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Leather Bear Tails is about the leather journey of my slave and I. It deals with all parts of the leather and BDSM experience from safety to predators, to skills, and all of the lovely mistakes that she and I make along the way!!
Also!! I have written a book called "M/s for the Rest of Us" it can be found for purchase here: http://www.lulu.com/shop/k-e-enzweiler/ms-for-the-rest-of-us/paperback/product-22151343.html

I have written a book called "M/s for the Rest of Us" it is available for purchase here: http://www.lulu.com/shop/k-e-enzweiler/ms-for-the-rest-of-us/paperback/product-22151343.html

Or on Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Rest-Us-K-E-Enzweiler/dp/1329062213/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1432825657&sr=1-2&keywords=m%2Fs+for+the+rest+of+usI am the founder of the Albuquerque Masters Group. We meet once every other month. The group is open to all who wish to explore their Mastery, slavery, or Dominance and submission. Please contact me here or at my email : Bigdykebear@yahoo.com for more information! The meetings are free to all who wish to attend!

If you are interested in power munches, skills workshops or play parties in the Albuquerque area please contact the 20 year organization of AEL at:

aelmailing@gmail.com

If you are interested in active online community please find:

Fetlife.com

Group names for the Albuquerque Community Include:

Land Of Enchantment Fetlifers

Albuquerque Kinksters

KinkySpot Clubhouse

Albuquerque Master/slave forum

New Mexico Leather League: Leather/Kink/Fetish and More

Friday, September 9, 2016

my dream workshop

If I had the
opportunity to run my dream workshop.

It would be an
M/s weekend.It would include separate space
for Masters and slave with the focus on 24/7 long term relationships. It would be open to D/s types as well and/or
people interested in starting to transition to an M/s house. It would be free or
5$ per person. Open on Friday morning with classes. It would not be “talk at
you” classes, it would require people writing in notebooks, thinking, and
defining things for themselves. There would be a potluck component and end with
a BBQ/ play party on Saturday night.

Friday:

8- 9:30:
getting the basics downfor 24/7,long term

How to
organize your needs, defining your desires, time management.With an emphasis on self-discovery and
insight.

Break from
9:30 until 10

10-
11:30:Taking apart pre conceived constructions
of Mastery

Redefining Mastery
for the individual. Looking at how social pressure and stereotypes influence us
as Masters. Asking the tough questions of “how do we define Mastery within ourselves
and our relationships outside of social expectation?”

Lunch from
11:30 until 1:30

1:30- 3: How
to train a slave.

How to
define your needs and defining the steps to get those needs filled. It would include
what to do with failure, understanding manipulation, and how to recognize when
it is no longer healthy for the Master.

Break until 3:30

3:30- 5: Creating
dialogue.

Bringing the
Masters and slaves together. It would involve exercises like- they all get
asked a question and answer it in their notebooks.Then choose whether or not to share it with
each other. The emphasis would be creating a dialogue on expectations, fears,
failures, and understanding.

It would ask
the tough questions like “I don’t understand it when you…” and “I expect …”

End at 5

Saturday

9:00- 11:00:
Practice training

The Masters
and slaves would come together and they would practice applying the training
that was discussed the previous day.Going
through all of the steps with a new skill.

Break from
11:00- 11:30

11:30- 1:00 Setting
up a House

Going
through a calendar, looking at daily expectations, and creating a vison for the
future of the self and the relationship.

Lunch 1- 3

3:00- 5:00
Discipline

What is it,
what does it mean? What is effective and what happens when it fails.

End at 5

Group dinner
at 5:30 and then a play party.

The “s”
types would also have classes.I would
get with my slave to see what things would be helpful in dealing with the big
issues that weight on “s” types.And yet
allows the groups to come together from time to time.

That would
be my dream workshop to run.

At the end there
would be no graduates, caps, or patches given out. Just ideas, confidence, and
hopefully friendships.

About Me

I am a Master identified lesbian. My slave and I have been together in in a 24/7 dynamic for 14years. This shows how patient she really is... I have written a book called "M/s for the Rest of Us." It is available here: http://www.lulu.com/shop/k-e-enzweiler/ms-for-the-rest-of-us/paperback/product-22151343.html
I love discussing M/s in real life terms, not just the ones put out there by unrealistic, holier then thou, better then everyone people. We are real people living a real life, it involves mistakes, miscommunication, undone chores, and the experiment gone wrong. ie... playing with emergency candle wax. And neither I nor she will put out there that our flawed lives are any better then anyone else's!!!