How Do You Trust Anyone - Tips

Thu, 8 Jul 2010 00:41:48

Hello Sarah,
I am an honest person, therefore I trust people, I
see it as being possible. I have learned the world is about 80 percent liars,
therefore I check them...
I am not sure trusting others is needed, I think
trusting myself is needed, I was having a good laugh when this girl here in Togo
said she was looking for a man who would not have sex with other women. I asked
if she could name a man here who is like she wants, she said she know of none. I
asked her to telll me the name of a women that has sex with only one man, she
could not name one.
I said, then I assume you are not capable of being
loyal and fidel because you are from Togo.
The whole culture works and nobody trust anybody, I
do not see trust as being a necessary need of love.
Trust issues are about being hurt, a person that is
worried about being hurt, does not trust, they do not want to be hurt again. I
on the other hand assume that everyone will hurt me or let me down and when they
do not, I try to bring them closer, and allow them to get closer so they can
hurt me more. Love requires a belief and a willingness to be hurt.
None of this is important in the end, I find the
people who love me, never leave me, even if I am bad, does not happen much
anymore, but I am recovering alcoholic and have lost many friends, now I have an
overabundance.
Trust everyone, check them and test them, and do not
invite them all home for supper. I sometimes think that people do not trust
people are not trustworth, but then who really cares, not important in the
end.
Andy in Atakpame, Togo West Africa.
Thanks for much for the speedy response! Muchappreciated.I feel
like your responses beg more questions, i'mvery intrigued. But I'll leave
you to traversing theglobe. Where are you from originally? I
sensed anaccent in your responses. How do you afford to getaround
and how do come to trust anyone, for thatmatter? Ok-enough, I said no
more questions, I'm notgoing to bug you any further. :>
Thank you very much.Sarah
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