Is "i Miss You" The Same As "i Love You"?

A lady colleague at work travelled home for two weeks. When she came back, everybody welcomed her back warmly. On my own part, I playfully told her i missed her. Though we used to share jokes and generally gist before, now she hangs around me and sends me text messages. Its seems obvious to me that she assumed that i toasted he by saying i missed her. Please what do i do now? I don't really "miss " her like that!

Dude you are right. I had a similar experience while having extra mural class for JAMB. I don't even talk to the girl. But one eveing after classes she was sitting alone by the gate as I was leaving (maybe she set a trap for me, who knows). So I just asked her nicely if she was okay, why is she alone there, is there any problem. That was how I detonated a hidden BOMB. The rest is history.

Nop, Nop Nop, Aint the same. do you know you could miss an enemy who you haven't seen for a long time? hahaha now you get what i mean. You can however miss and love someone at the same time. pls dont mix the idea up.

Yorubas say "pele l'ako o ni abo" ( Meaning = even an apology can be tendered in a harsh as well as a repentant manner).

How did you say your "I miss you"? was it in private? was it to everybody's hearing or was it something that sounded like you reseved it for a special moment? Did you say it while you gave her a hug? the questions can go on and on but think about it. It takes two to tango.

Your topic title does not relate to your question. Anyway i guess she felt you where flirting with her, so correct it if you dont really like her. and i miss you if definitely not thesame thing as i love you. next time say "we all missed you" if you feel you must talk too.