Toy For a Newbie

Dear Rachel and Claire, I recently went out and purchased some sex in a box...I wasn't satisfied, because I thought that the bigger the vibrator...the better...can you recommend a toy for someone who is just learning how to give her self pleasure?

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DearNewbie Thrillseeker,

When it comes to vibrators, intensity is the variable to compare. For folks whose orgasms are harder to get, I recommend the high intensity Hitachi Magic Wand. A smaller choice is the Pocket Rocket, which puts out a lot of buzz with just one AA battery. For those who want penetration with their vibration pair a G-Spot toy with the Wand or try our best selling Orchid G. Another fun option is the Sex Toys 101 kit which comes with our book about masturbation and sex toys, two vibrators, a starter buttplug and lube.