Swinger resorts, sex vacations and erotic holidays for swingers

Vacations for swingers are trendy and hot. On this website we give lots of information about swinger resorts and swingers holidays. We talk about the pros and cons and most importantly you can you book your trip to all swingers resorts online here and ask us questions if you need help.For a list of swinger resorts you can book online, click here

What is swinging?

There are all kind of difficult definitions of swinging. On this site we like to keep it simple and have the following: “You are swingers, if you and your partner together have sex with other couples and enjoy it.” This is in our opinion the meaning of swinging.
When you swing together in the same room, you can see and hear your partner having sex, and most people who like to swing also enjoy seeing their partner involved in sexual activities with somebody else. Sometimes swinging is also called wife-swapping or partner swapping.

What is a swinger vacation / holiday?

A swinger holiday is a vacation especially for swingers. This means that couples book this kind of holiday trips mainly to meet other couples. Not only for drinking a glass of wine together, but mainly for sexual encounters.

Due to busy schedules, the average swingercouple only has time for sexdates with other couples, once a month. What would it be nice, if you could swing during the vacation. But during a normal holiday trip it is not easy to spot other swingers. You would certainly meet some couples which you would like to do. But it could get a little awkward, if after the BBQ with your new camping neighbors, you propose them to have sex together. There is a big chance they visit the reception the first thing in the morning and ask for another camping spot, because they don’t want to stay next to the perverted neighbors (that would be you).

So to avoid this, it takes a little preparation to find a place where you can meet other swingers. Preferably lots of other swingercouples. Luckily you found this website and we can guide you, because here you will find the most popular swinger resorts which can book directly online and also we are providing a list of all swingers resorts in the world.

What is the difference between a swingers holiday and a swingers vacation?

There is no difference in meaning between those two, only in geographical use. Holidays is used by the English people and vacations by the Americans. We use both words together on this site.

What is a swinger resort?

A swingers resort is a place/ location where swingers go to, to celebrate their holidays together with likeminded couples. Swinger resorts can be very small and very big. They vary in size from six rooms till thousands of accommodations. Some people prefer to go to small places where the contact with other swingers is more private and intimate, while other people prefer to meet as many swingers as possible during their vacation. Swinger resort are getting more popular every year and maybe these kind of extreme vacations are the worlds’ best kept secret.

What happens in a swinger resort can go beyond imagination. A lot of couples have sex with other couples. This can happen privately or in a public place, like the beach. There can be two couples involved which swap sexpartner between themselves, but also more than twenty swingercouples during a private sex party. You can read more details on what to expect on the corresponding pages of each resort.

Are there any disadvantages to swingers holidays?

Not really, but there could be some things to consider.

First of all, if you are new to the swingers lifestyle, you need to make clear to each other where your boundaries are. Talk about it very much and live up to it. It could be a good idea to visit a swingersclub first, see how that goes, before you go to a swingers resort for several days or weeks.

Secondly you can’t tell you family, friends, neighbors and colleges where you are going to. You have to be a little vague, otherwise you could get unmasked.

Thirdly you can have some troubles in finding a suitable location to make decent pictures, which you can show the people at home. Many swinger resorts are also nudist resort and it can look a bit strange if you are the only persons on the beach with swimwear or if you make a selfie and it turns out there are naked people in the background performing exual activities. In that case you probably have a few things to explain back home. Also be aware, that in many resorts it is not allowed to make pictures of other persons without their consent. Best place to shoot some photos usually is outside the resort. Don’t forget to put some clothes on and you probably want to make sure there is no geo location targeting active on your camera or phone.

In the fourth place if you go to a swinger resorts, e.g. for two weeks, you have very little to tell what you have done to the folks home. You can make up fantastic stories from places you have visited and things you have done, but nowadays everybody want to see pictures and movies as proof on Instagram, Facebook etc. So instead you have to “confess” that you have spent your entire time lying on the beach, reading some books.

The fifth point is related to the fourth. There is no way you can share your enthusiasm with anybody about what really happened during your holidays. You can’t shout it out on social media that you had sex with so many people, participated in spectacular group sex orgies and never came so many times. You and your partner delivered a top performance and no one will ever know. No medals, no red carpet, no flowers, no word of thanks, not even a pat on the back. The only thing remark that you might receive is, that you look a bit tired. Yes of course you look a bit tired after two weeks of sex party’s.

