i am going to the midwife had the worst day ever yesterday with other half. we was constantly arguing. we put in a deposit for that house and they are doing credit checks on us both but my partners paying off a loan and in his over draft so i hope that doesnt ruin out chances as the house was lovely.

i was so close to just finishing everything yesterday and i want to say thanks to everyone thats been helpng me on here recently wit my posts as its made me think differently.

my o/h said to me the only thing im good for is sex nd im not even good at that anymore now im pregnant he dont know why he got me pregnant and the list goes on i jus sat their crying and he walked out. when he got in i started getting texts telling me how 'perfect i am'. my minds pretty confused atm with everything && the one thing keeping me going is my baby girl..

im at the midwife this morning and going to tell her about my headaches ive told o/h not to bother coming along and i just hope everythings ok and my blood pressures ok not to high due to stress.

Im sorry too but i wouldnt put up with that crap.... My DH would NEVER EVER talk to me like that.... i deeply shocked that you can take this esp when preg... be careful and think of number one.... Do whats best for you and baby... Dont let him treat you like a mug he sounds like hes using you and ya dad... xxx

Im sorry too but i wouldnt put up with that crap.... My DH would NEVER EVER talk to me like that.... i deeply shocked that you can take this esp when preg... be careful and think of number one.... Do whats best for you and baby... Dont let him treat you like a mug he sounds like hes using you and ya dad... xxx

i'll second that hun your worth more x xx

_________________luana Schreckengost & Bambi Morningstar jr

Tue Nov 13, 2007 10:15 am

mummy2+1due

ED BABE

Joined: Thu Nov 02, 2006 11:30 pmPosts: 713

You really dont need to put up with that from anyone hun!!

No one should speak to anyone like that! you are carrying his child & he has got no regard for the way he is treating you & in turn no regard for the baby as his behaviour is putting you under a hell of alot of stress which will do your little girl no good......at the end of the day theres no point in me saying leave him, you can do better, & this is no life for you & baby etc because Im sure in the cold light of day you know all this & you will do what you like (not meaning that in a harsh way) but if it was me I would have been shot of him a very long time ago, he is a pathetic excuse for a man.

I hope you see sense that he is never gonna change & leave & make a fab life for you & your little girl before she is born so that she is not tangled in a life of daddy taking drugs, dissapearing, putting down & making mummy unhappy etc

good luck xx

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Tue Nov 13, 2007 10:32 am

Glenny

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Joined: Mon Jan 16, 2006 3:34 pmPosts: 7981Location: ED mostly

aww hunni - you really dont need that kind of crap - he sounds like he's trying to be quite controlling - hope everything goes well at MW today x

Tue Nov 13, 2007 10:35 am

angie_2

ED member

Joined: Tue Feb 27, 2007 10:38 amPosts: 26Location: ED Hardcore 4eva!

what horrible things to say! its time he realised he has to become more grown up and responsible to be a good dad. hope u sort it out xxx