... ities are pretty much set by the time they reach adolescence. If you have never felt love or concern for others or remorse, you are unlikely to ever feel it. I hate to be the one to tell you this, but that's the way it is. ... (14 replies)

... This has only happened in the last year, ever since I started college. Iam having a very hard time relating and sympathizing with people, especially in large groups. I hate "hanging out", doesn't matter with whom. ... (7 replies)

... One lesson to learn in life is that you should never look to anyone to make you happy. that way you give your power over to them. Rather say, Iam happy or I feel happy when Iam with this person or that person. I feel you have lost a lot of self confidence as well. ... (4 replies)

... I don't know what iam, at first i thought i was maybe borderline as i took tests online and each time it came up saying i had extreme borderline and not quite so extreme histrionic and dependant. So maybe thats what it is. ... (3 replies)

... Well, I know your post is a few months old, but just wanted to say I read it, and for you to know that someone is listening to you, and does care. Of course, Iam not professional, but do love to try to figure people out, and talk to them, and just try to help them to the best of my ability. ... (2 replies)

... t unusual to withdraw from the world for a while, but don't let it become habit. Find a Divorce Recovery group or get some counseling to help you through this. I take it you were born in 1972? ... (4 replies)

... i dont have any friends , i work about 50 hours a week, been divorced...i filed the complaint, i just cant trust people, have always been let down or disappointed by others, im falling into a rut and seclude myself from my family. what should i do. ... (4 replies)