Is interracial sex better than sex with someone within your own race?

The other day, I google searched interracial sex… all I got was a massive array of porn sites (what was I expecting anyway?). Well, I was hoping to get some insights on the above topic.

Have you ever had sex with someone outside your race? Would you be interested in having sex with someone of another race? Is interracial sex a taboo to you? This is a very controversial topic. “Why the hell would someone prefer to have interracial sex?᾿most people may ask.

The truth of the matter is that the US is a culture obsessed with interracial dating and interracial sex, in particular, – both positively and negatively. Going by the history of the slave era white people spoke with repulsion about interracial sex - even though many white men were constantly having sex with black women. In this “colorblind era᾿, people are still obsessed with interracial sex.

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According to a poll done on the blog, majority (67%) of the people that participated in the poll said interracial sex is better than sex with someone within their own race and 15% said it wasn’t better. The rest either never had interracial sex or same race sex.

Adult sex dating among interracial singles is much in practice especially among liberal communities and long-term relationships or matrimony is quiet popular. With the internet being a general platform that brings all types of people, cultures and societies together, we need not emphasize the kind of catalyst it is for those interested in interracial dating and sex… it is a well-known fact.

Most people may decide to try out interracial sex just for the kick of it or out of curiosity. This has brought about statements like “once you go black you never go back᾿ among many others. Given the sexualization and stereotypes surrounding interracial sex, we find most people… especially in their teenage and college life engaging in interracial sex just to prove and disprove such statements.

Most people may not publicly say “interracial sex is: bizarre, disgusting, exciting, adventurous, morally repugnant,᾿ and so on. But when people get behind closed doors with their family and friends comments like “That black dude must have really been packing some heat below the belt. Why else would those white women be interested in black men᾿ or “Only white women with no self esteem will get with a guy like that.᾿ When they go online to search for interracial porn, they are thinking it… and don’t get me started people expressing their thoughts with by leaving anonymous comments on blogs.

So what is wrong with enjoying sex with a person of other race?

For some reason, people think interracial sex is exotic and daring… especially when it involves Black men and white women and Asian women and white men. It’s almost like people believe that race is correlated with penis size and a person’s level of sexual desire. But are people who engage in interracial sex are deviant, rebellious, daring, gross, odd, oversexed, and ugly as most people believe?

If you’ve had interracial sex already, how good or bad were the encounters? Is it possible that they had everything to do with the guys’ or ladies’ performances, and not the person’s races?

249 responses to "Is interracial sex better than sex with someone within your own race?"

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Color blind????? That term is insulting. It negates the importance of being Black, Asian, Hispanic....whatever. For those of us who date and marry inter-racially, we are very aware of our partners culture and skin tone. One additional comment, Most individuals do NOT choose to have sex for a "kick" or out of curiosity. This article if wrong on so many levels...get educated.

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I have to agree with you on the topic of "color blind". I used to use this term back when I considered myself a liberal. But the left has gone bat-sh*t crazy and I'm now an independent with conservative views mostly in the sex/relationship department. Meaning - I don't believe in "sex is just sex". As for the second part of your comment, I have to disagree (on a political ground). See, the liberals like to call everyone (white) a racist. So we DO in fact have liberal minded college students (mostly white women) dating interracially as a way for them to say "Hey, look at me! I'm not a racist". You should definitely get out more and see it for yourself. I work with a bunch of white women who chase after black men but the way in which they do it seems veeerrryyyy suspect.

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I'm going to be really straight here. I have quite a bit of experience in this and I would say that the sex isn't necessarily better, unless you have some kind of creepy race fetish. I'm not really into raceplay despite the fact that I've had several women ask for it. Now, from a man's perspective there are some physical differences. Women of African descent are significantly tighter in the vaginal area... in addition if they work the kegels they have better musculature. Of course individuals may vary. Ethnic European women are often very loose in the same area. Sometimes if they don't work the kegels... you just can't feel much. Somebody before mentioned Caucasian men going really fast like rabbits... this is why. If you don't go fast and hard it will feel like punching smoke. Penis size doesn't matter much because it would take a baseball bat to get some feeling in that situation. Anyway... if you don't believe my experience, google it. It's scientific fact.

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I don't think it's better or worse. Just because I'm attracted to white men doesn't mean anyone is going to rock my world. It would help if I'm attracted and have a deep connection to the guy. I'll be like jump my bones already ;)

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I am a white man of advanced age. Falling in love with a black lady at first sight was the best thing that ever happened in my life. The universe is small compared to experience of being with her. Yes, you read that right. If I had any talent, I'd write a novel about my experience. There is nothing in this world that compares to the electricity of two different races finding each other in love for the first time.