Finally, If you have visited a swinger resort once, there is a big danger you will get addicted to it and come back or visit another swinger resort, every year, the rest of your life. It really is that good and therefor these places are called a swingers paradise, because they really are. You can read all about what happens in the swinger resorts on this website. The things that occur in a swinger resort go beyond imagination. A lot of couples are having sex with each other, sometimes even in public. There can be two couples involved which are swapping sexpartners between themselves, but also more than twenty swingercouples during a private sex party. You can read more details on what to expect on the corresponding pages of each resort.

What are the benefits of swingers vacations?

For many swingers, going on vacation to a swinger resort is like going to paradise. The advantage are too much to mention, but we will name a few.

In contrary to normal live, you and your partner have a lot of time to go swinging. You are on holiday, so there are no social obligations and no work or other daily routines, which have to be done. In this environment you are relaxed. The weather is warm and you are surrounded by lots of people who have the same interests as you have. So to be short the conditions are perfect.

To make it even better. Since most resorts are also naturists zone or in worst case, clothing optional, you can see a lot of couples naked. Being nude and seeing other people nude all the time certainly is lifting the libido. In other words you will be more horny than usual. And not only you, this shall also be the case for most of the couples.

Depending on which swinger resort you are going to on vacation, you have the chance to meet tens, hundreds, thousands, or even tens of thousands of other swingers, which all have the same goal. Also very convenient is that the fact that most of them are completely naked, which makes it even easier to see, if there is sexual attraction between the four of you. Being nude has the advantage that what you see is what you get.

Couples who are insecure about their bodies, don’t need to worry. Swinger resorts certainly are not for fashion models only. All kinds of different people like to swing and they come in many colors, shapes, heights and sizes. They have a few things in common. On average they are very tolerant to other people, no matter what they look like. Also they like to have erotic moments with other couples. And they usually take more attention in grooming their bodies than normal people, so they look as attractive as possible. But that certainly does not mean, that all couples are perfect. By no means and the older you get, the less perfect you will become, but so do you swinger friends. What matters is the mutual respect and fun you are having. Also keep in mind that if you are very critical towards almost anybody, you will not have a lot of sex.

For some couples, fucking as many other couples as possible, is their ultimate goal of their vacation. A holiday in a big swingers resort creates the best thinkable environment to achieve that goal and if you really want this, it is certainly possible to have sex with different couples a day, almost each day. We personally know couples, who actually do so 3, 4 times on daily bais. If you are there for two weeks and you can continue this sexmarathon, at the same pace, you can get really high numbers.

But certainly not all couples are like that. In fact it is entirely up to you, what kind of holiday you would like to have. No one is counting for you, how many couples you have been doing and you don’t have any responsibility to anyone about the way you like to celebrate your swinging holiday. Some couples only have sex a few times with other swingers, during their vacation. Other couples like the erotic tension or having public sex. Maybe they do some soft swapping, but don’t have full swap sex with others. So even for swinger newbies, this kind of resorts could be interesting and fun, as long as you make good agreements with your partner. Even if you don’t swing, these kind of resorts are breath taking and lovers of nude bodies, erotic atmosphere and public sex will have a great time. The same applies to voyeurs and exhibitionists.

A swingers dating site has done some research on the topic, how many sex encounters swingers have had, during their swinger vacation. On average the answer was 10. Unfortunately it is unknown how many days the average swinger were staying in the resort, but based on our experience, we estimate that number is 10 as well. So this would mean once a day. Also it is not clear, what was understood by sex. Does only penetration counts or also oral sex, or maybe even sexual activities performed manually. In that case you can achieve that number within an hour in the naked foam party.

Finally as last argument in our list of advantages, we would like to add that in swinger resorts often all kind of activities and events are being organized to bring swingers together. Like certain theme evenings, pool parties or foam parties, where you can only walk in, after you have dropped all your clothes at the wardrobe, so you have to enter completely nude. You can imagine that a few hundred swingercouples, naked in the sun, know how to party. Not only is this a big commercial success for the organizer. Also the owners of the resort love to see you have a good time, meaning you can have all the sex you want with other swingers. That way the chances are big, you will come back next year. And like we said, this will become an addiction for most couples, simply because it is too spectacular, to skip that much fun for more than one year. So a lot of couples will be there same place next year.

Can singles also go to swinger resorts?

Yes some swinger resorts are open for singles too. Not all of them, but singles are allowed by some to a certain extent. This could mean that only a maximum amount of single men will be welcomed. Or it could mean, that as single you can’t participate in all activities, e.g the events or clubs that are couples only. But in general we can say that swinger resorts and also swingercouples are striking more friendly towards singles than they were ten years ago.

