Thursday, October 20, 2011

Before the Marathon Sunday, I had some prior engagements to attend. Headed to Ashland for Homecoming. It was also the 45th Anniversary for the Phi Delt chapter on campus.

I guess I didn't clear that with Jodi's best friend Deb, as she replied..."What, he's not going to be here?" Supposedly she was under the impression that we would be discussing the "spectating" route for the next day during dinner Saturday...

After putting the finishing touches on a gift bag I headed up to Ashland.

The A.U. campus has changed quite a bit since graduation. New student center, new streets with buildings, new sports facilities and a brand new state of the art football stadium RIGHT NEXT to our fraternity house.

New Stadium, Phi Delt House in the background

I mean, had that been there back in the day, I definitely would have gone to more games. Of course they also built a huge new pool, which would have been awesome to use. Our practices and meets were in a pool with barely any deck space.

New A.U. Pool

Didn't really have a plan for the day (shocking I know), so I stopped by the house, then headed to the parking lot where the brothers and alumni were tailgating. Ashland is a "dry campus" but I guess they allow alcohol in the parking lot during the games for tailgating (as long as it's in cups)

After awhile we headed to BW3 to watch the games and hang out until the Phi Delt dinner. Definitely weird seeing people old and young, as well as realizing I was in the 'old' category. LOL

Headed back to the house to change and get ready for the reunion dinner. We had about 175 people, which included alumni, family, actives and pledges at the PumpHouse Grill in downtown Ashland. Had a few speakers and presentations before settling into an amazing buffet dinner. Pasta, salmon, pot roast, veggies....Luckily for me I had not eaten all day.

Awkward moment time.....So a woman approached me, waiting as I finish a conversation I was having. I notice a camera in her hand, so I figured she wanted me to take a picture. No, she asked if she could take a picture of my fraternity pin that I was wearing. Her exact words were...'Oh, I don't want you in the picture, just a close up of the pin.' We laughed and I was fine with that. After 2 attempts, I guess the lighting was bad and the pictures were blurry. Well all of a sudden she says..."Ok, I'm gonna need you on the floor now". I tried not to laugh and she told be to hurry up and lie down, she doesn't have all day. Well, I was looking around the room for cameras thinking I was getting punked. It's not everyday I get told by a woman to get on the floor (insert laugh here) In my typical smartass self, I responded....'You think it'll be better down there, huh? Do I get to at least get to know your name first?' She paused and said not important....She never got the picture and later in the night as she walked by she laughed and pointed at me telling her husband that I was the one she wanted on the ground....

Tried to mingle and meet all the new guys as well as the older alumni, saw the plans for the new fraternity house and listened to some music.

As the night came to a close I needed to head back to Columbus. Would have been nice to hang out more and chat, plus the actives were having a pancake breakfast at the house in the morning. But I figured it would be more fun to hang out at a little race instead. :-)

Jodi had told me that I could crash with her and Deb in their hotel suite and left a key at the front desk. That helped me out, seeing how it saved me time and got me about an extra 45 minutes sleep, so decided on the couch rather than my bed....lol Plus I would not have to worry about not waking up as we planned all meet up around 5:30.

As for the football game, it was a successful Homecoming weekend for them. Ashland won the game 20-17 on a field goal as time expired. They played undefeated Wayne St University, who was ranked #6 overall in the country (Division II) The win moved A.U. into the Top 25 in the country at #23. It may not be big boy football like the Big 10, but still cool to see the alma mater play well....

Missi and Deb drove down from Cleveland Sunday morning (they are both early birds), so we hung out until Jodi was ready to rock and roll. So Deb, Missi, Deb and myself headed out to take Jodi to the start. On the drive to downtown it seemed like everyone and their mother was out in traffic at 6am. So Deb decided to take a different exit and go the backroads, which helped get us there alot quicker (and saved Jodi from stressing) Made our way to the start line after a pit stop and got as close as we could.

Pre-race with Jodi and Missi

After a few hugs we headed into the nearest building to hangout, warm up and chat while Jodi headed thru the maze of people for the start of the race. As we were hanging out, one of our objectives was to figure out how we were going to maneuver around the course to support Jodi. I had screen shots printed out of different mile markers, as well as the map of the course. Originally we figured we could drive to mile 7, but after looking at the map more closely it made no sense. It would be easier to walk a few blocks south to mile 9. This also helped because then on our way back to the car we could stop around miles 12-13 and surprise Jodi again.

