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Missed me? Hope you enjoyed your 4th of July weekend! Let’s jump back into our Summer Success Series with a very important topic … FAILURE!

A friend of mine who’s considering getting involved with my networking business asked me a question this weekend,

“What does the average person make in your business?”

And he was shocked by my answer …. “NOTHING!”

I explained that Average People come into the business with Average People Habits and Average People Work Ethic and Average People Dedication. This makes them do Average People Things — in spite of the fact that they’re receiving direction from Above Average coaches.

So as soon as they experience a “failure” — a setback, someone says no — or worse, gives them a hard time — what do they do? They Quit!

Unfortunately, this is true on a widespread basis. For the masses, Failure is indeed Final. They’ll step out and give their own achievement one half-hearted try, experience failure, and pull back into their shell like a turtle.

Don’t wanna be “Average”? Know in your heart and soul that you’ve got GREATNESS welling up inside you? Ready to break out and truly be ALL that you can be?

Here are some quick words of wisdom:

‘Successful Millionaires have had on average 10 Failed Businesses on their way to Ultimate Success…’ — Rich Dad (Robert Kiyosaki’s Rich Dad Poor Dad)

Ok, so you don’t actually have to fail 10 times. You just have to be willing to. You can’t be willing to succeed ONLY IF IT’S EASY! You’ve gotta be willing to walk the tough road. Like a woman who wants to joy of motherhood, you have to be willing to go through 9 months of pregnancy! After all …

“…throughout human history, The Promised Land has ALWAYS been on the OTHER side of the Wilderness!” — Richard Flint

There’s no Success without Struggle, people. It’s part of what makes the success SWEET! You won’t win ALL of the battles on the way to your ultimate victory. But as long as you keep getting back up, you have another shot at the BIG WIN!

If you follow me on Facebook, you saw this yesterday…

“Greatness lives on the edge of Destruction.” — Will Smith, on Oprah

Exactly, Will! There’s no Reward without the Risk! You’ve gotta put it out there — put yourself out there — in order to achieve the reward worth having!

The late great, Jim Rohn, cracks me up when he says if you run down an empty football field and cross the goal line, THAT’S NOT A TOUCHDOWN! Like Jim says, “You’ve gotta have the 300 Pounders” trying to squash you in order for it to mean something!

It’s only when you’ve put it all out there … stepped out of your comfort zone … risked it all … and stayed in the game despite failures … that you can score life’s biggest victories!

So if you’ve scraped your knees and been knocked down on the battlefield of life …

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We’re stuck because we’re depressed, in despair, hopeless, paralyzed by fear or failure …. just stuck!

Today’s walk with the mosquitoes and talk with my team was enlightening. I had something totally different planned to share with them but was led to talk about this topic of focus. When we were done, and I pushed play on my iPod, what do you know — more about being stuck and what you focus on.

So let’s talk about how you get “Un-Stuck”.

It all has to do with what you’re focused on. We have a saying,

“What You Focus On EXPANDS!”

How true! Whatever you fixate on … whatever you give your energy, time, and emotion to … GETS BIGGER!

Unfortunately, most people focus on — fixate on — their problems. So they get bigger and Bigger and BIGGER until they consume and paralyze them. Here’s what’s worse:

“What You Focus On MULTIPLIES!”

What?! Seriously. It’s all about Attraction. Whatever your dominant thoughts are, YOU GET MORE OF! We hate to admit it, but it’s true. One of the reasons my first marriage ended in divorce is because we spent all of our time focused on Not Getting Divorced. That made Divorce our predominant thought and that’s what we got — Divorced! Guess we should have focused our energy on Staying Married, huh? Or even better Marital Happiness and Fulfillment. Now THAT would’ve been fixating on the right thing!

I became a Top 10 Money Earner in my last company and reached one of the highest ranks possible. And I did it in record time. People would ask me all the time, “how did you do it?” The Answer:

“I thought about it ALL of the time!”

My predominant and daily thought — even in the midst of all sorts of problems and turmoil — was always achieving that level of success and how it would change my life for the better. Focusing on that goal worked. I’m doing it again right now!

I was watching Ripley’s Believe it Or Not and this guy set a record for walking across two buildings on this piece of nylon fabric. (YES, HE’S CRAZY!!) But he was interesting to watch. The fabric was stretched between a window of one building and a window of the other. From the time the guy started walking the line, his eyes were laser focused on the goal — the other window. Just think when he took the first step, the target window on the other building was small — but with each step it got Bigger – until it was BIG enough for him to step through in accomplishment!

It’s just like that for YOUR goals, dreams, desires.

We could go on and on about this focus thing. I just hope you get it and use it to empower yourself because it’s so easy to fixate on the bad stuff of life. Here’s what blew me away on my iPod this morning:

As many good things happen on the worst day of your life as on the best day of your life. It’s all what you choose to look at.