That is because there is a new trend that nowadays women dare to admit to their partner, they like to have sex with two men, for one time or occasionally. Two men can do things at the same time, which one man can’t physically do alone by himself. Of course you can do some mmf trio sex in a swingersdate between two swingercouples as well, but it is not the same. If there are two couples, there will be two women who like to be satisfied. If a swingers couple date with a single guy, both men can focus on the same woman and she can have all the attention as long as she wishes.

For that reason single man are more accepted then they used to be. And also the male partner of the swingerscouple accepts singles better than before. After all he enjoys playing with two women and you can’t deny the same desire to your partner.

So the answer is yes, you will find singles on some swinger holidays and many times they are having a good time too. Even if they don’t have sex, they will see things which they only have seen on their computer screen and most probably even more and better. Also there is a good chance he will have sex once of more than once, if he plays it right. On this site we have made a list of swingers vacations which can be booked by singles also.

Where can i find swinger resorts ?

A question which over the years have been frequently asked by email is: Where are the swinger resorts located?
Underneath we made a small list of the most popular swinger holidays. In the menu above you can find a link to all swingers resorts over the world.
The locations where most swingers celebrate their vacation are:
Mexico, Desire resort
Jamaica, Hedonism Resort
France, Cap d'Agde
Gran Canaria, Venus Resort
Several locations, Swingers Cruises
Spain, Vera Playa

Desire Resort

The Desire Resort in Mexico has been famous for decades and is very popular amongst swingers and erotic lovers. This Caribbean destination is open all year and most of the time the weather is very good. So you can leave your clothes at your hotel room, because as you might expect, the resort is clothing optional at most places. Meaning that you can decide yourself, if you want to wear clothes or go nude. Of course most people will be naked. Public sex is allowed at some places, so you can expect action here, during the day and during the night. This resort is a big hit and for that reason they have decided to open a second swingerresort: the Desire Pearl Resort very close to the first one, only 11 kilometers away from the original swinger hotel. The concept of this hotel is the same, but there are some differences.Book Desire Resort and more info

Venus Star Resort

Venus Resort in Gran Canaria is brand new and just recently opened its door in the fourth quarter of 2018. The reviews about Venus Star Resort are very good and it is already a big hit amongst swingers in Europe. In the autumn, winter and sometimes also in early spring, the mainland of Europe is often too cold for nudism and outdoor activities without clothes, like swinging in public. On the Canary islands the climate is much better and even in winter, the weather can be very pleasant. The resort has 100 square meters of erotic playrooms and the swingers hotel has 54 rooms.
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Cap d'Agde

The biggest swinger resort in the world is undoubtedly Cap d’Agde. Officially it is a nudist and naturist resort, but in reality this place is visited by tens of thousands of swingers every summer. In high season many thousands of couples are in Cap d’Agde simultaneously to have sex with each other. Wife swapping and public sex is taking place on a very large scale and this also happens in public. A few locations were this can de seen are: the swingers beach, the poolparty, the sex sauna’s , the swinger clubs and of course the daily nude foam parties (also known as mousse parties), which is probably the location with the most action.
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Hedonism Resort

In Jamaica we can find the well-known swingers resort Hedonism 2. This hotel has a whopping 280 rooms and is loved by many swingers and sex lovers worldwirde. It has a long reputation of more than 35 years and a lot of visitors of this hotel come here once or twice a year to party without limits. Hedonism II resort is known as hardcore hotel, where always a lot of sexual action is going on. Many americans are visiting Jamaica, just to stay here and also more and more Europeans can be found in this swinger hotel.Book Hedonism Resort and more info

Swinger Cruise

A relatively new form of celebrating your swingers holiday is taking a swingers cruise. A big cruise ship is completely taken over by a travel organizer and he takes care that only swingers and fans of erotic scenery and nudity are being welcomed on board. The result is a very naughty sea trip. Usually on the upper deck you can recreate completely naked. Public sex is allowed in some areas of the boat. The crew of the ship is not allowed to participate in the action and are astonished to find out what is happening on board of their beloved ship. Book a swinger cruise and more info

Vera Playa

In the south of Spain we can find the hotel Vera Playa Club, which is located next to the Playa Naturista. A nice thing about this nudist hotel is, that it is located in the middle of a big urban naturist zone. In this zone you can walk naked on the streets 365 days a year. This area is mainly visited by nudists and naturists, but it is less innocent as certain people like to believe. Very close to the hotel, in the nudist zone, you can find a big swingersclub and it did not appear on this spot accidentally. The beautiful surroundings of Vera Playa has been spotted by swingers as well.
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This site is under construction and will be completed in march and april 2019
Last update is 16 maart 2019.