We settled in at mile 9 and guesstimated the time that Jodi would pass by. In the meantime we cheered on the runners and also did a little people watching. Saw a 7ft guy running in a bear costume, a couple dressed as Fred Flintstone and Wilma along with a few other odd looking costumes. Then there were a few "was she/he really wearing that?" type clothing. I really do think people need to use the mirrors at their homes. I realize that it's not a fashion show, but wowwwww.

We finally saw a quite surprised Jodi running along the side of the road and she looked really strong. Wasn't even breaking a sweat. Watching a half marathon or marathon, it always amazes me the people who make it look so easy and effortless and others that look like they are in complete agony...The four of us headed back and planned to hangout around mile 12.5, although first the girls grabbed some coffee. They ran out of hot chocolate, so I was sh*t out of luck. Timed it perfectly as Jodi saw us and again had the effortless, fun times smile on her face. The easy part for us was done, now off to the important part...Finding our way towards mile 18 so Deb and Missi could join Jodi on the course when she needed it most.

Seeing how the 3 girls are from Cleveland and I live in Columbus, you would think I would be the one to navigate us around. Well, not so much. I'm blaming all the road closures, although the girls won't buy that excuse...LOL But no problems, we made it to the spot pretty quickly, parked and walked to the corner. This is the part of the race where people start to wonder, people start to break down, not sure why (insert sarcastic giggle) You could tell some of the runners were feeling it and you could tell just the opposite.

As we support the runners we know Jodi will be coming down the road. Sure enough we see her and yet AGAIN, if she was feeling tired you would not know it. I think she was partially excited to see us and partially exhausted but she still looked strong. As she comes up she almost tackles Deb and I and gives us a big hug, then joins Missi and Deb for a hug as they join her on the course to take her to the finish.

Deb and I head back to the car and try to navigate to the next stop, where I will attempt to hop on the course. I would have loved to jump in at mile 18, but 8 miles is a bit much since I just am coming back from injury. Again, we relied on the printout and Deb's phone app, but we made it there pretty easily. As we were waiting we chatted and supported the runners. I made the mistake of supporting too much. A guy came around the corner and slowed down to a walk, hands on shoulders and head down. I told him to keep it up and he's got this...all he did was turn and look at me and I think he was thinking to himself...Dude, shut up, how about you run...

The girls come around the corner and for the first time Jodi's face looked of pain. She wasn't happy to see me....heehee, I'm kidding. Miss and Deb looked at me and just shook their head, sort of a silent "not up for talking" shake. I hopped on the course with the 3 girls and Deb hurried back to the car to meet us at the finish line. I could tell Jodi was trying to focus and her head was spinning, but I already knew I had something up my sleeve (besides my arm that is). It was really quiet until we came to mile marker 22. This number is significant to Jodi based on her past 2 attempts. The first one, she literally has NO memory of anything past this marker and the second one, is what I like to call the awakening and a creepy mist left her body as we ran the streets as she called out mile 22. So this time I got her attention, smiled and asked what she saw. She kind of chuckled and yelled out 22. At this point she picked up the pace and relaxed a bit....mission accomplished. We continued along the course and I kept doing that at every mile marker. Around mile 23 she had mentioned that she was running all on her Uncle Joe's reserves. Her uncle passed away a few months back and she was dedicating the race to him. Miss and Deb both joined in with words of encouragement which at this point Jodi needed. As we approach mile 25, I knew she needed all the strength she could muster up. So I asked her what that flag said. She responded with a "25", but that was not good enough. I asked again and she responded. Still not good enough. After about 3-4 times she yelled 25 pretty loud and with a SMILE. The funniest part was the reaction of the other runners around us. I actually think her yelling might have awoken them as well to help them realize and finish strong. At this point Missi took over and in her best boot camp instructor voice, told her to finish strong and enjoy the last 1.2 miles. This was HER day. We approached mile 26 and my eyes were on Missi (no not cuz she looked hot, though she did...lol) but because I was waiting for the go ahead to get off the course and let Jodi finish what she started. I know Jodi had mentioned to me that she wanted us to cross the finish line with her, but this was not our race, this was HER race. Luckily she just kept going towards the finish. Granted she may have been slightly distracted knowing she was going to finish and she may have been a bit tired.

