I've been hearing the term Prostate Massage pop up more and more. Has anyone had one done to them or given one? Is it something I should definitely experience? Anyone in the Southern NJ/Philadelphia area have experience with it?

I am sorry for you that your wife refuses oral but what does that have to do with massaging your prostate? If she does not want to stick her finger in your pooper then she can get a little wand vibrator with a nice curve at the end stick it in there find your prostate then get on top of you and ride bay ride! Or is she too vanilla for that?

I just got a digital camera now I need a computer to download pictures. I do not think my employers will be too keen on me downloading my naughty pics onto their system.

2-3 times a month is more than most people get. The not being intimate or affectionate sucks though. Is there something that you can do to make it better? I don't want to pry or give my two cents where it is not welcome. I am the kind of person who likes to try everything I can to help others be happy.