truth, note the reaction of the people when you confront it. Who's: a Christian, a Jezebel, an Ahab, a spiritual eunuch? Ephesians 6:10-18.Matthew 7:1-5 / Luke 6:41-42 deal with hypocrisy, and unjust judgment. 1Corinthians 2:15, 5:3, 11-13, 6:4, 11:31 instruct us to judge. In 1Chronicles 16:22 & Psalms 105:15, touch means to strike, or kill.

I too am married to a woman with the Jezebel spirit. I am very unhappy and frustrated. To make matters worse my wifes mother also operates with this spirit and has a very strong influence on my wife. My wife is a Christian but her mother is not. I am a believer that this spirit is very unforgiving and unrepentant. I have noticed that both my wife and mother make decisions that benefit both of them but they have no regard for the pain that it may be causing another. And if you oppose them they always retaliate. I am not the same man I once was. I am trying to build a closer relationship with the Lord, because I feel that I must first start there. Pray with me.

I too, am married to a JEZEBEL. In order for you to get free of this spirit you need pastoral prayer and deliverance. It is very difficult to get them into any type of repentance and usually it's a false repentance. Good luck to you

Jezebel, spirit of control and manipulation, is not only found in women, but men, too.

Is it a war of the wills? Your will against her will? We do have a freewill.Are you spiritually bobbing her over the head with the "women must submit to husband" demands? Because submission is not one-sided.

No woman wants to admit it, be every woman has a small portion of a Jezebel spirit in her. We get jealous, angry, sad, more easier than a man. And we let them know it. If Mama ain't happy, ain't no body happy. When a woman gets upset at her husband, if he loves her and respects her, he will say, Yes dear, or okay dear and go on. But if the woman is a great child of God and the spirit is stronger than the flesh, she'll get better at overcoming this and be a better woman,wife,mother and a child of God

Blessings Zak, what do you mean by a woman who is operating under a jezebel spirit? How long did you know this woman before you married her? Are you both saved? Do you attend Church together? What is she doing for you to accuse her of this? Sorry about all the questions, but there are two sides to every story. Could you give us more information about this situation? I cannot comment, because there is not a lot of information given. God Bless friend!

Part 7. Since the Jezebel spirit counterfeits the Holy Spirit, they will have to admit that they were operating in the wrong spirit. They will need to acknowledge that the spirit which gave them comfort, power, insight, authority, value, and self esteem is demonic. If they make such a confession, it will leave them feeling confused and disoriented, not knowing what to believe or who to trust. For these reasons, I do not recommend taking this approach. More than likeley they won't acknowledge problem.

You must get to the root of when the person was REJECTED, it is usually those people who put up walls, and manipulate and control, they need a deliverance.

Removal. If the individual is unrepentant and unwilling to undergo deliverance, he or she must be removed from the church. 1 Corinthians 5:4-5. These severe corrections require that leaders continue to demonstrate love character, and valor.

According To J.P. Jackson, he goes on to say that there are two approches to take when confronting a Jezebelite the first is to announce your conclusion, however this approach rarely works. The stigma of being called Jezebel is too offensive. in addition such people have erroniously perceived that the Jezebel spirit is the Holy Spirit. part 6.

I want to read you an excerpt from my book by John Paul Jackson, and incredible man of God and author.

CASTRATING HER HUSBAND.

A Jezebel spirit will influence a woman to criticize and belittle her husband, telling him he is not spiritual enough, bold enough, making enough money, or that he is holding her back from the ministry God has awaiting her. She may apply subtle manipulative pressure on him by simply sighing and commenting.....PART ONE

part 2....how nice it would be to have this or that, knowing they can not afford it. She may also imply that if he really loved her, he would work harder to provide for all her needs and desires. Such manipulative ploys put incredible pressure on a man and increase his resentment. It may also cause him to flee into the arms of another woman who is more sensitive to his needs and who makes him feel appreciated and successful as a husband.

Part 3....Daughters reared by a domineering mother may manifest masculine or overtly aggressive behavior. Becoming like their mother and repressing their true femininity, regarding it as a detriment. Seeds of rebellion, manipulation, and control have been sowedinto their hearts by a domineering mother and in turn begin to operate with a Jezebel spirit. Sons.... Whenever parents are not fulfilling their rightful roles in marriage, their sons will become confused about their .....

The jezebel spirit is powerful if the person inhabited is not willing to recognize and change. Thankfully, you have the Lord. Through Christ we can do all things! Begin by letting her know how it makes you feel and how it affects your marriage. If she's a Christian, her conviction should tug at her soul. I'll pray, as should you, your first line of defense... follow with approaching her with several close Christian friends and tell her what she's doing. Be firm and illustrate consequences for her actions.

The Bible says that we as humans have the power to bind and loose. Start using your God-given authority and bind that spirit and tell that spirit to go to the "PIT" where it belongs. Also, the Jezebel has to do with the flesh. Make sure this person knows that they MUST DIE TO THEIR FLESH, or it will NOT leave.

First, learn all you can about this spirit. Only a known enemy can be defeated. I would suggest reading ,"Unmasking the Jezebel Spirit" by Jackson, a book by Jonas Clark, and "A Step Into Deliverance" by T. Pugh. Next, realize that you are fighting a spirit, not a person. Love your wife. Next, get counseling from wise and learned leaders. She will need much intercession, counseling & love to see her deception. Jezebel blinds its victim. Write me for updated information.

Zak - didn't this manifest before you got married? Seek an anointed man of God for counselling. Although you can't counsel a jezebel spirit, she needs to be told it has to be casted out of her. Will she resist? Is she willing to get help? Usually they are very rebellious and think they are always right and never wrong. My friend has one and is now saying jezebel is greater than God. Can you believe that?