I needed to catch my breathe since my arse is slightly out of shape. Missi was feeling good so Deb and I followed her towards the finish until the corner with about 0.1 left. We tried getting off the course and people were yelling at us not to stop, which was kind of comical, especially with the looks on some of their faces.

We made our way to the finish line/family area to find Jodi and give her our congrats. Her smile said it all. Deb unfortunately got stuck in traffic but we finally all met up and slowly headed back towards the hotel to shower, grab a bite to eat at California Pizza Kitchen for a post race meal before the girls headed back to Cleveland.

This was HER race. (you can read her recap here). No Cleveland demons, awesome training runs topped off with beating her goal time. Nothing like earlier in the year. I mean who else can say they ran a marathon AND beat their personal best time by almost 2 hours?

Words can not explain how proud I am of Jodi for her day. I was honored to be able to share in her day with her and friends. She did not allow thoughts or people to distract her, she was not going to have a repeat of May. In the hotel afterwords, she tried to act surprised while telling us her next stop was a sub 4 hour marathon. We all knew better, since she made no secret of that desire. But we also know one more thing. When she tries for that sub 4....she will get it!

The inspiration.....Jodi with her medal and a smile

I headed home and pretty much crashed. The past 2 weeks caught up to me both mentally and physically. I am definitely looking forward to this weekend....Where the plan is to do NOTHING at all....LOL

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

If you missed Part 1 of this blog, click here to read the first part of the weekend...

On the way to mile 16, we met a guy originally from Perth, Australia, who was cheering on his girlfriend for her first marathon and was also with her parents. The reason we started talking was because I was trying to see who looked like they knew what they were doing. Come to find out others were doing the same and he was giving pointers. He's lived in Chicago for over 5 years now and uses the trains to get around and we just chatted about the city. He asked why we were not running (since we obviously were dressed to run a race) and Jodi told him her story, about the marathon next week and about Cleveland. Then we mentioned how we were meeting friends at a certain point to run with them on the course to support them later in the race. Right then the girlfriends father stopped us and immediately asked "you can do that!?!" We explained its probably frowned upon, but plenty of people do it, so it shouldn't be a problem. We chatted some more and it was time to switch trains.....They followed us (or I guess we followed them) and found the next one....

On the next train we also came across a guy who was cheering on his girlfriend. One of the fun parts of these events is seeing all of the signs of support, people dressed up in outfits, silly costumes, etc, etc.....During the conversation he mentioned what he did, which I found hilarious. He made a HUGE posterboard cutout.....of HIS FACE. He wanted to do something different, along with a little embarrassing for his girlfriend. Obviously the looks he got were different as people were running and seeing this huge poster and look down and see him. At least she would not be able to miss him on the course.

We get off the train and make our way to the bridge. We knew we had plenty of time, just not sure how much. We decided to relax and enjoy ourselves and had our bagels that we brought. But instead of walking towards mile 18, we felt, for some reason, just to hang out around mile 16.5 mark. Around that time we get a text alert, showing Missi and Deb have crossed the halfway point. Mixed emotions because we could tell something was off. That just wasn't their pace. I also continued to worry about Amanda, since we still never got the 10k update to our phones and was hoping she was ok. I decided to text her and she responded saying she was at mile 15. That was a relief. We figured we had about 15 minutes from where she was so we got off the grass and found a spot on the side of the road. My original idea/plan/hope from the start was to run 2-3 miles with Deb, Missi and Jodi and then stop and wait for Amanda to run a mile while Jodi finished with the girls. This was based purely on their paces and "goal finish". Well as we all know, marathons don't always go as planned (see my experience...lol) So I suggested to Jodi, how about we both just run to 18 with Amanda. Made perfect sense and now know "why" we felt the need to stay back.

