Black Women Seeking White Men

Cha & Trevor - Illinois, United States

The Seven-Hour Phone Call

Cha and Trevor make a cute couple, don’t they? Cha says “Now when I see people in love I can smile, because I know how they feel.”

But how did Trevor and his lady connect? “I used several sites before joining yours,” Cha tells us. “Online dating provided a broader range of potential mates.” She wasn’t confident she would find the love she sought, however. “I felt like there was a fifty-fifty chance,” she admits.

Trevor tells us that old-fashioned methods of making connections weren’t doing the job. “I wanted to try a different avenue to meet women,” he says. Our site was his introduction to online dating. He had to stick with it, too — after two years, Trevor still hadn’t found the right match. Then he noticed Cha’s profile… He thought she was very pretty and he was interested in getting to know her as a person.

At that point, Cha had been with us almost two and a half years herself. “He Flirted with me until he finally broke down and became a [paying] member,” she says. “Then he emailed me! I thought he was handsome and seemed like he had a good head on his shoulders.”

After a marathon phone call, the signs were clear. They needed to try this out in person. “We talked for like seven hours one day and I knew it was time to meet,” says Trevor. Cha agrees. “I knew I had to meet him!”

Trevor’s reaction upon seeing Cha for the first time was simply “Wow!” Cha found Trevor quite charming. “He was just as handsome in person as in his picture, and he was super sweet,” she says. “He was already making friends at the airport when I picked him up.” Trevor remembers this as well. “She came up behind me and said, ‘what are you doing, mister?’”

Their relationship has only gotten stronger with the passage of time. “He is so genuine and so supportive of me,” says Cha. “He is everything I wanted, and more.” Trevor is equally thrilled to have this woman in his life. “She is everything I ever wanted; so sweet, and she has a wonderful heart,” he says. “I believe in love again!”

Cha and Trevor’s quest for love was not completed in a week, a month, or even a year. It took them more than two years of searching on our site to find the right combination. With that in mind, Cha has something to say to singles who may be growing weary of the process. “Don’t give up. Keep an open mind and heart. Let love find you.”

“You may hear ‘horror stories’ about Internet dating, but never let someone else decide for you how to find love,” says Trevor. “In all avenues of dating, people meet all types of people and have good and bad experiences. If I would have listened to the naysayers, I would not be here writing my success story to share with you! I am very happy that we found each other.”