Hi,recently i bought this this handy programmer ( http://goo.gl/KjgWFU ) to use with my mini pro in which i've soldered these ( http://goo.gl/rcF6yJ ) thinking it would be easy and comfortable way to plug it in. But then i found out that pins on the programmer are too thick. Neither any of my dupont male pins fit in ( http://goo.gl/Ll1kJ4 ). Only these do ( http://goo.gl/JR3aVq ).Having to stick that programmer into a breadboard and having wires with proper pins come out of it to the arduino isn't really what i wanted

Then i saw this guy ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIhVrx0Idbg ) using some sort of converter but I couldn't find. i Don't even how to call it which makes it way harder to find such thing on ebay.Could you please help me out?

And I was also wondering and wanting to ask - Do have any tips on some cheap, small, easy to solder, 6 pin connectors I could use in the final encased version my project instead of these bare pins?