No. They didn't have the cajones to tell the person they loved face to face that they wanted to be with that person. I can only imagine what else that person would be hiding. Cowardly scum don't deserve my pity.

No im to loyal and have a high standard i want someone that will only look at me with those eyes not let them wander with there body along with it.
i want them to be my possession alone if u cant except that then hon. u cant be mine, like the saying goes, there are plenty more fish in the sea. and i would gladly explore those fish instead of being tied down to a man that i dont know i will be able to trust again.

If their is one thing that makes my blood boil it's people who betray the trust of whoever they are with. Just thinking about it makes my mad...
Scumbags that can't control themselves deserve no pity and I would have no tolerance towards cheating. I catch you cheating on me? We are done with 0% chance of getting back together.

Depends. If it was a friend cheating on there partner. My respect for them would go down. If it is my wife or girlfriend. Well the relationship would be over. No amount of begging or pleading would suffice. When people cheat in a romantic type of relationship they permanently destroy any pillars of trust you had in them. And when they try to mend it they are just trying to set up weaker pillars that will never hold the same weight as the previous did. <<<----If that makes any sense. I wouldn't hate them. But I could no longer be with them because I would always harbor a feeling of betrayal and mistrust around them.

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That in a life and death situation they would feed me to the wolves.
Why would I want to keep a weak, pathetic coward like that anywhere near me?

No respect, as it happened to me after 13 years of marriage. I was activated for a year in the Air National Guard and while I was away she was contacted by her bf from high school. (He was married too) I found out when I got the hotel charge on our bank statement. Confronted her and she said sayonara.