Lingerie: A must have for confidence

I believe that everyone deserves to feel sexy, because everyone has something that's sexy about them. The trouble is, a lot of people don't have that confidence. I found my confidence to be sexy through the world of lingerie, and I believe that you can, too! Go on, dive in! You might just find something that'll change your world.

It all started with one chemise...

In September 2011, I purchased my first piece of real lingerie. I mean, besides standard bras and panties. Purchasing that first piece of lingerie seems to have set off a spark in me, as my collection has grown to contain nearly 100 garments – and trust me, that collection is nowhere close to being complete.

Prior to getting my first piece of lingerie, I felt like I could never be sexy. I thought I was an ugly duckling that was destined to never turn into a swan. My hair wasn’t blonde enough, and my eyes weren’t green enough. I was too fat, but too thin at the same time. My breasts weren’t perky enough, and my ass jiggled too much. And don’t even get me started on my stretch marks! ...In short, I felt like I was a puzzle that was put together wrong. I just didn’t make sense to me, so how could I ever be sexy?

I remember admiring the beautiful lingerie items that I saw in stores. I longed to be one of “those women.” You know, the ones that seem to rock everything they put on – THOSE women. The ones that are confident enough to wear sexy items. More than that, I envied the women that had someone to wear the sexy items for, as I was single at that time. Then, one day it occurred to me...what do I have to lose? Let’s risk it all, purchase something sexy, and see if I can rock it, too.

The first item that I purchased was a simple chemise. It was basic black, with no impressive detailing. It was comfortable, though, and it made my breasts look fantastic. The confidence that I felt when I slipped that chemise on was unforgettable. I didn’t exactly feel sexy in that piece, but I started to feel like I had the potential to be sexy – and that was a start.

From that day forward, I gradually began buying more lingerie items. Over time, I’ve discovered what works for my body, and what doesn’t. I now have several lingerie items that make me feel like a sex goddess, and even on the days when no one’s around to see them. And that’s okay, because I’m good enough, and I deserve it!

If you’re anything like I used to be, you’re wondering why you should bother wearing lingerie. Maybe you’re single, and you feel like you have no one to wear it for. Perhaps your significant other just feels like lingerie is a waste. Or, maybe...just maybe...you’re like I used to be – maybe you, too, feel like you just don’t have the potential to be sexy.

Reader, whatever the case may be – chase those thoughts away! You are sexy enough to wear lingerie, and you deserve to feel sexy – regardless of if you’re involved with someone, or not. Ladies and gentlemen, let’s face it; the lingerie you wear is all about YOU! You don’t need anyone else to be you, just like you don’t need anyone else to make you feel sexy.

Lingerie is a fantastic way of expressing yourself. Sometimes we have to put on a certain appearance to the world, even though that’s not how we feel. Lingerie is a great way of expressing who you really are, and that is sure to make you smile.

Lingerie can also give you confidence, like it did for me. Every time I put on a proper fitting piece of lingerie, I feel like I can do anything. The self-confidence that I found through lingerie has done me a world of good, as I now feel like I can take other chances. After all, I’m good enough – and so are you.