FINesse and I were in the locker last night and he has his monthly "goals" posted. One of them was to "not Cheat on my girlfriend". These guys are so dumb IMO and fans worship these guys like they are Gods.

Who cares, everyone has goals. When you're making that kind of money and playing on that stage, temtation can come at you from every angle. Staying faithful is a very honest goal for some. I don't fault the guy for being honest with himself. I just hope the majority of the guys goals were football related.

FINesse and I were in the locker last night and he has his monthly "goals" posted. One of them was to "not Cheat on my girlfriend". These guys are so dumb IMO and fans worship these guys like they are Gods.

It was not a joke. His other goals were to save money, get stronger by working out, ETC. I wouldn't even have a girlfriend. Being faithful is like brushing your teeth, it's automatic. I guess my monthly goals would be to mow lawn, every week, wash car, pay bills, go to work....lol

It was not a joke. His other goals were to save money, get stronger by working out, ETC. I wouldn't even have a girlfriend. Being faithful is like brushing your teeth, it's automatic. I guess my monthly goals would be to mow lawn, every week, wash car, pay bills, go to work....lol

I still think it could be a joke, even if the other goals are serious.

Without personally knowing the guy, you can't tell what type of sense of humor he has etc...

Web weekend, I got a tour of it Sat night. You're right Swerve. Every year I go it gets worse and worse. Hartline was 15ft from us and he would not come up to us and shake our hand. I don't care who they think they are, we are there customers and they couldn't careless about the fans or the product on the field. THe parking area was full of 911, Benz, and BMWs, decked out. Yeah, poor players....and thier goals.

Well the NFL like the NBA is a hard place for guys to stay faithful. Women throw themselves at these guys and we expect that they aren't going to be tempted? I mean its not like he said be faithful to his wife, it's his girlfriend (not that I'm saying cheating on your girlfriend is ok either). At any rate, were you guys expecting choir boys?

You've never cheated on your girlfriend because you don't have hot women throwing themselves at youmaybe you wouldn't...but your not in that situation.

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I see absolutely nothing wrong with this. For a rookie 4th round pick those are very realistic goals. It preaches hard work and responsibility. I see nothing wrong with that. To me it seems like Miller is a very grounded individual with realistic goals, and if he stays true to them, he'll keep them. This list actually gives me the opposite reaction to the initial post. I actually come away from this having a greater appreciation of Miller.

Why would you go into the locker room and take a photo of a guy's private locker space?

That's ridiculous, and if I were an employee of the team, I'd never let you back in. I don't see people going through your private space and then posting it all over the internet -- INCLUDING A PHOTO.

That's sick. Some things are just better left unsaid. And who the hell are you to judge anyone? Are you a perfect person?

Ridiculous... this thread should get deleted.

The whole point of the weekend is for the fans to have access to these things & picture taking is encouraged. I can show you photos of the locker rooms for the past 7 years. The players know before hand that on this particular weekend fans will have this access. I just posted the picture to show that if it is a joke (which I highly doubt) that is was there. Dont think anyone is judging just pointing things out. If it were Mark Sanchez's locker & a picture of that list made its way to this site I would imagine the response would be different. Look , dont get in such an uproar , we are all Dolphin fans , however maybe some of us just dont have that god like opinion of these guys like some others do.

I actually come away from this having a greater appreciation of Miller.

We knew you would you feel that way. You are one of "them". It's cool bro.

I'm one of "them"? "Them" who? What are you trying to say? Are you making a racial assumption about me? Are you making a character assumption about me? What are you getting at? Because it sounds like you're calling me a dirtbag who cheats on his girlfriend or wife. I'm having a hard time figuring this out seeing as how neither one of us knows the other.

I actually come away from this having a greater appreciation of Miller.

We knew you would you feel that way. You are one of "them". It's cool bro.

I'm one of "them"? "Them" who? What are you trying to say? Are you making a racial assumption about me? Are you making a character assumption about me? What are you getting at? Because it sounds like you're calling me a dirtbag who cheats on his girlfriend or wife. I'm having a hard time figuring this out seeing as how neither one of us knows the other.

Whoa where in the world did race come from? Now this is starting to get ridiculous imo.

I actually come away from this having a greater appreciation of Miller.

We knew you would you feel that way. You are one of "them". It's cool bro.

