'I don't give a f*** about the tons of other women': S&M-loving investment banker's live-in 'sex slave' speaks about relationship and reveals he wants people to think he is Mick Jagger

The 'sex slave' of the S&M-loving banker who allegedly went into a fit of rage after she discovered he was cheating on her said her former master wants people to see him like an 'S&M god' and 'Mick Jagger'.

Frankie Santiago, 27, said she was fully aware of what she was getting into when she entered into a relationship with Manhattan investment banker Edward Sonderling, 53, as he has a reputation for having a kinky lifestyle.

Speaking to the New York Post she said: 'He had this reputation before he dated
me — his reputation preceded me. So when he started coming
on to me and pursuing me, I was really flattered. He was attractive. I wanted to fall in love.'

Real-life Fifty Shades: Frankie Santiago is said to have embraced a role as live-in fetish slave to dominating Manhattan investment-banker beau Edward Sonderling, left

Miss Santiago, who admits she likes leather and latex, was arrested on charges of stalking, criminal mischief
and aggravated harassment.

She admitted smashing her former lover's windscreen after a violent bust up with him when speaking from her New Jersey home yesterday, while also revealing how obsessive he is about maintaining his youthful looks.

'He wants to retain his youth,' she said, adding that he 'wants people to see him as this S&M god, this king...Mick Jagger.

'We got into an argument. A car window broke. Who cares? It broke,'

Sonderling is a successful financial adviser and current CEO of Priority Investors LLC, a New York-based investment
advisory firm. Despite this, his S&M life is there for all to see on the
internet.

Known as King Eddo
in the BDSM circuit, Sonderling describes himself as a 'whipping
aficionado' and would openly tell people that he 'whips Santiago every
morning before breakfast'.

Sonderling is a successful financial adviser and current CEO of Priority Investors LLC, a New York-based investment
advisory firm, by day and a 'whipping aficionado' by night

King Eddo: Pictures on Sonderling's MySpace page shows he is not shy about his S&m lifestyle

But Miss Santiago said this was just a
small part of their three-year relationship, which started going south
because of the 25-year age gap.

'We
actually [had] a real life together. We’re friends. We like to wear
costumes. We party together. I was a fashion student, I like the
costumes. I like leather and latex. Lady Gaga wears leather and latex.

'We [did] things together. We [went] places. The relationship was over a year ago when I told him I wasn’t sure about his age.

'And then he said, "No, you’re different, you’re special." And I did feel that. That’s why it lasted so long.'

It
was reported yesterday that she went berserk on Sonderling after she
discovered he was having an affair with another woman.

But she denied
these claims, saying: 'I don’t give a f*** about the other women, because there
are tons of other women. Tons.

'He’s a very successful man. He’s going to have a lot of women.

'The fight with Eddo happened after a party because I had no idea that the relationship was over.'

Friends and neighbors told the Post Sonderling is youth obsessed and spends hours working out at the gym.

'He’s a pretty boy. All he knows how to
do is doll himself up,' said one source familiar with Sonderling’s
underground lifestyle. 'He’s extremely vain. It’s all about his image,
his persona.'

Sordid fantasy: Sonderling wanted people to think of him like an S&M god and Mick Jagger, according to his ex

Police say Santiago discovered her 'master' was seeing someone else late last month.

She confronted him at his apartment on July 29 and at one point threatened to kill herself with a kitchen knife, sources told the New York Post.

After finding airline tickets for Sonderling's new partner at his apartment, she posed as the new woman and cancelled them.

She also set up a fake email account in Sonderling's name and sent his new girlfriend insulting emails claiming to be him.

Santiago was arrested on Monday after what police sources described as a 'knock-down, drag-out fight' at the East 57th Street apartment they shared.

A friend of the pair said about their relationship: 'Basically, she was there to serve his sexual needs. She’s his toy, his fetish slave.'