While standing there looking out for Amanda and watching the crowds of people, I notice the guy from Australia. At that moment we see his girlfriend running up and she gives them all hugs. All of a sudden her Dad, who btw was a rather big boy, probably 6'4 300lbs and a knee brace, hops on the course and starts to run with his daughter. I look over to get the attention of her mom and she sees me, smiles and gives me a thumbs up. I don't want to take credit for that, but honestly seeing him on the course made me feel good. I mean, would he have even been able to share that moment with his daughter had they not met us? By the look on his face when he asked if people can jump on the course, I don't think so. Those are the little moments that people remember and while it was probably only 100yds or so, it was still a moment.

I let Amanda know approximately where we were at and we would be on the lookout for her. She had no idea of our plan to jump in with her. We saw her coming and each gave her a hug and asked how she was doing. The look on her face was priceless when we jumped in. It was a combination of "oh cool and where are you guys going" LOL We ended up running through the streets of where she went to college. She looked really strong. Now I must admit throughout the past few weeks that I sorta gave her a hard time about remembering to smile during the race. To the point where she probably wanted me to shut up already. But for that day, she had actually wrote, in black marker on her left forearm...MILE = SMILE to make her remember to smile at each mile marker as suggested. Of course the funny part is during our run she asked when mile 17 was approaching. When I told her we already passed it, she yells out "crap I forgot to smile" LOL. I guess we distracted her. We made it to the mile 18 marker and got off the course to wait for Missi & Deb.

We did some stretching, cheered some runners on and even took pictures of people by the mile 18 marker. (With their camera so they could be in the picture...haha) One thing we did see which I thought was funny was a guy running to the side of the road to meet a group of people cheering him on. He grabbed a beer and chugged it and then finished the other, got some hugs and went on his way. I'm fine with drinking a beer AFTER running. But to run 18 miles, drink then run another 8.2, well kudos to him. I personally may have tossed my cookies....lol

Jodi and I figured we would play it by ear as far as the running goes, depending on how Missi and Deb were feeling. She was scheduled for 8 miles in her training for Columbus next week and my plan was to go as far as 21, depending on how I felt and the fact that the nearest train station was in the area. We had an idea of how things were and where they were at based on the text alerts. Either way, Jodi said she was sticking with Deb, no matter what. We saw them coming and you could tell something was not right. The emotions of the day had gotten the best of them. I just sorta stayed back and observed, since at this point it was about the 3 girls who have trained together all summer. I was just kinda the 4th wheel, so to speak. I could tell it was similar to Cleveland with Jodi, in the sense that Deb was drained. So we all started off running and asked Missi if she wanted to run a bit and that Jodi would stay with Deb for now.

We headed through the streets of Chicago. It was an absolute party. The one thing that amazed me were the amount of people outside supporting the runners. The music was always blaring, people with hoses spraying the runners as they ran by. The atmosphere was incredible. Missi and I chatted a bit, asked each other how we were feeling and I was just trying to make sure she was still having fun, because that is the whole point. Friends and fun and memories. Then again, I think fun is her middle name. The girl doesn't know how to not smile or not enjoy herself through any situation. She must of been reading my mind because at mile 20 she asked if we could stop to let Jodi and Deb catch up, which was fine with me. I wanted to run with all 3 of them. We hopped back on the course shortly after as they were not that far back and made it to mile 21. Missi even gotten to use her "Sweat is just liquid awesome" line with a woman...She laughed at her and the woman's response said "oh my god, imagine if my kids heard me talking like this" We all started walking as this was a water station. At this point Deb was pulling a "Jodi". By that I mean telling Missi to just go finish and run her race. Missi of course wasn't falling for it and they went back and forth how it was not gonna happen. She even said something about "are we going to have to throw down right here or are we going to run". Ok, so normally, I may have been rooting for a cat fight, but there was no pillows and they were in sweaty running gear....Oh wait, my bad, I got off topic, back to the marathon...LOL I wanted so badly to continue, but I know the next train station back to the finish line was over two miles away. I was torn between helping them get to the finish line and trying to be smart so I don't injure myself again since I just got back to running. I regretfully headed to the train station to go to mile 26 to meet them as they finished.