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Bm/wf tends to bring out more emotions, no one cares if an actor sleeps with a black woman, but if Taylor swift came out and said she was pregnant by a black father, there would be riots in some southern states. In New York, we would keenly await any leaked sex tape.

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I think that interracial sex is a new learning experience and also an amazing experience, I am actually speaking from experience .lots of experiences lol! The white man is always amazed at what the black sister can offer, he will cheat on his white lady just for amazing sexual experiences with us.

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In my opinion better sex with a guy for me - does not depend on his race. My feelings of love for him and his love for me will always determine on how great the sex thrills will most likely be --- based on how you two lovers feel about one another lovingly. Leave out race !!!!!!!!!but I have learned that SOME white men are great lovers. I like too. Check them out too sisters. Don't shot the messenger

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The sex is only as good as the two people who view it while they are together at that time. Some people will say that sex isn't everything but I say try going without it after you have had someone that you have really connected with and talk to me later. The race doesn't matter because if there isn't a certain level of chemistry that will drive you horny as hell when you are around or just thinking about that person (especially for women) there will be no sex happening. Some people are well experience in the bedroom and others are not and trust me that have a little to do with too. Some people are coming out of bad relationships and are desperately looking for something better or trying to get over past pain and meet that person that cares for them emotionally in a way they never had been before. Most people are starving for that type of connecting and it will make the sex shoot to the moon.

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You have sex with people, not with races. It's pleasuring one another in the context of some type of relationship or it may just be based on attraction. Some visual aspects are different but is interracial sex better is an odd question. It's sex, and it is the partner that matters.

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I feel the same way. So, it's not just sex, it's chemical also. I have always been attracted to white men. Everyone has preferences and within those preferences, you still have the opportunity to meet a good person.

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Depends on the woman for sure,some blackwomen are very attractive and I'm drawn sexually towards them,along with whitewomen,blondes especially,but trust,chemistry and love are three different things,and it's a good idea to do an ISO on self before any LTR is to begin:)I wish you luck miss brown queen:)

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I a white an and have been married to a beautiful black woman for over 24 years we have 6 beautiful children. I started dating women of other races in my late teens it started with Spanish girls. I don't know what drew me to them. But there was something. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with white women. I had my fair share of them too. It was just perfect timing the sex was no different I was ready to settle down and start a family and my wife was too. So that's how that started. I had ignorant friends that asked stupid questions like "So what's it like " I gave then stupid answers like " U WON'T BELIEVE ME BUT THEY HAVE 2 " SO ask a stupid question get a stupid answer. In the beginning we got crap from both families but we didn't care. Before my gather in law passed away he told me I was the best son in law he ever had. My wife has 6 sisters. And my mom and dad love my wife to death. So I say be with who you are happy with not who is different. Sex is all the same. It's done the same way no matter what race or color you are.

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I honestly dont think it matters who you make love with .. BM BW WM WW Latinos whoever . The important thing is that you are making love, with someone that you are mutually in love with . Who cares what race or colour we are .. we are all people for goodness sake !!

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well the way I feel is that I have never really had good sex with a white woman but I have with a black one not to say that it's because of color but honestly I prefer black women to white ones,also the region in which you reside may reflect your views on the matter as a man who resides in the south it is a certain feeling of mischievousness being with a person outside your race,or at least it is to me which makes the sex that much better.

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One thing I've noticed about topics like this is that whenever white men or black women say that interracial sex is better, they get a whole bunch of "likes" but often when a black man or white woman says they prefer IR over their own race then responders start hitting that "dislike" button. I even see it here with many of the responses. As a black man, I can't speak for how wm or bw feel when they're together but I know how I feel when I'm with black women, white women or other races. I can say the PC thing and act as if race doesn't matter but truthfully I can say it adds a little forbiddenness to the equation that spices things up a bit. Of course, it depends on the individual, as not all black women are the same and not all white women or Latinas are the same in bed either. I personally believe that if you're in love with a woman, that makes it better above all else. For instance, I've been with a woman I loved in the past and I wouldn't have preferred to have sex with any other woman at the time even though looking back on it she really wasn't that great of a lover. There was a time when I only dated black women and you couldn't tell me anything: black women were the end all and be all sexually. But now that I've explored IR I kind of like it better (in most cases, but not all) with a white or Latin lover. The roleplay and color contrasts are the biggest turn ons. But that's not saying that in every case it's going to be the same. Anyway, that's how I feel. Hope I don't get "disliked" too much for saying this lol.

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What is your problem with BW and WM. Why can't you just speak yourself and how you feel about a topic without. You seem to be someone that is bitter about BW and WM relationships and it shows your lack of self esteem which is very unappealing.

