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Not every stepmom is a SMOM. While the 1st important step in healing and growing is getting all the compassion you need. At SMOMS.org, this is the very first thing we want every new member to experience. Howver, what may make us unique as a site for stepmoms is that we're all about taking that next step in personal growth. Working on ourselves to become more conscious of what we're feeling, why we're reacting as we do, how to eliminate our resentments & find that happy, close connection with ourselves & our partners.​

Looking for a group of stepmoms dedicated to personal growth & to interacting w/ respect & kindness? ​​​SMOMS.org is strictly guided by the Kindness Guidelines (See them under "About us.") This site is NOT for every stepmom so check out our guidelines to see if this is the place for you. Join us on our loving compassionate exploration of self-discovery, new skills, wisdom & creative problem solving.