What sex acts do you think should be tried before you die? They can be vanilla, kinky, sensual, wild, beautiful, intense – whatever you think will offer a person nice fodder for when they are slumped over in their wheelchair in a nursing home someday.

Leave your suggestions as a comment. Let’s make this a sex-positive community based project!

I’ll compile my favorite 100 and post the list sometime in the next few days.

In the snow, in the mountains, under a full moon. (Must be full combination.)
Floating on your back in freshwater (with your partner above you while you are weightless.)
Lifted skirt against a boulder from behind.
Looking into your partner’s eyes for the entirety. (intense, I haven’t completely accomplished that because its SOOOO intense!)
Multiple partners
Casual sex
Kiss the same sex

I’ve done this precisely once, a couple of years ago, and I wouldn’t make a habit of it, but YES!

I was always a ‘I’ve got to really know him’ kinda gal. Then I was at a wedding, met a guy, spent two days naked in a hotel room with him. We fucked and talked about fucking, told each other deep, dark secrets about our sex lives. Incredibly empowering to have a blank slate.

Can I add to the list?

1. Sex with someone famous.
2. Turning down sex. (Again, that can be *so* empowering).
3. Take someone’s virginity. (Consensually and respectfully, of course).
4. Someone else obliviously in the room/very close by/on the phone. (This may be a kink – my mom once rang when I was being eaten out, and my partner said ‘no, answer it’. And that call lasted an hour and I pretty much exploded the moment the call was over. Then my partner pointed out that we couldn’t assume dad hadn’t been doing the same to mom during the call.)

The next one … this sounds so vanilla when I type it:

5. First time with the woman on top.

That first time, we always seem to end up basically with the man leading. Or is that just me? Anyway, my first post-divorce sex was with a guy that wanted me in charge. It was pretty conventional woman-on-top stuff, but to have all that control *first* was incredible.

These are very good, thank you! I added the woman on top one to the list, even though that requires a woman be involved in the sex act and is not very gay male-friendly. I tried my best to make the list gender neutral.

If you mean things I have not done I still wish to do the list is now short, but “min” has the general concept.
This is the scene
Lady #1 who is a regular sex partner sets this up. She invites Lady #2, who knows me but has never had any type of sex with me, over to her place for a three way. They have a drink, etc and when Lady#2 says something like “when is your friend getting here?” Lady #2 says “He is here” and that is a my cue to come out from another room. I have a mask on that completely covers my face (small slit for eyes and just enough of a mouth slit to get my tongue out, no jewelry on, any other recognizable feature covered but otherwise nude. Lady #1 has told me exactly what Lady#2 likes, and I proceed to do that without a word spoken at any time. After we played. sucked and fucked so Lady#2 is fully satisfied, I simply turn and walk out of the room, locking the door behind me, dress and leave by a back door. When Lady#2 realizes I am not returning to the room and asks Lady#1 who it was, Lady#1 says “he will tell you when he is ready, but that could be never”.
I let several weeks go by – then I go to where Lady#2 works, or to an event she is attending, maybe her church (the more formal, public and unexpected the better) and I turn to her and say quietly “By the way, you were a great fuck last month”

Sex with someone of the same gender
Anal
Oral
Double penetration
Fisting
Threesome (mmf & mff)
Group sex
One night stand
Rough sex (to your pain tolerance)
Sensual sex, ie sensation play
Outdoor sex to include daytime & nighttime
Bondage
Blind folded
Under the influence (pick yr poison)
Masturbation
Mutual masturbation
Make a ‘sex tape’
Take pictures
Foreign object insertion (something not made for sex used as a sex toy)
Sex with toys!
Watch porn with your partner
Watch porn alone
Figging
Writing words on your partner (humiliating or positive)
Gagged
be watched
Do the watching
Orgasm without genital stimulation
Sneak off & have sex at a party
Sex during mensuration
Role playing
watersports (might be pushing it but I think its fun & harmless & worth a try)
Sex with weapons (knives, gun etc) doesn’t have to be in a threatening/rape way but in a I have all the power now what? Kind of way
Sex in a make love way, bathed, lotion, fed, pampered & pleased.
Take ‘advantage’ of someone while they’re asleep & let yourself be taken advantage of

I think for kinky people we take simple sex acts for granted sometimes. I’m often surprised how many people I talk to haven’t done ‘the basics’. I participated in most of those listed before I was even of age so I have a skewed sense of what is typical, clearly.

I just read some of the other suggestions and want to go on record that I never had phone sex until my current partner, it took me 36 years. Ha! I’m so shy that I thought I would go my whole life without it.

How could I forget in the pouring down rain?
I like The Bee’s Knees answers.

It’s funny. Usually when I see lists like these, I want to have done most, if not all of them. And whatever I haven’t done/read/eaten usually goes on a list to get done/read/eaten. But with the sex list, I don’t think that’ll be the case. I’m pretty vanilla, which I don’t like to say because I think it sounds boring. But vanilla sex is not boring. Especially when you’re creative and sensual. I think that’s the list for me: Be creative and sensual and active in your sex life for the duration of your life.

I know I saw one or two of my suggestions already, but here goes:
Receive a BJ while driving a car
Sex in a car
In the woods
In a pool
With an ice chilled vagina
Sex in the shower
In the bathtub too
On an outdoor balcony, while looking at beautiful scenery
In the bathroom, while at a wedding

After 36 plus years of marriage, the last 20 being close to or completely sexless, I would love to just hook up with a woman with passion, libido, imagination and a parallel life to mine. List of one. Cheers.

When I was in a bdsm relationship, one of my favorite activities was to perform a blowjob on another guy while being spanked firmly by my Dominatrix. The more of her female friends that were present to observe…the more fun it was.