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I am 23 and my SO is 28. But I have dated two older men before. One being 34 and the other 38. Older guys are definitely different and have more baggage. At least in my case. The 34 year old had told me he had had a sexual relationship with his best friend who lived across the street (another boy) all throughout high school. Which was a huge surprise to me. He had a daughter and had always dated women. And the 38 year old was sold for sex by his mother because she was a drug addict. I soon found out what kind of damage that had done to him mentally/emotionally. Not to mention they were both physically abusive to me (which of course is when I left them). Either I have really bad luck with older guys or they are just really good at hiding things. I would never date another older man.