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I wasn't quite following your story, but in general, it sounds like the other couple had doubts and maybe wasn't into the whole thing. The fact that they invited another woman over to your table during what was supposed to be "your" time would have been a HUGE red flag for me and I would have stopped everything.

Mr Wanna and I would just take this as a learning experience and move forward.

Best of luck to you guys next time!

Lahaina HI

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Thank you for the kind words - We had met and spoke with this couple many many times... but we have learned a valuable lesson that people are not always what they seem to be. For awhile we will be not looking for any partners but going to the club for us and our fun and nothing else!! *** At least for awhile***

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Marcie & Ron

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I have heard and seen alot of this and I am sorry. I would say just take a little more time perhaps meet with no intention of anything sexual and see how that meeting goes. It works great for me if I dont get the right vibe they get a nice thanks but I dont feel the connection needed to pursue this any further. Good luck! Best advice I ever got was take my time finding friends and go with someone that I am really into because then my nite will end up fun no matter what.

Spring TX

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BTW Your are a beautiful woman.

Remember: no points off for grammatical errors. LOL

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I am so sorry for your experience. Your play mates were dishonest jerks. This not a common experience but things similar things do happen from time to time. They tend to happen with younger people. Your play mates were not experienced in the full sense of the lifestyle usage of the word. They've just fucked a lot. Sorry for the crude term but they were very crude people.

Our recommendation.... Go to clubs, parties along (with each other..lol) in your own car. get naked as soon as you have the nerve. (great conversation starter). Don't be too clingy. wander about, but not too quickly. Laugh and have fun...

We love you

Curt n Jane

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Hi everyone - i just needed to vent .. Last weekend we had our 1st exp with a very advanced couple. BAD MISTAKE!! Previously told I was too old for the hubby in this couple so I was ok with a possibly a 3som with me - my hubby and the wife. Well as we got closer to the meeting I was told by the wife that the hubby had changed his mind and he wouldlike to play also! FASTFOWARD to Sat night (my bday also) all started out good and fun - I kinda noticed the hubby not really into the whole thing and I gave him 2 OUTS to change his mind he was like NO i want to - ( my hubby had desided that if her hubby didnt play as well we would not go any farther) We were drinking and dancing having a good time and they invited another lady to come sit with us ??!! She was nice and al but I felt a lil strange about the wholething. After awhile we went over to the "fun" side and went into a room and the other couples hubby leaves ????We ( 3 ) played a lil but stopped short of the real fun stuff !! We were like ok where is he ?? So ended up he really didnt want to be there and she only wanted my hubby - so nothing else happen and we went home - Is this something that happends alot or is this just a bad couple !!