As far as lasting Hollywood romances go, Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell are arguably the gold standard. After 33 years together, the couple knows a thing or two about long-term love and Hawn’s Snatched costar Amy Schumer made certain to solicit her advice.

“[Goldie] and Kurt have been together forever,” Schumer, 35, told PEOPLE at the film’s New York City screening on Tuesday, hosted by Entertainment Weekly and InStyle. “You’re like, ‘Tell me how it works.’ Of course you want to ask her as soon as you see her.”

So what were the golden nuggets Hawn, 71, shared with her?

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“You have to want to stay together is what she always says,” Schumer shared. “It’s like two people have to want to be in it. You can’t work on that, either you want to be together or you don’t.”