I positioned myself near the final turn and luckily it was a good spot, since they had cops and volunteers ushering people off the course who did not have bib numbers. Makes sense and the majority of the people smiled and left. One or two people actually had to be taken of the course by force, which was kinda comical and few of us commented on the lack of common sense that people have. But it would be easier to find Jodi this way, rather than in a sea of spectators.

The set-up for the end of the race was a disaster. Actually it was worse that that. Just rediculous. Granted, part of our issue was that we had Deb's phone, so we had no way or idea of where to meet up. Normally at races you can meet at the finish line. Not here, they have everything fenced off and closed. We finally made it to an area to wait as runners were coming out and after awhile, found out this wasn't the only exit.

Amanda met up with us since she was at the hotel across the street and hung out for a bit. We talked about her race and how she was feeling. Finally after about at least an hour, we decided it would be best to find our way back to the hotel, since we had the key and said our goodbyes to Amanda. Wouldn't you know it, but after walking 5-10 minutes I get a call from Amanda letting us know she ran into Deb & Missi. Thousands upon thousands of people walking around downtown Chicago and she runs into people she just met the day before....lol We made our way back to the hotel and tried to relax a bit. Missi and Deb needed to catch a plane. It was definately a long day and I didn't even run the darn marathon...I have a newfound respect for those spectating and supporting people during a marathon. I even called Morgan, who has been the queen of spectating the past 6 months due to an injury. Heck she did this in a walking boot. Another shout out to her for being there back in May while we ran Cleveland....Once you get back out there I will return the favor.

Deb & Missi at the Expo with the perfect caption. Lets run TOGETHER

Running Recap

As far as my legs and feet go, they feel pretty good. I was really happy to get through the 4 miles. My only issue was cardio, but I've been a lazy bum, so that was understandable. (That's going to change soon, at least that's the plan...lol) I was still able to go at a decent pace, and talk a little as well.

Jodi ended up doing 9 miles and I think got to experience the other side of the struggles of a marathon. On our drive home, she would randomly thank me again for helping her through Cleveland or ask/tell me how she now realizes what her marathon meant and why it happened and what she learned. As her running "coach" told her, thats called good karma.

Amanda rocked out the marathon with an unofficial time around 4:50. I say unofficial because later in the day we found out why we were not getting text alerts....Her timing chip didn't work and was not recording the time. I know she was really bummed about it, but she started and finished and has her finishers medal, along with some stories/memories. Doesn't matter what a website says, you can't those things away. I can remember a time during her training that she said she wasn't sure if she could do a marathon. Look at you now....***Update*** Amanda received an email from the Chicago marathon today and was told they fixed it and she is now official. Woohooooo

Missi did her thing. This was her 3rd marathon, so she is a seasoned veteran when it comes to this. She was there to run a marathon, to experience the biggest marathon in the country and to be there to support her friend and training partner. Mission accomplished. She may be one of the most positive and inspirational person I have ever met and I'm glad I was able to be there for it.

Deb finished her first attempt at a marathon. It may have not been how it was planned or how she liked, it may have not been perfect, but with all the outside factors going on....Her Mom, getting a cold, first marathon jitters and the warm weather....She did something that most people never do, never want to do or never are able to do. She set a goal and FINISHED a marathon. I do know there will come a time where she will look back and understand the great things she did. She is an inspiration.

The whole "Chicago Experience" brought new meaning to things for me. Those 4 girls, along with countless number of people we met throughout the weekend, without even knowing it, showed me a thing about life. How to live it, how to deal with it and how to learn from it.

Next up is the the Columbus Marathon this weekend. It's Jodi's turn as the tables will be turned on Missi and Deb as they join to support her to cross the finish line.

There are plenty of things you get second chances at, sometimes even third chances.....But you only get one chance at life. Live it, Experience it, Love it....well, at least do your best at it.

Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success - Dale Carnegie

This past weekend I had the distinct honor and pleasure to take part in some friends marathons journeys. Jodi, who is in training for the Columbus Marathon the following week joined me to support Missi, Deb and Amanda. You can read her experience here. Missi and Deb are friends that I met back in April and for those that have followed my blog, know they are part of the "Cleveland 10 Miler girls" and are just amazing. I met Amanda for the first time this weekend after following her blog during her training and lives in Illinois. Missi is doing her third marathon. Deb and Amanda are both attempting their first. Deb ran in honor of her Mom, who passed away of cancer last year and ran with Team DetermiNation, raising money for Cancer research. Amanda ran for UPS for Downs in support of Down Syndrome.

