You will not find these "rules" spoken in many wedding vows. They never need to be. In my opinion, these rules are naturally followed by two people that truly love each other. I am not a relationship expert. What do you think? Please send your anonymous comments about the Unspoken Rules of Relationships. Thanks!

A New Years Resolution: Stop Cheating on the Internet

Are you an internet cheater that is trying hard to be faithful? Have you promised your mate that you would stop looking at porn, but you still do? The internet has a powerful lure. Here are tips to help you reduce some of the temptations the web can present you with.

1) Admit to yourself that your internet use is causing problems in your relationship.

2) Have a purpose when you go online. Don't sign on because you are bored, lonely or had an argument with your spouse.

3) Keep your computer in an open location. Do not go online when you are alone.

6) Spend more time with your spouse, family and friends. Enjoy real life activities that that take you away from the computer. Go for walks, go out for dinner, exercise, shopping, see a movie.

If you are sincere about changing the way you use the internet, try these steps. Your partner is sure to notice and it is a good way to start rebuilding trust in a relationship damages by internet infidelity.

DrStansbury.com Marian Stansbury, Ph.D.

It is a common misconception that an online cheater would have cheated in real life given the opportunity. Some of the reasons that online relationships are different than those in real life are given in this article on Dr. Stansbury's web site.