I went to the eye doctor this weekend at a new office. The optometrist was in his mid 70s and was super nice through the first half of the exam. He asked me some vague personal questions one of which was if I was married and I informed him that I had a partner of 3 years but no, we weren't married. It didn't seem weird, it was just small talk I thought. Then after I went through the 1 no 2 no 1 portion he pushed the optical thing away from my face and leaned in close to me and placed his hand on my knee. I was already getting uncomfortable but then he started lecturing me, saying that I better make my boyfriend marry me or else he would lose interest and leave me and that I was getting old to not be married yet. I cut him off saying, "I don't want to discuss this" but I was trapped with him sitting in front of me blocking me form standing up plus he had my glasses so I couldn't see. He was arguing with me saying he was telling me this for my own good and that he was being "fatherly" but I didn't back down just kept repeating "I don't want to discuss this." I had to say it 4 times before he stopped, and he had the nerve to respond with, "well I don't want to discuss it anymore either." And I grabbed my glasses and my prescription and left in tears. I hate that a misogynistic old man could make me feel so powerless and judged.