A Message for my Fellow Bloggers and Commenters

As my fellow writers know, sometimes we feel as if we’re writing in a vacuum. It’s isolating work (which oddly, I don’t mind.)

I’ve questioned: Why am I writing? Should I continue? Who really cares? And so on. And in all cases, I show up to the page again. I feel compelled to, and I’m thankful for this gift.

Through your comments, I know that someone is actually reading and relating. Not only that. I enjoy our conversations, which are most often lively, intriguing, encouraging, and or funny. I have a very suppprtive extended family of sorts and I consider myself lucky for that – which reminds me (randomly) that caring is where you find it. Support is where you find it. Love is where you find it.

Too often we hedge our bets, and our emotions on “certain people” in our lives. But joy is where you create it. And so is happiness. What you want from them, you can always find via another outlet (and within yourself).

Dear audience – and particularly commenters, thank you again.

Perhaps writing is an act of Self love. Well, yea, this is definitely an act of Self love. I’m glad you’re here to witness andparticipate in the journey.

Yes!! You are speaking to me! Love it! Too many times in life have I said why should I bother? Why continue? Until I realized, Just Do It! Stop quitting and Just Do It! I’m going to take my own advise that I wrote as a child. A winner never quits. A quitter never wins. You must try to succeed. The last part I wi ll change to you must do in order to succeed.

Being thankful in advance is a great way to show gratitude for the things to come. It’s like speaking it into existance.
Love it!

P.S. I may be busy at times. But I do value your writings. You do have my support. 🙂

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I'm a writer daylighting as a banker! I started this blog as a single woman in my 30s, and while it has blossomed to include conversations on spirituality and travel, the basic premise is still relationships. I like exploring love relationships (they're fascinating) and the idea that we take ourselves wherever we go (from relationship to relationship, city to city, country to country, etc.) So self assessment is always necessary for growth. And you know if I'm writing about relationships (romantic and otherwise), topics also include dating, lust, the single life, getting ready to be ready (for whatever kind of relationship you envision), etc.
Thanks for joining me on this journey. If we're doing it right, expansion is ongoing. We never stop. This blog evolves, as I do. But -- I can only write from a woman's perspective, for us, and for those who love us.