Welcome to the "Cosmo Catch Up," Cosmopolitan.com's daily news show. Today's topic: kinky sex! Watch the video to find how you can let the person you're dating know you'd like some bondage in the bedroom without totally, utterly freaking him out. Then tune in for the signs you should ask him out — because between the smile-inducing work texts and crazy adorable hangouts, someone needs to make a move.