Islam/to sucess my love

QuestionAssalamu alaikum sir,
iam a muslim girl age 17 of a good family.iam in love with a boy of a muslim family.
We love each other a lot, he is ma 4 yrs elder..
Its not an infactuation,its a real lve. I saw a lot of boys around as my friends, bros, cousns, even though boys who coming to flirt.bt ever i dnt see such a boy like him, u may feel iam saying this coz of my lvr ,never it is i na him before ,i was attractd too coz of his charactr way of behave.

His family had supportd our lve, in ma family some r dr to know abt this..,
sir, i dnt want loose him ,iam sure if iam nt dr he cant live it was a world truth coz nly ma lve he got first at his childhood he lost his parents love through divorce.our name is same ma ashikha and his ashik.help me through any salah or surah? Iam ready for anythg,
plssssss

AnswerBismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)

Assalmalaikum

Dear Sister,

The love - infatuation you have will not bring any good.
However beforehand I wish you could do isitkhara.

Istikhara
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Bukhari Vol 2, Book 21. prayer At Night (Tahajjud). Hadith 263.
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Narrated By Jabir bin 'Abdullah : The Prophet (p.b.u.h) used to teach us the way of doing Istikhara (Istikhara means to ask Allah to guide one to the right sort of action concerning any job or a deed), in all matters as he taught us the Suras of the Qur'an. He said, "If anyone of you thinks of doing any job he should offer a two Rakat prayer other than the compulsory ones and say (after the prayer): 'Allahumma inni astakhiruka bi'ilmika, Wa astaqdiruka bi-qudratika, Wa as'alaka min fadlika al-'azlm Fa-innaka taqdiru Wala aqdiru, Wa ta'lamu Wala a'lamu, Wa anta 'allamu l-ghuyub. Allahumma, in kunta ta'lam anna hadha-l-amra Khairun li fi dini wa ma'ashi wa'aqibati amri (or 'ajili amri wa'ajilihi) Faqdirhu wa yas-sirhu li thumma barik li Fihi, Wa in kunta ta'lamu anna hadha-lamra shar-run li fi dini wa ma'ashi wa'aqibati amri (or fi'ajili amri wa ajilihi) Fasrifhu anni was-rifni anhu. Waqdir li al-khaira haithu kana Thumma ardini bihi.' (O Allah! I ask guidance from Your knowledge, And Power from Your Might and I ask for Your great blessings. You are capable and I am not. You know and I do not and You know the unseen. O Allah! If You know that this job is good for my religion and my subsistence and in my Hereafter... (or said: If it is better for my present and later needs). Then You ordain it for me and make it easy for me to get, And then bless me in it, and if You know that this job is harmful to me In my religion and subsistence and in the Hereafter... (or said: If it is worse for my present and later needs). Then keep it away from me and let me be away from it. And ordain for me whatever is good for me, And make me satisfied with it). The Prophet added that then the person should name (mention) his need.

( Note: I am not a mufti, if you are in doubt or want 100% accuracy please verify the above hadith with an authentic personality. However I have not altered any hadith and presented it as and how it was found. May Allah forgive our mistakes from time to time...ameen.)