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mkdeepaaGoldie

Deepa this is the situation in quite a few families even in this age n time....the connection to the DIL(daughter in law) is only thru the son once the son is gone she becomes a responsibility that no one wants to take...or even if allowed to stay is treated worse than a servant...But here in the btoon house i find them such snobs....mai never wanted ichcha to be her DiL simply because she was not a thakur n a maids daughter...but in vansh's case she saw an opprtunity for her son to come out of his drugs and a nurse to take care of him all his life....so happily convinced everyone for this marriage.....now when he is no more this selfish family dont need her anymore....so sitting on a her high horse mai has passed judgement that ichcha is the cause of all that has happened n shud leave btoon house....to hell with them ichcha is better off with jogi n ammu atleast they will take care of her....n hope veer gives this bundela family a good bashing when he returns home n realises that ichcha has been thrown out.....

But how hurting feelings it gives to any girl seeing this change, when she has respected and cared everyone in the family.

cjs369IF-Rockerz

Deepa this is the situation in quite a few families even in this age n time....the connection to the DIL(daughter in law) is only thru the son once the son is gone she becomes a responsibility that no one wants to take...or even if allowed to stay is treated worse than a servant...But here in the btoon house i find them such snobs....mai never wanted ichcha to be her DiL simply because she was not a thakur n a maids daughter...but in vansh's case she saw an opprtunity for her son to come out of his drugs and a nurse to take care of him all his life....so happily convinced everyone for this marriage.....now when he is no more this selfish family dont need her anymore....so sitting on a her high horse mai has passed judgement that ichcha is the cause of all that has happened n shud leave btoon house....to hell with them ichcha is better off with jogi n ammu atleast they will take care of her....n hope veer gives this bundela family a good bashing when he returns home n realises that ichcha has been thrown out.....

But how hurting feelings it gives to any girl seeing this change, when she has respected and cared everyone in the family.

Veer will bash no doubt but it will not match with Vansh's bashing

how true deepa...I too felt very bad for Ichcha...idhar abhi vansh ki chita ki aag thandi bhi nahi hui aur ye bekaar logone uski patni ko ghar se nikal bahar kar diya.....specially that look on taps face wanted to scratch her eyes out shedding those crocodile tears...mai like some maharani spoke so humiliatingly to ichcha about not having done anything for vansh...when everyone knows poorthing's life just revolved around him only...and what happiness had she got since the day of her marriage??....and now to be thrown out for no fault of hers...

tiny15IF-Sizzlerz

@mkdeepa i agree wid u on mai's stupidity. shes so irritating just like her "laadali bahu". wen she was accusing iccha i felt like stranging her neck alongwid dracula. and dat dracula was happy & feeling content wen iccha went wid divya & jogi.

and i undersatand iccha's condition 4 blaming veer as almost similar 'd happened wid us wen my dad died in an accident. our grandmother blamed sum of our relatives responsible 4 dis whom she was not on talking terms. though rest of our family & my dad never thought like her & quite frndly wid dem. so wen dis happened she blamed dem.but we never blamed & also understood our grandmothre's great grief as no mother can see her son's death in front of her. and later on she bcame fond of their little granddaughther so much dat wenever she came 2 our home in village she gave her sweets 2 eat.

mkdeepaaGoldie

@mkdeepa i agree wid u on mai's stupidity. shes so irritating just like her "laadali bahu". wen she was accusing iccha i felt like stranging her neck alongwid dracula. and dat dracula was happy & feeling content wen iccha went wid divya & jogi.

and i undersatand iccha's condition 4 blaming veer as almost similar 'd happened wid us wen my dad died in an accident. our grandmother blamed sum of our relatives responsible 4 dis whom she was not on talking terms. though rest of our family & my dad never thought like her & quite frndly wid dem. so wen dis happened she blamed dem.but we never blamed & also understood our grandmothre's great grief as no mother can see her son's death in front of her. and later on she bcame fond of their little granddaughther so much dat wenever she came 2 our home in village she gave her sweets 2 eat.

Thanks for sharing about your dad, I wish his memories give you strength.

In real case I understand blaming others even there is no evidence as
due to loss of loved one it is their state of mind like your granny.

But Maie is driving her own family member out of house she is disguisting lady from the day one just like her laadli bahu.

In today's precap they showed Veer at Jogis house to say sorry to Icha and take her at home.

cjs369IF-Rockerz

@mkdeepa i agree wid u on mai's stupidity. shes so irritating just like her "laadali bahu". wen she was accusing iccha i felt like stranging her neck alongwid dracula. and dat dracula was happy & feeling content wen iccha went wid divya & jogi.

and i undersatand iccha's condition 4 blaming veer as almost similar 'd happened wid us wen

But Maie is driving her own family member out of house she is disguisting lady from the day one just like her laadli bahu.

In today's precap they showed Veer at Jogis house to say sorry to Icha and take her at home.

ya they showed veer has gone to apologise to ichcha...but the state of mind in which ichcha is, i am afraid she will again start screaming n accusing veer of vansh's murder.....i dont want them standing against each other ...hope veer is able to convince ichcha that when he reached the spot vansh was already shot...i want ichcha n veer together shud cathch the culprit.......tapasya

shivani9IF-Sizzlerz

I really felt bad seeing Icha out of home in yesterday's episode. As there is no place at husband's home with out him. In presence of husband no one can dare to speak or point. Though the husband is addict, physco his presence and absence makes lot of difference at in laws place.

Though it is a modern or educated world in most of the families it is applicable, either they drive daughter in law because they just find no importance in her without their son or are worried she will claim for the property. But do there are exceptional families, who love their daughter in law as their own daughter.

Very good topic Deepa hats off to u highlighting this malady in our society, i guess this is atleast one good reason every girl shud be well educated n independent......hope ppl dont say I am degrading them bcoz they r uneducated n unemployed....i read from else where tht Mai was horrible to Ichcha, i cud nt expect any thing more classy from the uncivilised illiterate mean minded Mai, Baldev n Co..bunch...

mkdeepaaGoldie

I really felt bad seeing Icha out of home in yesterday's episode. As there is no place at husband's home with out him. In presence of husband no one can dare to speak or point. Though the husband is addict, physco his presence and absence makes lot of difference at in laws place.

Though it is a modern or educated world in most of the families it is applicable, either they drive daughter in law because they just find no importance in her without their son or are worried she will claim for the property. But do there are exceptional families, who love their daughter in law as their own daughter.

Very good topic Deepa hats off to u highlighting this malady in our society, i guess this is atleast one good reason every girl shud be well educated n independent......hope ppl dont say I am degrading them bcoz they r uneducated n unemployed....i read from else where tht Mai was horrible to Ichcha, i cud nt expect any thing more classy from the uncivilised illiterate mean minded Mai, Baldev n Co..bunch...

Thank you Shivani . You are right education is the biggest strength and support of any person. But the fact is at in laws house no other person can be lovable and trustworthy than husband. Even in the both cases of educated and uneducated girl it is very bad to see there is no love and support from other family members at husbands side.

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