D,E,F

Diapers – Waterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions

Dollification– A specific form of D/s in which the submissive dresses or acts like a living doll, and the dominant takes on the role of the doll’s owner.

Dominant (Dom) – The one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. A Dominant should be well versed in many areas of sexual play for safety. The responsible One.

Dominatrix– A dominant, usually female and often a prodomme.

Domme–female dominant.

Dungeon-Usually referring to a room or area with BDSM equipment and play space

Dungeon Monitor-a person who supervises the interactions between participants at a play party or dungeons to enforce house rules – essentially, the bouncer of a BDSM event. They sometimes also play cruise director to keep/get the party going.

E

Edgeplay– SM play that involves a chance of harm, either physically or emotionally. Because the definition of edgeplay is subjective to the specific players, there isn’t a universal list of what is included in edgeplay. However, there are a few forms of play which almost always make the cut, including fireplay, gunplay, rough body play, breath play, and bloodplay.

Edging– The practice of sexually stimulating one’s self or another person to near the point of orgasm, often repeatedly, without allowing orgasm. This can be done to create an intense state of arousal, to tease and frustrate the person being edged, and/or as a form of control

Endorphins–Naturally-occurring opiate-like chemicals produced in the brain in response to pain, which block pain and can produce a euphoric sensation. The euphoria sometimes described by people who engage in BDSM is often attributed to endorphins.

Enemas – A thorough anal cleaning involving a water bottle and tube. Most frequently used in medical scening although might also be used for control scenes as well.

Exhibitionist– One who is sexually aroused by showing others his or her body or by being watched, particularly in a sexual setting or while engaged in sexual activity

Exhibitionism – Common dictionary term meaning a perversion marked by a tendency to indecent exposure; an act of such exposure; the act of practicing or behaving in such a manner as to attract attention to oneself. Scening involving the display of public / private exhibitionism in order to exert control and / or humiliation. NOTE: In many countries, this form of play, is illegal and will get you arrested if caught by law enforcement.

Face Slapping – Involves play where a moderate amount of slapping of the face is used for humiliation / control.

Fear play–Any BDSM activity centered around creating the feeling of fear in one or more of the participants. This does not necessarily have to involve elements of pain or actual danger; sensations of fear may be created through the use of psychological pressure, sensory deprivation, the threat of pain or discomfort, or even exposing a person to the object of a phobia.(proceed this with caution. Much damage can be done psychologically)

Fetish– A specific obsession or delight in one object or experience.

Femdom–A power exchange relationship in which the dominant is female. Often (but not always) used to refer to a relationship between a female dominant and a male submissive.

Figging–The practice of inserting a piece of ginger root into the anus or vagina.

Fire play–Using fire as an implement of BDSM. This can mean blowing the heat of a light torch onto a bottom, lighting pools of fuel on the bottom’s skin, lighting flash cotton on the bottom, and other creative uses of heat.

Fisting (Anal / Vaginal) – Play which involves placing or attempting to place the entire hand (or even both hands) in the rectum / vagina. The hand is only formed into a fist, and once fully inserted, requires an extreme gentleness, care, and patience. Involves moving of the fist in and out of the orifice and can be a dangerous technique if not performed correctly. Proper study should be done, before attempting such, and after care is extremely important.

Food Play – Where the Dominant controls amount and type of food allowed to be consumed by the submissive. This includes liquid intake as well.

Forced Bed wetting – Forcing the submissive to purposely urinate in the bed. Most commonly used as a form of control / humiliation and in age play scenes

Force-Feeding – A technique by which the Dominant controls the submissive’s eating habits. Used to “fatten up” submissives or in age play games.

Forced Homosexuality – Scenes where the submissive is forced into having sexual relations with someone of the same sex.

Forced Heterosexuality – Play involving the submissive performing forced sex with someone of the opposite sex.

Forced Masturbation – Scenes where the submissive is forced to perform masturbation in front of/for the Dominant or others as a form of erotic / sensual play or humiliation.

Forced Nudity – A scene which involves forcing one’s submissive to remain nude either privately or publicly. Generally as a form of control / humiliation. Note: In some areas, this is illegal in public.

Forced orgasm– An orgasm induced in a person against that person’s will or as part of resistance play, often by means of bondage combined with sexual stimulation.

Forced Servitude – A form of play involving the submissive acting as a servant / maid to the Dominant. May be played out in public or in private as a form of humiliation.

Forced Smoking – Forcing the submissive to smoke (usually cigarettes); however, other various types of smoking are used in heavy S/m play.

Forniphillia– a specific type of bondage combined with utility D/s in which a person is bound and immobilized, and then used as furniture, such as a table or footrest.