speaking of being personal... Mint, why don't you respond to the part that your "general statement not being general"? why do you have to keep pointing out CD and how YOU THINK that i worship CD? so what? when you have nothing to argue about, you just attack ppl personally?

I was depressed for a long time and never really engaged in these forum discussions, and as such, many members of this site mistook me for being weak and dumb. well, i am neither. thanks to CD, i have recovered.

CD would never stoop so low as to argue with you on these things. but i dont aspire to be her - her height is too lonely. i dont mind stooping as low as your level and having some fun here.

So Mint, "Have you personally confirmed with CD what she really meant to say?"

Hello? have you heard of words? I can read. If you haven't realized, that's what words are for - they are there for conveying meanings and thoughts. So, yes, by reading what she wrote, i can say i personally confirmed with her what she wanted to say.

"Again, you seem to like to use her words as bible."

you must be very mad that i am not take your words as bible. yes, i worship CD, and love her - there, i said it. Sue me? and the reason for me to worship her is very simple: she's worth it. she's my queen.

Unlike you, who's dying for attention and being worshiped, she doesn't expect any of it, which makes me worship her more. like a typical shanghainese woman who grew up in shanghai, you are dying for attention. no matter how you disguise it, you can't in fact disguise it. but i will never worship you like i worship her, for the same simple reason: you are not worth it.

Also, just because i agree with someone,doesn't mean i take their words as bible. if that's what you believe, your view about the world is a bit too narrow, too childish, little girl.

and when you agree with someone, can i say the same about you? oh i forgot, my bad, you think your own words are bible.

by the way, when you say those words, "Again, you seem to like to use her words as bible.", i wonder what your real state of mind is. jealousy? defiant? or a sincere concern of my mental well being? well, i doubt it was the latter. i've dealt with many narcissists. they have pretty disguise but their hostility always shows, even thought it's sugar coated.

by making such snide comments, you think you are being smart. well, you are trying very hard, i give you 10 for effort. but you are not as smart as you think you are. not even close.

you want attention. but of course you won't admit. you are not that smart, but you are smart enough to try to disguise your true intention, which, isn't that harmful, by the way, when you dont do it at other ppl's expense.

so yeah, you can seek attention however you want, as long as you dont do it at my expense.