Expert answers: Spring fashion, wine pairing and more

Now that my kids are a little older, they’re involved in so many activities. They want to do it all. Any tips on cutting down or choosing just one sport at a time?

You’re right to understand that kids need a little downtime to just be kids. It’s important for kids to have time to hang out with friends, read, relax and be creative. Here are a few questions to ask your children to find out whether their lives are too pressured: Are they genuinely excited about the activities? What pleasure do they get out of them? Are they participating in these activities because they want to, and not because they think you or their peers want them to? Do they have enough time for their schoolwork and for a good night’s sleep? If the answer to any of these questions is no, you should be able to make a case for cutting back.

— The experts at FamilyEducation.com

FASHION MATTERS

I want to get away from my heavy, dark winter clothes. Any tips for updating my look for the new season?

One of spring’s biggest trends is as feminine as they come: Floral prints are in bloom on tops, dresses, skirts and even trousers, and mixing and matching patterns is encouraged. Shoes with clog-like details are all the rage, and they can add a lovely, Earth-mother element. Mushroom-colored nails are one part subversive and 100 percent classy. Thinking like a gardener this spring produces a ladylike look.

My college-age son would like to go away (without parents) for spring break. Any tips for talking to him before I let him go off with his friends?

It can be a challenge for parents when your children go away. When talking to them before they go it is important to keep a few things in mind. First, before you start in with the scare tactics, it is a good idea to speak to your child on a level that ties into their sense of morals. Talk about how you want them to have a good time, and yet also the importance of knowing right from wrong. This way they are far less likely to discard what you say and rebel. Conversely, they will know you care about them, want them to have fun and still have healthy and positive expectations for them.

— Professional life coach Shannon Graham, www.321lifecoach.com

WINE & DINE

Curries are a favorite in our household. Can you make some suggestions about wine pairings?

As curry dishes tend to be spicy and sweet, you want a wine that won’t be overpowered by these “in-your-face” flavors, but also one that will complement the dish. I suggest either a Riesling or Gewürztraminer if you want to go with a white, or a Zinfandel if you prefer a red.