You know who she is the white girl with the big hoop earrings the fake diamond stud in her nose and the tattoo on her left tit of a phoenix butterfly or anything else that denotes freedom or whatever brand of profound bullshit they want you to believe about them.

As i am understanding things the opposite of tolerating something is trying to change it this is dangerous and difficult trying to change other peoples behavior always has high costs summed over you the people you are trying to.

Wedding band requests dear bandleader thank you for your letter i really do think you have an attitude problem and do want a few requests played if you dont mind.