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What is your problem with BW and WM. Why can't you just speak for yourself and how you feel about a topic. You seem to be someone that is bitter about BW and WM relationships and it shows your lack of self esteem which is very unappealing.

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Couldn't have said it better myself! Most people on here are scared to say what they really think. Those who say "black,white, latin it doesn't matter we're all the same" are lying to themselves. USUALLY when you want someone of another race you have to search them out. It doesn't just happen naturally. When btwn the sheets, the color contrast IS exciting. Sometimes the "forbidden fruit thing" DOES cause you to get turned on even more. There are quite a few things that cause many of us to reach that peak that we may not have had before. However after a lil bit, sometimes something funny happens. You actually begin to like (& sometimes love) the person you've been sleeping with. You notice their humour, smile, attentiveness, etc. At that point you become like everyone else and THEN the race is not important anymore... just the person. AHEM... in my opinion of course! :-D

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I'm still waiting to see if any one will mention chemistry...Race does not matter but when you have a connection/chemistry with the significant other the sex is bound to be explosive...one night or long term as long as (in modern terms) you click you good

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True,I've been with both white, blondes and blackwomen,and chemistry is a deciding factor for sure!blonde women are most attractive in my opion,but the trust factor is lower and I never knew if she was telling the truth or not!!

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Good sex has nothing to do with actual skin colour or "race." If both partners are turned on and having a good time, in my experience, this is good sex. Race, colour, creed, nor religion make a speck of difference once you're naked sensitive skin on skin, a good kisser is always desirable, and when you're that close, you're not really seeing much skin. Really, when you're on top in a good missionary, getting her hips tilted just right, her positive smell and sounds are much more important than anything else.

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It's all about the desire you have for you partner and how much they are willing to please you determines how great the sex is! I have dated both and have had mixed reviews on both and ultimately the passion you stir on your partner is what makes it awesome! Race does not how good the sex will be.

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sex is plainly just sex its the movements that make it more desirable and a lot of practice. The best way to address this is too teach you partner what you like and show them now some "woman" have the mentally " I cant teach a man how to have sex" but if you can teach one how to love you or keep you happy then alone is no brainer. The point is at some degree its true "Is interracial sex better than sex with someone within your own race?" but teaching one how too please you is so much FUN lol.

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interesting....personally id have to say its all the same once past the initial infatuation with each others physical differences. what makes sex great is a women s sexual experience in my book. ive bedded completely gorgeous with nothing to offer sexually besides a beautiful face to look at VS an less attractive woman who keeps me very satisfied with all the nonstop touching etc...guess who id rather be around?? race is intriguing to some but the older one (i) gets the less of a role it plays, especially in 2014 lets be real though, we all know that in general certain races have certain traits that some folks gravitate towards.

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It is more about the person not the race. I find all races attractive, but I seem to look for black girls more. The time I did sleep with a black girl was one of my favorites because I was really attracted to her and we got on.

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Sex with someone you love and are attracted to is the best. So if that person happens to be of a different race,( BTW, not surprising to find on an Interracial dating site........lol) then the answer would be yes! Ask this on say a black only (or other racial group only) dating site and I'm sure we would find different answers.

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I'm a black male in my late fifties. When I was younger I would of said yes to sex with a lady of a different race was better. And the title going to Latinas (esp.P.R.). Now I say no. I don't know if it had to do with inexperience or the fact that the ladies are older, past menopause or what. I do know know that sex with ALL of them past the age of forty (and I do mean ALL races),a great awakening has occurred. I guess the saying is true" all things are better with age". Older women are definitely more passionate and lively with their movements than the younger ones, and that's any race!!!

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Yes because most interacial sex is between BM/WF. The media, advertisements etc. all reinforce the false sterotype of the evil, stupid, racist, weak white man. So the more 'opinion" polls that support these ficticious beliefs the bettter. A stand up act is the sexualy inadequate white man. But the uneducated, criminal, watermelon etaing black boy would be considered racist. Plus the majority of black women will not go with white men for the fear of "selling out" their own kind yet the opposite is highly encouraged for white people. The discriminated against, rediculed, and taken for granted group in the United States today are white, hetorosexual males that do not act effiminate or date interacially.

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Not true my boyfriend is white and so was my last one. Everything the media portrays I'd not the truth. I thought white guys felt that way about black women and I was as wrong as you are. BTW penis size doesn't matter is all about what pleases your partner.

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I agree with him. The media does hype us sex between mostly bm and ww. It's true that be are discouraged to date outside her race while black men are celebrated. I've also noticed the jokes obsessive about supposed difference n size between Bm and Wm penis. I've found size doesn't matter if u don't know how to use it. Best sex I ever had was with a who man because he was a great lover not because he also had a huge dick. The language he used here was little ignorant but the content was 100.

