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Dyspareunia—When Sex Hurts

Sex shouldn’t hurt. But for too many women it does. Between 10% and 20% of women in the U.S. experience persistent pain during sex—a condition referred to as dyspareunia. Dyspareunia can have a significant impact beyond a woman’s sex life. It can affect mental health, self esteem, body image, and relationships.

What causes dyspareunia?

There are two types of dyspareunia, classified as entry and deep. Entry dyspareunia refers to pain experienced with initial or attempted penetration of the vagina. Deep dyspareunia refers to is pain with deep vaginal penetration. The cause of dyspareunia differs depending on whether the pain is entry of deep.

Causes of Entry Pain Include:

Vulvodynia, which involves chronic pain and irritation around the vaginal opening

Vulvar vestibulitis, a subset of vulvodynia that involves pain and redness of the vulvar vestibule

Vaginismus, a condition where the muscles around the vaginal opening involuntarily contract and make penetration difficult or impossible

A previous injury such as an episiotomy (cut made during childbirth to enlarge birth canal)

A skin problem in the genital area, such as lichen planus, lichen sclerosus

Causes of Deep Pain Include:

Endometriosis

Pelvic inflammatory disease

Uterine fibroids

Pelvic adhesions, as a result of previous surgery

A retroverted uterus (i.e. the uterus is tipped backward)

Some causes are associated with both entry and deep dyspareunia, such as vaginal dryness (either because of a lack of arousal or vaginal atrophy) or vaginal infections.

How can it be treated?

Since dyspareunia can have so many different causes, the suggested treatment will depend on the underlying issue. For example, lubricants may be recommended is the issue involves vaginal dryness, while any underlying causes of dryness would also be addressed. For women with fibroids or endometriosis, a provider might suggest new sexual positions that can increase a woman’s comfort during sex. In cases of vestibulitis, a biopsy may be required. And for women with endometriosis or pelvic adhesions, laparoscopic surgery may be recommended. For cases where the cause is unexplained, a provider may recommend counseling or sex therapy to help explore a woman’s attitude toward sex and better understand the source of the sexual pain.

The important thing to remember is that there are options to deal with dyspareunia, no matter the cause. The first step is to talk to a provider to determine what might be behind the problem and learn what can be done to solve it.

ASHA has developed a short, information tutorial for women experiencing painful sex after menopause, in partnership with WedMD. “Painful Sex: Getting Your Groove Back During Menopause” is for women who may have pain during sex due to of vaginal changes from menopause. It is also for their partners, as well as others who want to learn more about this condition. It discusses how hormonal changes affect your vagina over time, ays to ease vaginal pain during and after sex, which over-the-counter products and prescription medications may help, and ways to talk about your symptoms with your doctor.

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