*Moving from San Francisco and this needs to be updated*San Francisco is my home, been here long enough to say that I love it and it surprises me often with a laugh and a bit of what. I was raised in Philly

I do enjoy learning something different with interesting wordplay.Good friends, laughter and to keep a good conversation alive which is for me is what makes moments worth something

"The true mystery of the world is not the invisible but the visible." Oscar Wilde

What I’m doing with my life

Livin it and happily aware, interested with all of the good and .. some of make it better.Could be the three of the most important questions you can ask yourself: Who am I? Where am I going? Who's going with me?

I’m really good at

Being a grown man. Aware this my be a one sided introduction. You can ask me anything, If I do not know, I will tell you. Talking and listening just the right amount. Choosing the steps over the elevator, back roads over the interstate. Seeing the room, wanting a conversation I haven't had. A daydreaming romantic realist. Left over right, openness over obfuscation and chocolate. Enjoying thinking around a problem. Directions and fixing something broken.

The first things people usually notice about me

The blue eyes, a bit tall. May have a quick wit and smile with ears that listen. East coast sensibility. OKQ lets try to have more insightfulness with these questions..please

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

Ones that resonate with me and flip my preconceptions. Currently reading "The War of Art", "Quiet" and..

Billie Holiday on a Friday evening after work, with a warm breeze coming through the windows.

The six things I could never do without

Fun! Long walks at dusk, gut busting laughter, close friends, live music, just the right amount of coffee, a comfortable bed, hope, a lot of it, trust, a kiss that that makes you step back and say to yourself, wow! Camping by fire with new, old friends, meaningful cuddling, yes more laughing, a good meal, old friends that hold the stories that may make you cringe being repeated to a stranger. A Sunday morning swagger through a quiet city, dancing by candleligh. I have a good attitude towards living my life, Love and Art that resonates, maybe your shenanigans and my passport. I need more than six, we all are more than a list of ideas, right? It is what is between your commas that is interesting to me.A sly smile, sharp interesting wit and a endearing wiggle...

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Where the hell are you? How much of my life is really spent untangling my headphones. Experienceing something with someone I have yet to feel. Laughing a lot more with someone who gets this because I got this. Wondering what you think of this. When I am matched with women as zero on the OKQ algorithm, really.. 0%..?! I make a wry smile..

On a typical Friday night I am

Typical.. Who writes these questions? with friends or having a quiet night in with a equally good meal and movie or book maybe enjoying it, depends. Maybe at dive bar and probably talking with strangers about something about something..

The most private thing I’m willing to admit

I am open

There are many thoughtful, funny, interesting stories I have yet to hear

I do enjoy long form TV and radio interviews, yes I am talking to you Howad, Charlie Rose, Marc Maron, Frontline...

I know nothing about fantasy football and I really want to keep it that way.

This truly may be a spectacular waste of my time ..

I lost a lot of my freckles, though the hardy ones hang on.

I was very young when I was born, a lot has happened since then and I am willing to talk about

I've grown better with age

You should message me if

you can bring the funny and want to try again. You have read this far, I know it is tough trying for a connection, crazy huh. Maybe you would like to and able to have a good laugh at yourself, I do. Looking for spunk, a lot of it. Awareness of what you want and want someone who is willing to try. Heartfelt giggling and jokes of our own. Could you bring me something different? I can, if you can.