Great advice, any recommendations for music to shag to? Btw I think we need to start saying shagging in America, it just sounds more fun than fucking

Depends on your taste in music. Nothing too intense or mushy if you're just fuck buddies. Something fun, sexy and sweet, or hardcore bang-your-brains-out music. Like I said, depends on what you're into.

that's so sad Irina. I don't believe you have to be madly in love to make love with someone. Its more in the act of the thing. Even if it turns out it wasn't love there is a time in every relationship where at least you believe you are in love. In a way I believe I've been in love with most all the women I had been with, even if they ended up just using me and breaking my heart in the end. Save for a few little fucks I had where I was just generally bored with life that is. Of course I was a real Emo little fuck when I was younger and way before Emo was even Emo. Had to crack a lot of eggs and so forth.

that's so sad Irina. I don't believe you have to be madly in love to make love with someone. Its more in the act of the thing. Even if it turns out it wasn't love there is a time in every relationship where at least you believe you are in love. In a way I believe I've been in love with most all the women I had been with, even if they ended up just using me and breaking my heart in the end. Save for a few little fucks I had where I was just generally bored with life that is. Of course I was a real Emo little fuck when I was younger and way before Emo was even Emo. Had to crack a lot of eggs and so forth.

I know what you mean. But I have been and still am in love. But if you're fucking your fuck buddy, no matter how much you care about him, it's still not love.

I feel you on that, I've never been in a relationship like this either, i also believe ive loved ever woman ive ever been with, even if it was for a very short time and I'm usually the one getting hurt. So fuckbuddy isn't really the right word, we dated for awhile, and we brokerage up for calm rational reasons even thought neither of us wanted to. Now were still pretty much dating, but we can date other people, even though I don't want to. So yea, this thread got real depressing real fast.

Fuck-buddies are for those cowards who will risk nothing at all and, having risked nothing, will never ever climb their way out of the empty holes they live in.

I resent this statement. I don't think I could ever be happy if I hadn't had a couple of the fuck buddies I did.

Anyway I need more advice from Rosie.

Oh wise Rosie, I have a lot stuff to sell when and where should I sell my junk?

Do you have an online auction type website? Ebay, or something more local?
If so, do that.
Or are there places near you that do a car boot sale type thing?
I'd go with selling on the interwebs first though, as long as you can get to a post office and stuff.

I think Tuffy meant that heart would be included in the soul. Giving the soul to someone is a highly intimate thing that a person would, likely, never do with a person to whom they do not have a deep emotional attachement.

I think Tuffy meant that heart would be included in the soul. Giving the soul to someone is a highly intimate thing that a person would, likely, never do with a person to whom they do not have a deep emotional attachement.

Haha.
I think I know what you mean but I was not referring to that. I don't even know where I need to be. This year has been so crazy from this point of view and I've made so many mistakes that I can only hope I've learned enough.
I've been quite the bitch and I really regret it.

Rosie, I think I want to get a motorcycle. Not a big loud beastly Harley beast or whatever, but something smaller and quiter, more versatile, but not like a moped or scooter either. I have a friend who rides a scooter and it is silly. he does not get chicks, though he pretends he does. Where's he put 'em? On the handlebars? "Hop on! Hold tight!" (Brrrrrruuuuuuukkkkkkk!!!)
My reasons are not sex-fueled at all, however, and more so coming to acceptance with the fact that I will never drive cars. Cars are death machines. Sure, I won't turn into Bubble Boy on a bike...I know I can fall off, bugs will hit me, my parents will disapprove...But I will never get my face cut out by a shattered windshield on a bike. I will never get trapped by a seat-belt garrote inside of an upside down burning bike. I will never be suffocated by a deployed airbag in a ditch. And cars get shit clipped off them because they are too fat and stupid. With a bike, I can squeeze right through, the way I squeeze through life, so it's fitting. In a minute, I'm gonna go youtube a bunch of bike accident videos and way the pros and cons of fly-sliding sixty feet of scorching gravel with a bunch of padding on, versus ramming head-long into a windshield without a helmet. Better yet, I am going to put on some pads and go slide sixty feet across scorching gravel, and then head-long into a glass window without a helmet...because hey, I gotta learn to live dangerously if I'm gonna take on a motorcycle. What do you think, Rosie? Is it time to put my cunt to the wind? Mbbbrrrrrmmmmm MMmmmbbrrrrrmmmmm MMBBRRRRUUMMM!!!!! I'm scared.

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