I'm one of "them"? "Them" who? What are you trying to say? Are you making a racial assumption about me? Are you making a character assumption about me? What are you getting at? Because it sounds like you're calling me a dirtbag who cheats on his girlfriend or wife. I'm having a hard time figuring this out seeing as how neither one of us knows the other.

Whoa where in the world did race come from? Now this is starting to get ridiculous imo.

I want to know what he means by "them". I'm not calling him a racist, I'm simply looking for clarification on his part. When you make vague comments out of context it's hard to judge what is being said. He needs to come out and say what he means.

Remaining faithful to my girlfriend is not something I'd have to write down on a sheet of paper and recite to myself in order to remember. That should be common sense. The funniest part about it is, that's just goals for one month. So does his dedication to her change on a month-to-month basis?

I wonder if she knows he has to put that down on a sheet of paper. That's embarrassing.

I'm one of "them"? "Them" who? What are you trying to say? Are you making a racial assumption about me? Are you making a character assumption about me? What are you getting at? Because it sounds like you're calling me a dirtbag who cheats on his girlfriend or wife. I'm having a hard time figuring this out seeing as how neither one of us knows the other.

I simply meant that you are one of "them" meaning you think football players are Gods. Simple as that.

Remaining faithful to my girlfriend is not something I'd have to write down on a sheet of paper and recite to myself in order to remember. That should be common sense. The funniest part about it is, that's just goals for one month. So does his dedication to her change on a month-to-month basis?

I wonder if she knows he has to put that down on a sheet of paper. That's embarrassing.

Yeah well, no one on this board has babes throwing their panties at you everyday. Pretty easy to remain faithful if you're ugly as sin, poor as hell and drive a 1995 rusted out Chrysler K car.

Don't have a girlfriend then. Simple as that. Speak for yourself buddy. I was in the Airforce and have done and seen it all. I knew I couldn't ahve a girlfriend back in the day, but when I got married, that was it. I didn't need a reminder or a goal. It's funny seeing the different opinions regarding this subject. It's interesting and that's what the boards are abotu.

Yeah well, no one on this board has babes throwing their panties at you everyday. Pretty easy to remain faithful if you're ugly as sin, poor as hell and drive a 1995 rusted out Chrysler K car.

Don't have a girlfriend then. Simple as that. Speak for yourself buddy. I was in the Airforce and have done and seen it all. I knew I couldn't ahve a girlfriend back in the day, but when I got married, that was it. I didn't need a reminder or a goal. It's funny seeing the different opinions regarding this subject. It's interesting and that's what the boards are abotu.

Mak - That was mostly a joke. I've been married 26 monogamous years. With that said, I wouldn't want the temptation that is offered to these young athletes on a daily basis.

Well the NFL like the NBA is a hard place for guys to stay faithful. Women throw themselves at these guys and we expect that they aren't going to be tempted? I mean its not like he said be faithful to his wife, it's his girlfriend (not that I'm saying cheating on your girlfriend is ok either). At any rate, were you guys expecting choir boys?

I agree with everything you said. Not sure why you would have a girlfriend as a 21 year old rookie on South Beach to be honest.

But I think people are just laughing at the fact that he has it up in his locker as a goal. Just kind of silly and plays to the stereotype.

But I think people are just laughing at the fact that he has it up in his locker as a goal. Just kind of silly and plays to the stereotype.

That's exactly it, although I'd go further than to say it's silly. He sounds like a real moron, just my opinion. I know that sounds harsh, but what's next .... does he have to remind himself to wipe his own backside after taking a dump too? Is that piece of paper really going to be the thing that keeps him from messing around with some "strange"? I mean c'mon. LOL

Just out of curiosity, PR have you or any of the other Phinfever staff ever talked to the guy before? How does he come across?

Just out of curiosity, PR have you or any of the other Phinfever staff ever talked to the guy before? How does he come across?

I haven't. I don't really interact with many players.....? lol

Going back to your point about Lamar, the dirt on him coming out of UM was that he was....uhhh....not the smartest guy in the world. He even supposedly failed all the whiteboard sessions at the combine.

Even just listening to him in interviews, he doesn't sound like the brightest guy. That said, those are never good indicators of much.

Whatever. It is what it is. This topic is getting way too much attention haha.