Friday

Missi and Deb took an early flight out so they got to experience a fun day. Sightseeing and shopping. Jodi and I decided to drive or well, when we talked about going out to surprise the girls back in May, it was more like I was told I'm driving. LOL Headed up to Cleveland to pick her up bright an early. When I got there her son had a request....that I let Jodi wait for him to get on the bus...What am I going to say? Really? So I gave her husband another chance to go with us and he laughed. I'm guessing a quiet house sounded better.

For the most part, the drive was smooth. Got off an exit to find some food and hopefully a bookstore and there was nothing. Of course the lovely Garmin decided to take us all over the place EXCEPT to a road with an entrance to the highway.

Once we got back on the Interstate, we decided to find a mall at a main exit because I needed to get some books for the girls to finish off their gift bags. After finding everything, we left and realized we were right near Notre Dame. Not intentional but I sorta wanted to sightsee, never been there before. I joked if Jodi wanted to surprise her cousin, who is the starting long kicker for the football team, but we really needed to get to Chicago, especially before rush hour.

We finally made it to ChiTown, a little later than we wanted, but it is what it is. A scenic unplanned tour of a small Indiana town, dogs crossing the interstate, people singing in cars....We had our definitely had our entertainment as we drove. Not to mention numerous requests from someone in the car saying they needed to use the restroom....cough cough, not naming any names, but it was not me :-)

We finally made it to the hotel and hung out until Missi, Deb and her friend Mary Jo came back from their sightseeing of downtown Chicago. We sat and relaxed and talked before heading out on the town for some dinner. Headed down to the Navy Pier and decided on Harry Carry's Bar & Restaurant. It was a great dinner and fun conversation to end a long day.

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Deb, Jodi, Me and Mellisa

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Saturday

Woke about and got ready for the day. Didn't have an exact plan, so we headed out to get some breakfast at a nice family run place, The West Egg Cafe. Then it was off to the convention center so Deb & Missi could pick up their packets.

The expo was huge. I mean it makes sense, seeing how the Chicago Marathon is the biggest in the U.S. We walked straight to the back to get their shirts and packet. After that we headed over the the DetermiNation booth for Deb to sign-in. Honestly it was pretty emotional watching Deb fill out a sign for her Mom.

Personally I think at this moment, everything hit her. The memories, the first marathon, everything became "real". I'm extremely proud of everything she has done.

We then just headed to explore all the booths. There was no ryhme or reason, since I was just following the girls. It was their weekend. As we turned the corner we saw a sign for Hal Higdon, who is a best selling author and the longest contributor to Runners World magazine than any other writer. Along with books, he also writes training plans for runners, from brand new to experts....I used one of his plans for the Cleveland Marathon and Missi and Deb got theirs from him as well. The best part though was when Missi realized Hal was ACTUALLY sitting there. She was like a teenage girl meeting Justin Bieber for the first time in person. It was really a cute moment.

There were lots of vendors and free samples of things and I'm sure we could have spent hours walking around. While the girls went to look for shirts, Jodi and I went to the Nike Wall, where all 45,000 runners had their names located in alphabetical order. We took some pictures once we found them and went back to see how the girls were.

During this time I had been texting Amanda since she had said she wanted to meet us, so she was nice enough to make her way back to downtown, since she picked up her stuff the day before. I introduced her to Deb & Missi and we decided we would make our way back to the shuttle drop off to find a place to eat since we had not had anything since breakfast. So we hung out, exchanged stories and just relaxed. I guess Missi and Deb were under the impression that we had known Amanda for a long time, so they were quite surprised to find out that that was our first meet up, outside of blogging and emails.

Amanda, Me and Jodi

We decided to walk to the Navy Pier, take some pictures, walk around and just enjoy the great weather and company. Then it was back to the hotel while Amanda took a bus to her car. Of course I had to give her a hard time and remind her to smile and we wished her good luck in the case we could not meet up before the race.

It was getting late and we were all hungry, so just decided on pizza for dinner. Chicago deep dish, only fitting. Still is weird looking at pizza with sauce on the top, but it was really good.

