February 2019

I just posted episode #42 of Himeros LIVE, my free weekly podcast about gay sex. This week, it’s a boyfriend episode! Davey and Finn are joined by their boyfriends in a conversation about gay sex and fear, and answer questions from the audience.

On our first day of filming, something unexpected happened. One of the models, who had recently experienced an act of sexual violence, realized that he wasn’t ready to film. I was grateful for his ability to speak up and ask for what he needed – especially when what he needed was difficult to express.…

When you type a phrase into Google’s search bar, it likes to predict the query based on popular search terms. For example, typing in “how to clean” might predict results like “how to clean… white shoes” or “how to clean… an oven”.

So what happens when you type “sexually transmitted” into Google’s search bar?…

I just posted episode #41 of Himeros LIVE, my free weekly podcast about gay sex. This week, I’m joined by sex coach Finn Deerhart in a discussion about the cornerstones of eroticism, an update regarding my ongoing YouTube saga of sex censorship, and an exploration of sex as art.

When we film content for Himeros.tv, most video concepts are brainstormed several months in advance.

Oftentimes, it’s a long and ongoing process that involves working with a team of gay sex experts, tantric instructors and sex coaches to carefully craft a video that both informs and excites. It can be slow, with lots of ups and downs.…

Last Wednesday, I posted a YouTube documentary about porn star Calvin Banks. In the film, which we created during a tantric retreat in California, Calvin details his experience with sexual abuse – and how it has impacted his porn career and personal relationships. It’s a moving and powerful story that the world needs to hear.…

I just posted episode #40 of Himeros LIVE, my free weekly podcast about gay sex. This week, I’m joined by sex coach Finn Deerhart and my best friend Matthew Thomas in a discussion about sex censorship on the internet, morning wood and getting over a breakup.