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I agree with him. The media does hype us sex between mostly bm and ww. It's true that Bw are discouraged to date outside her race while black men are celebrated. I've also noticed the jokes obsessive about supposed difference n size between Bm and Wm penis. I've found size doesn't matter if u don't know how to use it. Best sex I ever had was with a white man because he was a great lover not because he also had a huge dick. The language used here was little ignorant but the content was 100.

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The answer for me is a simple one. Foreign men are far better. Period. I've seen every size there is and...let's be honest, all because they have the equipment doesn't mean they know how to use it (damn shame). And for Shylamae's comments below, your religion, its beliefs and following it are your own. People of OTHER religious affiliations, beliefs, followings, practices should never be looked down upon because it doesn't mesh with your own. Sex is nothing to be ashamed of between two consenting adults...sometimes three...lighten up, see and explore the world (without sex for you).

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I've had sex with men of other ethnic groups and the only difference I'm seeing is that more African-American men (not all) know how to move their hips and take their time to really do the thing! Caucasian men typically love to kiss (ALOT) and have sex like rabbits (like time is a wasting). But more recently, I'm finding the young black men are inexperienced also because they have been dating outside of their race and haven't learned how to move...oh, and the selfish factor of the guy wanting to get off first. Also, anal sex is becoming a much wanted feature of casual sex along with ALOT of porn star moves (spitting, swallowing, etc.). I've been told that the typical Caucasian woman loves to have it fast and hard. But when they get with an African-American man that knows how to move and take his time, it's a MIND BLOWING experience! ALSO, color contrast is the most used response. Which is totally lame. So, you know what that means....the guy or female is NOT interested in you as a person. Typically, as a black woman, I've been told by "too" many white men who want to have sex with a black woman that they are just "trying it out, because they've never had the opportunity to have sex with a black woman." Conversations like, "I want to lick that black puXXy" are the norm. I was married to a Caucasian man for 8 years and race was not the focus of our relationship, although I had been his first. He never made it a huge subject. He truly liked me for me, looks, intelligence, etc. Now a days online, its very rare to find a man who wants you, more than sex. Sex is the norm and the women are THROWING it out there, even to older men and men who really shouldn't be having sex (unemployed, losers, mentally challenged, etc.). Interracial dating seems to typically happen when persons from the same ethnic group (black/black, white/white, etc.) aren't giving the person of the opposite sex ANY play (typically because lack of attractiveness, oddities, intelligence). Sex is awesome if both partners know what they are doing and both are patient and can teach the other. (not sure how a woman can teach a man how not to put all of his weight on a woman...that's a good move). Well, that's my say on Interracial sex being better than sex with someone within your own race.

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Well narrated intil your qiote stupid comment on who should not have sex..like unrmployed and losers..think brfore you post.People do nor choose to be un employed so stop being condescending.
Pace of sex depends on individual and couplw's psycho sexual chemistry and metabolism.Lazy sex can work sometimes or for some people..but for most guys it actually is a drag beyond foreplay.
It also depends on penile size..extremely long ones take much longer to get turgid and remain hard..so he may not be doing it slow fir you..but gir his own vested interest.Before you hit back with tingue on torch..fo ask yourself.." "?
I wiuld ammend the part you wrote about who should not have sex because of their economic status as tvst will categorize you as variety which amounts to gold digging.
Good read otherwise!

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What you said spoke to me,one must love the person for who she is and not an object!I been with both races and blondes are most satisfying but ,I couldn't trust her!she was a hot woman desiring other men,leaving me in the dust..

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To the comment made by shylamae, I was in love with this man when I was with him and wanted to marry him. I'm sure there are many girls who lost their virginity at a younger age. I am well aware that God is forgiving. I lost my mother at a young age and I didn't have her guidance to teach me that my body was precious to God. My dad did the best he could.

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Sex should be done after marriage.. and just in case you fail to keep your virginity for your future husband , just tend to not engaged sex again for Sex is only for married couple.. ashamed not for you lost your virginity , God is a forgiving God. you knew inside yourself that Sex is not aproppriate thing without the blessing from God who giveth us the breath of existence so I think we should value and live this life through doin things in accordance of His will and not by our own, lust.. peace..God speed everyone

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Um, Is Chris Brown available? No, seriously I've got to say I have never had a chance with black men because I only dated white guys and I had a very strict religious upbringing. I lost my virginity at 23. I was deeply in love with him and he taught me about sex. He got me to open up and stop being ashamed of my body. He was amazing and Italian!

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It's all in the person. If the attraction is there and everything falls in place, race really doesn't matter. Great sex can come in all kinds of packages. Though I will admit that when something is more forbidden or not the norm, it can be a real turn on. I love the color contrast of a white man against my skin when making love.

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