Friday, March 21, 2014

The Rise of Angry Ex Wife

Though I've been divorced for quite some time now, some thing just never change. Like Billiard being a complete idiot, incompetent dumbass, and as always, irresponsibly selfish and late on his child support.

I'm convinced that he's a complete waste of space at this point.

This is what it all boils down to:

Fact: Child Support is due between the 1st-5th of every month. That's court ordered.

Fact: He consistently extends his own deadline because he doesn't feel that it's necessarily late.

Fact: On that rare occasion that he does pay ON TIME, he's always short.

Fact: The month of March, he promised to have Child Support delivered by March 7.

Fact: He was actually boarding a plane from BWI to MIA. This is him on March 9:

Fact: Needless to say, I couldn't get a hold of him to figure out when I would get that payment.

Fact: A week later, when he did return from vacation, and I finally was able to reach him on the phone, he hung up on me the minute I brought up child support. I called him back, no answer. I text him, no answer. Then he posted something on Facebook. This was the result:

Now, I don't make it a habit to post shit like this publicly, but the asshole pretty much didn't leave me with much of a choice.

We haven't talked since then and no mention has been made about when, if ever, will I be receiving my child support.

He gets paid today, but this was his house last night. I should probably mention that this is also the house we shared as a married couple. The house that I didn't request in the divorce:

Based on that, I'm guessing I won't be getting it today either.

So this is what it all comes down to. At the end of the day, I really could give two shits if I get the money or not. BUT, you have very little to do with my sons life to begin with. Unfortunately for me, I have visitation rights that I have to abide by. Not that you ever really use them. And unlike you, I do follow court order.

This is were I get pissed.

Fact: You haven't seen your son since, hell, I'm not ever really sure since when.

Fact: I reduced your child support from $800 to a meager $400 just to allot you money for flight cost from BWI to Vegas so you could fly out and see my son more frequently.

Fact: You claimed to have no vacation time and no money to travel and yet you took off of work a FULL week to fly to Miami, which you claim, your girlfriend paid for your trip.

As a side note to that last fact:If that is true about your girlfriend paying for the trip, don't you feel even the least bit like a losing piece of shit that a 24-year-old can foot the bill for a week long trip for 2 to Miami and the Keys, while a 32-year-old with an established career as an engineer can't even afford to pay a meager $400 a month in child support? I've got some rope laying around in my closet if you ever need to use it... Just saying... The offer is there...

Fact: You're a Facebook parent. You like to brag about the son you rarely see and consistently criticize my parenting when you're not even involved.

Fact: There isn't much I wouldn't give to get you to sign over your rights and never have to deal with you again. It's not about the money, I just want you gone at this point.

Guys like Billiard are what create the Angry Ex-Wife. They do ridiculous things to piss us off, like not seeing their child and/or not helping out financially. Then, the minute the ex-wife starts to lose her shit, they act like they're the greatest dad in the world and we're just a bunch of psychos. I stupidly gave him a lot of breaks in the divorce. Now, I have to work backwards to amend all the stupid things I did just because I was trying to be nice.

So the moral of the story is: When filling for divorce, always aim for the jugular.

My daughter's father paid two months child support in seventeen years. One day I realized that i couldn't live my life waiting for him to send money. I took steps toward becoming a self sufficient woman, a creative force that was the god and creator of my life. Today, I am a published author of 18 books and own 17 houses. I started out with $85.00 in my pocket. Women with bad exes need to look life squarely in the face and decide how they can support themselves and their children with or without dead beat dads. You are the goddess in your life. Create futures worthy of living.

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Angry Girlfriend lives in an undisclosed location. Most likely, somewhere in the desert under a rock, as this is the location where most mentally unstable people can be found.
She has a degree in Psychology (go figure) and plans to further her education. She hopes to one day become a sex therapist and writer. But until then, she's decided to torture the people of the internet by publishing all of her random nonsense on her blog.
If you've ever called a Phone Sex Hotline, chances are it was her on the other end of the line, and yes, she was laughing at you hysterically once she got you off the line. (Yes, that pun was intended).