The girls headed to bed, which I suppose was ok since they had plans early in the morning. So Jodi and I decided to head downstairs for a drink and try to figure out a plan of action for the next day. We busted out the "spectator map" and tried to figure out where to go, when to stop, how to get there. Of course I mostly heard "I'm just following you", since Jodi is slightly directionally challenged. heehee But we thought we had a good plan, especially since we had backups just in case. I was excited and nervous and I wasn't even running.

Sunday - Race day

Woke up bright and early. Jodi and I had our own itinerary and really had to just be prepared and not do anything to panic or disrupt Missi & Debs preparation for their day. Memo to self....When you are in a different time zone, change your watch. I may or may not have commented on how it was 6:15 and we needed to get changed also, since they wanted to head down around 6:30. Well, slight problem since it was really only 5:15, so insert foot into mouth. I figured if they were not awake, that at least got the blood flowing...LOL

The start line was about a 10 minute walk from our hotel. There was a point where they only let runners through, and we didn't want to make the girls nervous, plus had a few things to get as well as figure out how to get to the train station at some point. So we took some pictures, said our good lucks and hurried on our way and told the girls we would see them at mile 18.

Deb and Missi morning of the race

Granted, we didn't fill them in our plan to see them sooner. Headed off to the store to purchase our train passes, get some bagels and some flowers for the girls. Once we dropped stuff off at the hotel, we headed out and with the help of a friendly couple, made it to the station with ease.

On the train to mile 7 we met a guy...well, a 20 year old kid with an Ironman Finisher T-Shirt and hat on. Seeing how I really want to do one, I had to of course ask him which one he did, how he did, if he liked it, etc, etc. He finished the Wisconsin Ironman last month and was very modest with his answer to how he did....I did "ok". His sister had to jump in and explain that he finished 5th in his age group (18-24yr old) with a time of 10 hrs and 18 minutes, which is inspiring. I checked the site and he ended up 41st overall out of 1,630 men. For those unfamiliar with Ironman times, they give you 17 hours to finish in order to become 'official'. The high end/pro athletes do it in around 9 hrs. So the kid knocked it out of the park. He already was signed up to do Louisville next year and is hoping to qualify for Kona.

We made our way to the mile 7 marker and the train station just happened to be down the road from Wrigley Field, which was pretty cool. The streets were jam packed so we weaved our way in and out, found an open spot and snuck in to watch the runners. Being the really shy person that I am, we struck up a conversation with the people around us. One of the guys next to us was holding a sign that said "Chaffed Nipples are Sexy". The sign was a hit with everyone it seemed as the runners always laughed or made comments. Some even pulled up their shirts to show their bandaids. Unfortunately for me, they were all dudes that did that...LOL

We ended up getting text alerts (from the 10k mark) so we knew the girls were near and when to expect them. Unfortunately we saw them too late and they were on the opposite side of the road. Although Deb did turn her head as we yelled and maybe she thought she was just hearing things...heehee At that point it was back to the train station. We thought about toying with the idea of heading towards the halfway point, but decided it would be a risk, since the main deal and the main purpose was to be there at 18.

But we decided to leave and not do any of it and just drive home...Ok, ok, ok, just kidding...heehee

About Me

I started this blog for a few reasons. Main reason: this will be a good way to keep myself accountable for my marathon training (plus future events I plan to do). Also doubles as an "out of the box" learning experience for me in this journey we call life.
This is DEFINATELY out of my "comfort zone". Normally I don't tell anyone anything about what I am doing, or about what I'd like to do. Felt like if no one knew, then I could back out easily. But I've realized that does not help in my growing process.
Until recently, I've forgotten what it's like to dream, what it's like to live. Being a former college athlete, I'm excited to get back to dreaming, back to setting goals, back to focusing.
I'm a great listener who doesn’t like being center of attention. When the attention starts easing my way, I put up my guard and deflect it back.
This blog will hopefully chronicle my struggles and triumphs in my life. I expect good times but realize there will be downfalls. I hope to inspire as well as learn from others. There also may be some off the wall, what the heck is he talking about stuff too.
Life's all about living it...You can't live it if you don't experience it.