Wow!

The key to getting “Un-Stuck”? Change your focus! Remember:

“Obstacles are what you see when you take your eyes off of the goal!”

So be like the crazy guy on the tightrope — DON’T LOOK DOWN! Focus on the goal — the window — the window of opportunity that is wide open before you and getting BIGGER with every step you take toward it!

This Summer, let’s focus on taking our personal development and achievement to another level. Success is yours for the taking. Just keep your eyes on the prize and before you know it, you’ll be right up on it.

Here to help,

T.Gray

P.S., I want to know what you think about this. Take a minute to post a comment to this article.

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Note: I personally believe that it’s a leader’s responsibility to provide an environment where people can succeed. My partners and I have made that commitment and have been providing that environment for years. The success stories are great. And we’re helping many right now to realize their highest levels of achievement ever.

If you’ve been looking for a place where you can get the knowledge you need to succeed, access quality coaching with integrity, and have a genuine opportunity to win — we need to talk right away.

Another great day has begun! More Summer Success Camp. More Walking. More Mosquitoes! (ok, that part’s not so great!)

And more listening to positive stuff on my iPod. (A note to all “leaders”: Remember what goes in comes out….)

Let’s chat a little more on where the limitations in our lives come from. Why? The first step is always Awareness. When we can see the demon — when we know it’s there — we can SLAY it!

So let’s get to Slayin’!

Yesterday, we touched on the fact that most people want honesty — as long as it’s not too honest. Akin to that is that most people don’t want to face themselves — to deal with their responsibility for creating their circumstances. So what do they do?

They run!

When you can’t face yourself, you always run by blaming others. It’s amazing how some spend their whole life avoiding themselves. They run from place to place trying to find the magic but they miss the truth — the magic is in believing in yourself!

Limitations also come from following the script that others have written for your life. Parents, society, even religious leaders — there are so many places where we find definitions for who we are supposed to be. Write your own script. Get with your Creator to see what talents he’s given you and put inside you. And then walk in those talents to create a life with no regrets.Indecision also creates limitations. The inability to decide leads to paralysis — doing nothing. And when you do nothing things don’t stay the same — the landscape is always moving … even when you’re not! So you’ve gotta advance and get better just to maintain your position. I have this little saying “Indecision is a Killer”. And it really is!

So again, I’m challenging all of you — my friends — What would you do differently with your life if you weren’t afraid?

Live your life with No Limits!

This Summer, let’s take off the shackles and sow seeds of greatness that we will harvest this Fall and for the rest of our lives. Call or email me, I’d love to help.

T.Gray

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Note: I personally believe that it’s a leader’s responsibility to provide an environment where people can succeed. My partners and I have made that commitment and have been providing that environment for years. The success stories are great. And we’re helping many right now to realize their highest levels of achievement ever.

If you’ve been looking for a place where you can get the knowledge you need to succeed, access quality coaching with integrity, and have a genuine opportunity to win — we need to talk right away.

Went for my morning walk today and it was pretty eventful. Spent the first 15 minutes coaching my Summer Success Camp group — awesome people! The group is growing and the excitement is building. Summer success is imminent.

I spent the entire walk battling Texas Mosquitoes! Big as 747s! They have FANGS! Tenacious — like flying pit bulls!

The rest of the time was spent with my precious iPod — and today’s selection by Richard Flint was a major blessing.

Most people have designed their lives to avoid facing themselves. Then they blame others for what they are not. They deny responsibility for what really is. They get upset with what’s not going right — but won’t stop to understand that they have been working against themselves.

Wow, Richard! Tough pills to swallow so early in the morning. Tough but true. By the way, Richard touched on this also:

“Most people want honesty — as long as it’s not honest!”

Ready for the truth?

YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHOOSE!

AND YOU USE IT EVERY DAY!

Yep. We fully use that power to choose either to succeed to our full capacity. Or to live within self-imposed limitations.

It’s so important that we “listen” to ourselves and put ourselves in check. Be careful when you start talking about your “Can’t Do’s”, “Won’t Do’s”, and “Don’t Do’s”. You just might be painting that box for you to live in so that you don’t have to “face” yourself.

Each of us has talents — God gave ’em to us all. Just don’t be afraid to use yours. Are you “playing it safe” or “playing to win”?

The seed of greatness has been planted in you — let it grow wild and free!

This Summer, I’m issuing the challenge — WIN BIG! No Limits!

T.Gray

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Note: I personally believe that it’s a leader’s responsibility to provide an environment where people can succeed. My partners and I have made that commitment and have been providing that environment for years. The success stories are great. And we’re helping many right now to realize their highest levels of achievement ever.

If you’ve been looking for a place where you can get the knowledge you need to succeed, access quality coaching with integrity, and have a genuine opportunity to win — we need to talk right away.